I still remember that important personal achievement, which was a major breakthrough in my work. That night, I looked forward to going home and sharing the good news with my family. I stepped into the house with excitement.
Hey, I'm back!I shouted.
Oh, why did you come back so late?The sister-in-law's voice came from the kitchen.
I walked over and saw my sister-in-law glancing at me while chopping vegetables: "Yo, why are you so happy today?".”
I smiled and said, "Isn't it good news that a big project in the company has been approved today, and the project I participated in has been approved."”
The sister-in-law pursed her lips and did not speak.
Oops, you two are arguing again?"My sister-in-law seems to be very interested in our relationship.
Isn't it a trivial matter for someone to quarrel with her?The sister-in-law brushed her sleeves away.
I sighed, my sister-in-law is always like this, as if she never wants to praise me. In this family, I am the youngest, and my sister-in-law always thinks I am like a child.
Sister-in-law, why do you always treat me like this?I couldn't help but ask with some grumbling.
Brother, you are a guest, not a host, just a guest. The sister-in-law suddenly interjected.
Sister-in-law, I know you want to tease us, but my sister-in-law always treats me like this, I really can't stand it. "I feel a little aggrieved.
Hey, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, so don't quarrel. The sister-in-law waved her hand.
Okay, don't talk about it, I'll make you something delicious today. The sister-in-law came in with the dishes, as if she wanted to reconcile.
The three of us sat around the table for dinner, and my sister-in-law kept trying to change the atmosphere. I saw it in my eyes, and secretly sighed in my heart, what does my family need to be reunited and harmonious?I know in my heart that my sister-in-law is very hard, and she has to take care of such a large family every day, plus the expenses of seven people, and the pressure is naturally not small.
Sister-in-law, I will work harder in the future to lighten your burden. "Although I am a guest, I also have responsibilities.
Yo, the little guy is very good at talking. The sister-in-law smiled.
The sister-in-law interjected: "Brother, you just came back from overtime, let's take a little rest." ”
I looked at my sister-in-law with emotion, she was always caring for me.
In the evening, we sat around the living room watching TV, and the atmosphere gradually eased. I suddenly had an idea that maybe I could spend more time with everyone and care more about things at home in the future. Not just me as a guest, but as a member of a family. After all these years, I have also grown up and am no longer a carefree child.
Sister-in-law, I will definitely work hard, and I will care more about everything at home in the future. I said to my sister-in-law.
Well, if only you realized that. The sister-in-law smiled slightly.
Looking at everyone's fading smiles, I also feel that there is still hope for this family. I decided that from now on, I would be more proactive in everything in the family and no longer just be limited to being a guest. This is a new beginning for me.
The next day, I got up early in the morning to surprise everyone. I decided to make breakfast and give everyone a taste of my craft. I was busy in the kitchen, and my sister-in-law and sister-in-law also got up slowly, and they all smiled with satisfaction when they saw me busy.
What kind of scent is this?Is my brother making breakfast?The sister-in-law asked in surprise.
Well, I think as a member of the family, I should also care more about the affairs of the family. I laughed.
Even the sister-in-law gave a thumbs up: "Brother, you are awesome!."”
Everyone ate the breakfast I made together, and the atmosphere was very harmonious. I can't help but sigh that the home is not as cold as I imagined.
However, an unexpected event shattered the tranquility. One night, when my sister-in-law was cleaning up the dishes and chopsticks, she accidentally broke a very expensive porcelain bowl. Everyone looked at the sister-in-law, who stood there with a pale face.
This bowl is an antique left by my grandmother. The sister-in-law frowned.
I'm sorry, I ......"My sister-in-law is a little distracted.
Forget it, it's also careless, just be careful next time. The eldest sister-in-law waved her hand.
However, I noticed that there seemed to be some subtle changes in the eyes of my sister-in-law and sister-in-law. In the days that followed, the atmosphere at home became a little tense. I vaguely noticed that my sister-in-law was starting to become a little cautious, and my sister-in-law often stopped obeying her, and sometimes had some quarrels.
Sister-in-law, what's wrong with you lately?Is there anything upset about?I asked with concern.
It's nothing, it's just that I've been a little tired lately, and I've had some things at work. The sister-in-law replied lightly.
I know in my heart that my sister-in-law still minds the porcelain bowl. Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and the eldest sister-in-law, as the elder of the family, naturally cares about these treasures.
