InRuralIn the singles problem, after the death of an elderly person in the family, a peculiar phenomenon often appears, that is, what is behind is more important than life. RuralThe unique traditional cultural concept of people makes people interested in the elderlyFuneralattaches great importance to it, and thinks that the more beautiful it is, the more filial piety it can appear. However, in this grandFuneralBehind it, there are often some hidden problems.
First of all, when the elderly are alive, due to the large number of children, they often pass the buck to each other, take turns to live in their sons' homes, and barely support the elderly. This support is not done out of sincerity, but in order not to be laughed at by the villagers. RuralWhen the elderly are old, sick, and unable to earn money, they will become a burden to the family. In some cases, there are even disputes between brothers over the issue of supporting the elderly, and even have to get into troubleCourts。All this shows a truth, that is, instead of wasting too much thought and money at the grave, it is better to be filial and care for the elderly while they are alive, which is the most realFilial piety
RuralAnother peculiar phenomenon of the singles problem is the increase in the divorce rate. Not only young people, but also middle-aged and elderly people are gradually increasing the divorce rate. This phenomenon is related to:RuralSocialEconomyThere is a close relationship between development, changes in the living environment and changes in people's attitudes.
First of all, withRuralSocialEconomyWith the development of the people, people's living standards and material conditions have been greatly improved. This makes people interested in:MarriageWith higher requirements, we are no longer satisfied with material satisfaction, but pay more attention to the matching of emotional and spiritual levels. In some cases, with the increase in migrant work and separation, it becomes more difficult for the couple to communicate and interact, which is also a major reason for divorce. In addition, with the development of the Internet and the smooth flow of information, people's minds are becoming more and more open to divorcePsychological stressIt's also a lot smaller. This makes divorce inRuralIt is no longer a shameful thing, and more and more people are starting to choose divorce in search of a better life.
However, it is worth mentioning that the city andRuralThere are differences in divorce issues. InRuralDivorce is relatively easy because there are fewer issues involved. In cities, couples often have a series of financial disputes such as joint real estate and loans, which makes the decision to divorce more difficult. So, in the settlementRuralSingles should be strengthened when the problem is raisedMarriageFamily education and services and support for divorced families, but also for young and middle-aged and older peopleMarriageIssue.
RuralThe problem of singles also leads to an interesting phenomenon - the increase in the phenomenon of "young grandmothers". InRural, some youngWomenI don't go out to work, I rely on my husband's income outside, and I live comfortablyFamily life。These "young grandmothers" are brightly dressed, dressed up all day long, and enjoy themselvesWomenFun as it should be. In contrast, some women work in the city thoughEconomyThe conditions are better, but they are not as focused on grooming and quality of life as the "young grandmothers". They dress ordinarily, plainly and plainly, and are even seen as "poor and sour" when they go back to their hometown to visit relatives.
Behind this phenomenon is a forRuralwithCity lifeways of different attitudes. InRuralThere is a specific perception of the role and status of women. Women have a relatively low status in the family and tend to exist as wives and mothers. Therefore, some youngWomenTend to elevate one's status and value in the family by grooming oneself and enjoying life. And in cities, women have more opportunities to get educated, work, theirLifestyleMore diverse, forFashionableThe requirement to dress up is also not so strong.
However, behind the scenes, this phenomenon is also reflectedRuraland the gap and uneven development of the city. InRural, the role and status of women are relatively low, and there is a lack of education and opportunities. In cities, women are more independent and have more responsibilitiesSocialResponsibilities and roles. Therefore, in solvingRuralAt the same time, the problem of singles also needs attentionRuralWomen's development and realization of self-worth.
RuralThe emergence of the singles problem is also highlightedThe younger generationwithRuralThe estrangement between the fathers has deepened. In contemporary timesSocial, young people are more inclined to be inCity lifeand work, in pursuit of better development opportunities and quality of life. This makes them work withRuralThere is a certain gap between the parents.
On the one hand,RuralParents are often reluctant to leave their hometown and guard their own one-third of an acre. They are Xi to itRuralofLifestyle, unfamiliar and unaccustomed to the city. At the same time, young people are inCity lifeAfter a long time, it gradually broke awayRuralofLifestyleAnd values, forRurallife produces disgust and dissatisfaction.
ForRuralThe solution to the problem of singles requires more than just attentionEconomyconditions andMarriageThe change of concept also needs to pay attention to the familySocialand the joint efforts of **. It is necessary to strengthen family relations, create a harmonious family atmosphere, and improveFamily memberscommunication and understanding. It is necessary to intendRuralGrassroots organizations to provide more employment opportunities and training opportunities to help single men and women solve the problemMarriageIssue. At the same time, ** should be increasedRuralPoverty alleviation and support in the region have improvedRuralThe living environment and conditions of the residents are improvedRuralPeople's sense of well-being and gain.
RuralThe problem of singles arises withRuralEconomyCondition is limited,MarriageFactors such as changes in perceptions and tensions in family relationships are closely related. Solving this problem requires the joint efforts of many parties, including familiesSocialand ** support and attention. It is only through such efforts that it can be mitigatedRuralSingles problem, let'sRuralPeople enjoy a better life. At the same time, it is also necessary to pay attention to the communication and understanding between young people and middle-aged and elderly people, so as to reduce the generation gap and estrangementRuralSocialof harmony and stability.