Men and women in love are intoxicated, and they frequently datewithConvey romance. Due to the traffic in the city, sometimes one party is late, which greatly discounts the atmosphere of the date, and some women are reserved, as if other men arrive first, losing their identity, so they arrive late to test the patience of men.
In fact, in this special time and space, the psychology of waiting for people and being waited for is completely different, the time of those who are waiting is the slowest, and the time of those who are having fun is the fastest, so why torture and test others in such a way that you don't want?Besides, it is impolite to be late for a date, too long or even immoral, if you are late for every date, if you let the other party misunderstand, the association involves personality reputation, reduces your quality, and affects a good marriage, what a pity. If you are occasionally late due to irresistible human factors, you must first apologize to the other party, and then explain the reason and strive for the other party's understanding. If the other person is occasionally late, be sure to show tolerance, use humor or language to eliminate the embarrassment, and never express displeasure.
In order not to show that you arrived early, you can arrive early, then take a walk around the nearby attractions, and return to the date as soon as the time comes, giving the other person the first impression that they are punctual and trustworthy.
FirsttimesFor dating, the conversation should not be too long, and it should not be investigated by checking the household account. In fact, the more you ask her about the content that the other party wants to cover up, the more disgusted she becomes, which makes both parties embarrassed. If she really loves you, if you don't ask, he will speak freely. If the other person is anxious and inattentive, she may still have important things to do, and you will want to end the conversation in time and she will thank you for being understanding. Because, love is another name for understanding. On a first date, try to be a good listener, especially the party with better conditions, and don't be misunderstood by the other party. When dressing for a date, don't be too casual or too deliberate. Too casual to give others a sense of indecency and disrespect. Too luxurious, oily and powdery, full of modern flavor and ridiculous, but also restraining yourself. Because everyone can be a little restrictive when they put on a new outfit for the first time, it's best to wear something you like that you've worn a few times. It is both chic and beautiful, but also simple and natural. As the saying goes, it is quite ingenious, and there is no carving, which is just right.
On a date in love, you must show yourself truthfully, don't, disguise yourself seamlessly. For example, there are men who do not smoke when dating and claim to be smoke-free and alcohol-free. Some said that they couldn't play mahjong or dance, and in order to win the girl's heart, they whitewashed themselves as a flawless prince charming. When you get married, the wilted branches in the snow are finally revealed, and the result will not be good. If your girlfriend doesn't like some bad habits, you can take the opportunity to announce that you are abandoned, so that you can also show your respect for her, and she can also see your extraordinary perseverance and strong will. It's a win-win-win-win- If you don't have the resolve to avoid it, don't pretend. One of the author's nieces, before marriage, hate drinking the most, when in love, the other party claims that they can't drink, can only drink less beer, but after marriage, three meals a day, one less will be discouraged, the husband and wife, because of the problem of alcohol every day, several times want to divorce, only because the woman considers the child, and the mother does not agree, only barely maintained. The man's alcohol hurt his liver, he often felt dizzy, his back ached and his flanks ached, his family life was very unharmonious, and he had no happiness at all.
Another misunderstanding of love is love at first sight, this kind of mutual tremor when they meet, mainly because they are infected by the other party's temperament, demeanor, and appearance, and completely ignore the inner examination. Especially the man in the first love, what he sees is often the most perfect side of the other party, and he often turns a blind eye to the actual shortcomings of the other party. We do not deny that there are some young people who are beautiful on the outside and on the outside, but there are also some bamboo shoots in the mountains and embroidered pillows. In some public places, you can often see these inconsistencies, what is popular nowadays, requiring men to be in 180 meters or more, ladies should be in 1Above 65, how the measurements are, what head shape is very concerned, and even if it is not long hair, I have no intention to talk about it. If it is only dazzling and enviable on the outside, and empty and despicable on the inside, then it is better to retreat to the second, and the beauty is just the floating clouds of summer. At this point, there have been many celebrities throughout the ages, all of whom are role models for our men, such as Zhuge Liang, **, etc.
Posture does have infinite power, so some people say that even God is difficult to be wise in love, but we also have to manage ourselves, so as not to indulge in its appearance. Consider Bacon's warning: "There is no truly great man who goes mad because of love, because great cause inhibits such weak feelings". From another point of view, people with excellent looks often have many shortcomings, just like there must be deep valleys next to mountains. She herself exudes a sense of superiority, at this time you have to think about it, your economic foundation, whether you can hire mediocre people, whether you can do all the housework after marriage, otherwise you can't be a model husband, and you want to monopolize the beauty of the moon and the moon, then it will be miserable, and there will be gains and losses in life. "Sinking fish and geese" is also easy to attract butterflies, whether you can be tolerant after marriage, grasp the proportion, if the vinegar wave is overflowing, sooner or later the "oasis" of marriage will be annihilated.
If psychologist Koichi Shiraishi said: "After a woman ** falls on a man, she will fully devote herself to her feelings, but men are not, although men also have dedicated times, but they will devote all their energy to love in a short period of time, and over time, enthusiasm will gradually disappear." The poet Byron said, "Love is a part of a man's life, and it is the whole of a woman's life". French female writer, Ann"For men, love is just a small episode in life, but for women it is the history of their lives," Salmei said. I advise girls who are reading this book to manage your first love, and don't just rely on the impulse to carry a flash flood and rain and wash down the ark. According to the love expert Stendhal will be divided into seven stages of love, strict control, do not light up the "green light" in advance Love has a great impact on life, if you have smooth sailing and find a wishful match, it is really worth celebrating, otherwise you will go astray and become a resentful couple, or the impact of falling out of love on work, study and physical and mental life is unimaginableof