Before I knew it, I was discovering some of the other secrets in my home. The home is not the simple and happy home I imagined, everyone has their own ideas and contradictions. I seem to be beginning to realize that what I need to do is maybe not just the superficial excitement, but to get to know each other more deeply.
By chance, my sister-in-law and I went to the park together.
Sister-in-law, do you think there is something wrong with the atmosphere at home lately?I couldn't help but ask.
The sister-in-law frowned: "Yes, the sister-in-law has always been like this, she cares about everything in the family, she takes some things very seriously, but the sister-in-law always makes her angry." ”
I nodded with deep feeling. "I think my sister-in-law is very hard, taking care of the trivial affairs of the whole family, and she may also have her own difficulties. ”
The sister-in-law nodded silently, as if she was thinking about something.
I secretly made up my mind that I would try to change the situation in this family. I'm also going to find a way for everyone in my family to be treated fairly. It may not be easy, but I have to do it. This home needs my involvement.
When I decided to be more involved in family affairs, a conflict reappeared. One night, I proposed to make everyone a nice dinner to celebrate my accomplishments.
Brother, don't toss, leave the affairs of our family to my sister-in-law, what do you know. The eldest brother said with a serious expression.
Big brother, I know you're worried that I'm going to make a mess of the kitchen, but it's also my house, and I want to do something for everyone. "I'm a little angry.
Brother, you're great at work, so leave cooking to me. The sister-in-law interjected.
My heart was a little heavy, and neither my eldest brother nor sister-in-law seemed to want me to participate in the affairs of the family. I felt that my efforts did not seem to be recognized by my family. This made me feel a little sad and helpless.
In the days that followed, I seemed to become an "outsider" in the family, and I was always excluded from important family decisions at critical moments. It made me feel very uncomfortable.
Brother, why don't you seem to be in a good mood lately?The sister-in-law asked with concern.
Nothing, maybe it's stressful at work. I said perfunctorily.
But in fact, I knew in my heart that it was the change in my family's attitude towards me that made me feel lost. I worked hard to do something for my family, but I was frustrated by such a cold reception.
Hey, brother, look, you two adults have a conflict?"My sister-in-law saw that there was a stalemate between me and my sister-in-law.
Nothing, we're fine. I smiled wryly.
Brother, do you want to change your mood and let me tell you a joke?The sister-in-law tried to lighten the mood.
Thanks, no need. I shook my head.
This family, it seems to me that I have really entered a low point, I originally thought that my achievements could bring a trace of joy to the family, but I did not expect to cause such a conflict. Perhaps, what I thought was an "achievement" was not given the recognition it deserved in my family.
Come to think of it, maybe I'm wrong. I changed so fast that my family couldn't accept it. Or, I'm not mature enough to understand family relationships. I began to think about what I had done, and I also began to reflect on the conflicts in my family.
Anyway, I know I can't go back to this home, but I won't give up. I will try to understand and respect everyone. Perhaps, only in this way, will our family be able to return to the way it used to be.
Can't you, a guest, be a little more careful?"My sister-in-law's words made me feel very unhappy.
Sister-in-law, I really tried my best, I don't want you to look at me like this. I replied a little angrily.
Brother, sister-in-law may be too sick and not in a good mood, so you should be more tolerant. The sister-in-law persuaded.
I nodded silently and said no more. Our family atmosphere is still tense. Although the sister-in-law's condition gradually improved, the conflict in the family was not alleviated.
One day, when our family was eating dinner around the dining table, my sister-in-law suddenly said, "No, I've had enough, I'm going to move out, I can't stand this atmosphere." ”
Sister-in-law, what do you want?This is our home, how can you just say go?I said with some anger.
Brother, don't be angry when your sister-in-law says something, maybe she's really fed up, and we should think about it. The sister-in-law seemed very anxious.
Alas, yes, it may be that everyone is dissatisfied. The eldest brother rubbed his temples, and he spoke.
I was shocked by my sister-in-law's words this time, and I never thought she would make such a decision. The atmosphere at home is getting tense. I was also worried about the future of my family. I know that this time the contradiction is not a momentary emotion, but has been accumulated. Conflicts in the family do not seem to be so easy to resolve.
I need to think about what is wrong with our family. Is it that I, as a "guest", don't care enough about everything in the house?Or can't my sister-in-law bear the pressure at home?Revisiting family relationships, it's time to make some changes. Now, the only thing I can do is do everything I can to bring the family back to a state of harmony.