In our lives, we will always encounter all kinds of difficulties, sometimes we will lament the injustice of fate, complain about all kinds of unsatisfactory life. At this time, the weak often choose to pour out their grievances and expect help from others, while the strong know how to help themselves and work hard to overcome difficulties.
In the face of difficulties, the weak complaining will not solve the problem, but may make themselves more negative. As the ancients said, "It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish." "Complaining doesn't really change the situation, it can lead to a spiral of negative emotions. The self-help of the strong is to seek solutions to problems through their own efforts, constantly accumulate experience, and improve their abilities. As the saying goes, "It is better to ask for others than for yourself." "Only you can save yourself and get out of the situation.
In life, we must not only learn to help ourselves, but also learn to care for others. When a friend or loved one is in trouble, we can listen to them and give them care and support, but at the same time, we should guide them to find their own solutions to solve the problem. In the process, we can impart some experience and skills to help them increase their self-confidence and face difficulties bravely.
In short, when facing the difficulties of life, the weak will only make themselves more negative, while the strong know how to save themselves. We must learn to be strong in life, bravely face difficulties, constantly improve ourselves, and at the same time care for others and grow together. In this way, our lives will be better.