Nowadays, the social climate is gradually opening up, and people's expectations of the other half have become broader. When looking for a life partner, people no longer place too much emphasis on age or family conditions. As a result, marriages with large economic disparities or age differences are becoming more common.
Especially for many young women, when they first step into society, they have a desperate need for money, so they sometimes choose to build relationships with men with a large age difference in order to pursue a happier life. Nowadays, people pay more attention to self-care, and many men are still young and vigorous despite their old age. This, combined with their superior economic conditions, attracts the young women around them.
Recently, three women who have experienced a relationship with an older partner in their lives have been honest about their true feelings.
Xiaomin, a 21-year-old college student, has just stepped into the age of 21 and is an ordinary college student. However, she has some living conditions that are difficult for regular girls to achieve, all from her boyfriend. Xiaomin's boyfriend Zhao Chen is over 46 years old, and if he had married a few years earlier, the children might have been about the same age as Xiaomin. The age difference between the two is quite large, and it stands to reason that they may be two people from completely different worlds, but Xiaomin's life is funded by her boyfriend Zhao Chen, which brings these two seemingly mismatched people together.
Xiaomin's family financial situation is difficult, and she has always relied on the funding of kind-hearted people in the society to go to college, and Zhao Chen is her benefactor. After learning the news, Xiaomin did not hesitate to find Zhao Chen, saying that she would work hard to repay him. This blunt behavior surprised Zhao Chen and made him deeply impressed by this sweet girl.
Despite Xiaomin's poor family, she has a strong sense of self-esteem. Once she learned that Zhao Chen was the one who funded her, she did not hesitate to express her feelings of repayment. This candid approach surprised Zhao Chen and made him take a keen interest in the young girl.
Because Xiaomin felt that Zhao Chen lacked nothing and had nothing to reciprocate, during the time the two got along, she gradually developed a good impression of this 46-year-old mature man. Soon, she became Zhao Chen's lover and came together. Although she no longer worries about making ends meet financially and can enjoy luxuries that she never thought of before, because she has no name, she has become the focus of discussion at school and faces rumors of being adopted. However, even so, she never considered ending the relationship with Zhao Chen.
That day, when she saw "the woman who was eaten by the old cow, did she regret it?".She did not hesitate to express her inner feelings when asked this question. She has no regrets, and despite the loss of many things, she has also gained money and wealth that others do not have, which makes her feel satisfied.
28-year-old Zhao Jia and 53-year-old Liu Tao are married, and the age difference between the two is 25 years. At that time, Liu Tao had been working in a good work unit for many years, and he was only two years away from retirement, which was also one of the reasons why Zhao Jia was interested. Although Zhao Jia's parents were against the marriage, she was confident in Liu Tao's age and career, believing that he was in the best stage.
However, Liu Tao's past marriage and adult children have become shadows in the lives of the two. Zhao Jia's father had a huge conflict with her after learning about this marriage. Since the two are halfway husband and wife, Liu Tao's trust in Zhao Jia is not high. In life, they have always maintained a clear division of money issues, and Liu Tao's children's attitude towards Zhao Jia is even more troublesome to her.
Zhao Jia is young and energetic, and has a certain need for sex, but Liu Tao sometimes struggles to meet her expectations because of her age. After marriage, Liu Tao became more and more inclined to follow their advice under the influence of his children, which led him to have doubts about Zhao Jia in terms of money. This made Zhao Jia begin to doubt whether she was right to choose to marry Liu Tao in the first place, and she regretted her married life more and more.
Liu Min has entered the stage of 35 years old this year, and has experienced an unsuccessful marriage, which is a marriage full of sister and brother love. At the beginning, she was convinced that as long as two people who loved each other were together, age should not be an issue. Therefore, she resolutely chose to marry a boy younger than herself. However, after getting married, she realized that the reality was far from what she had imagined, and finally decided to end the marriage with her husband.
In the previous marriage, Liu Min has been taking care of her husband, so when she welcomes her second marriage, she is eager to find a partner who is older than herself, and she is eager to enjoy the taste of being cared for in life. By chance, she met Wang Kuan, who was 60 years old, and met him through a friend's introduction. When they first met, Liu Min was quite taboo about Wang Kuan's age, but in the process of getting along, she gradually became attracted to this well-groomed man, so the two quickly came together and decided to spend the rest of their lives together.
Unexpectedly, shortly after their marriage, Wang Kuan fell into the predicament of hemiplegia due to cerebral hemorrhage. Since they have entered the marriage hall, Wang Kuan's children have also handed over the responsibility of care to Liu Min. This sudden change caught Liu Min completely off guard, and she never thought that her happy life would be abruptly stopped at the beginning. Although she had considered filing for divorce, once she had this idea, Wang Kuan's children would cause a commotion, so she could only stay and shoulder the responsibility of taking care of Wang Kuan.
So, while answering that question, she couldn't help but shed tears. She felt deep regret for falling into the situation where the old cow ate the tender grass.
Actually, for"Old cows eat tender grass"This phenomenon, as a man, is easier to understand. Regardless of age, it is almost a rule that men tend to seek out young female partners. Once the economic base reaches a certain level, many men tend to choose to form a relationship with a young girl. It can be said that for many men, it is a dream.
Nowadays, many young women in order to live the life they aspire to, for:"Old cows eat tender grass"does not exclude, and will even take the initiative to find a male partner with better economic conditions and a large age difference. However, before making this decision, it is important to think carefully to ensure that we can find happiness in this kind of married life with a large age gap.
In fact, it is not unreasonable to propose that a similar age be required at the time of marriage. Because a large age gap between the husband and wife means that there are big differences in thoughts, experiences, and ways of thinking, which can make it difficult for the marriage to last for a long time.
Marriage is an extremely important thing for women. When choosing a marriage partner, it is important to consider the whole picture, and you can't rush into marriage just because of money and ignore other aspects. After all, marriage is not only maintained by money, and if the two people are too different, even more money may not make up for it. Therefore, it is important to think carefully before making a decision, otherwise you may end up with only regret.