In today's Internet era, almost everyone has multiple group chats stored in their mobile phones, social groups, work groups, and even supermarkets and shopping malls. Although group chats bring convenience to people to some extent, careless mistakes can easily lead to awkward situations in group interactions.
Nowadays, in order to facilitate communication between the school and the parents of the students, many classes have set up their own parent groups. In this way, teachers can directly exchange information with parents in the group, avoiding misunderstandings in the process of information transmission, so as to avoid unnecessary trouble.
However, as the number of group chats on your phone increases, it is possible to send an error message inadvertently. Once you realize the mistake and want to retract the message, it is too late, and the whole scene is like a huge "social blind spot", which makes people feel unable to extricate themselves, as if they want to start life on another planet.
Sending messages by mistake in the parent group is likely to trigger a large-scale "social blind spot", making it difficult for teachers to save face.
The majority of the school's staff are women, and there are many young teachers who have just graduated. Therefore, some parents even searched for a suitable partner for their single brother-in-law among their children's teachers.
As a result, I accidentally sent the ** of the beautiful teacher to the parent group, and I didn't forget to reveal by the way that Mr. Wang, ** and the principal's mother were all single. At the end, it is accompanied by a smiling expression, which is not only the attention of the teacher, but even the principal.
Maybe Bao Dad waited a long time and didn't get a response from his brother-in-law before he realized that he had sent the wrong message. However, by this time it was too late, and the message could not be reversed. I had to speak again, frankly admitting that the message was sent by mistake and could not be retracted, trying to cover up my mistake.
However, the above incident can only be regarded as the initial stage of social blunders. What happens next is the real devastation. Li Rui's father accidentally posted the content of the couple's private chat to the parent group, which was really embarrassing and even made people blush and heartbeat.
Luckily, the parents are all adults, and there are no students, so everyone can understand such mistakes. However, despite this, this kind of thing is still a bit embarrassing to be ** in public.
It is conceivable that Li Rui's mother may be in the mood of "killing" Li Rui's father at this moment, and hurriedly said that she had made a mistake in the group, urging Li Rui's father to quickly withdraw the news.
In fact, a similar situation is not limited to Li Rui's father, there is another father, judging from the content of the news, he may be on a business trip.
As the saying goes: "Little don't win the newlywed", this father did not hide his long-lost wife with his thoughts, and added 5 kissing expressions to the message.
It can be seen that this father really loves his wife deeply. However, unfortunately, this message was mistakenly sent to the parent group, as if it was forcibly fed to other parents and teachers.
The parent group is not a decoration, and should be used reasonably to achieve home-school co-education. The original intention was to facilitate communication between teachers and parents, however, at some point, many parents began to lose their original intentions.
Today's parent group is no longer just a platform for teachers and parents to communicate, but has become a place for chatting, showing off wealth, sycophancy, and quarreling.
Many parents feel distressed and even see the parent group as a burden, so they propose to cancel the parent group to avoid constant trouble.
However, from another point of view, the parent group, as a product of the times, does bring a lot of convenience to parents and teachers. The main reason why many parents are bored is caused by the parents in the group.
The parent group is a small community, and the harmony of the community needs to be maintained by all members. In order to avoid the burden on the parent group, parents and teachers need to work together to maintain a harmonious parent group.
Parents and teachers should consciously maintain the harmony of the parent community. Since the parent group is a public place, parents should be cautious when speaking. Any questions should be communicated calmly, do not quarrel in the group, and if necessary, you can choose to chat privately so as not to affect other parents.
In addition, you should not post polls, bargains, or advertising links in the group to avoid interfering with other parents' group messages.
At the same time, try to avoid posting messages in the group late at night, because some parents may not have muted the parent group in order to check the group messages in time.
Posting messages to parents in the middle of the night may interfere with other parents' rest, and if necessary, it is best to choose a private chat alone to solve the problem.
In the same way, teachers have the responsibility to manage the group and monitor the words and actions of parents. Be patient in answering questions from parents and avoid sending too many messages in the group, regardless of whether the parents understand it or not. The purpose of the parent group is to facilitate communication between teachers and parents, not to give teachers an excuse to be lazy.
Today's topic:Have you ever had a similar "oolong incident" in your parent group?