The Bai family's ** grandmother in the village, the infamous old man, is finally gone
Not long ago, my unit was on vacation, so I took the time to return to my hometown.
While spending a peaceful time in his hometown, there was a sudden cry, which seemed to come from the Bai family's courtyard not far away.
Suddenly, I realized that this was a familiar and painful cry - the Bai family had lost an important person.
Needless to say, the old lady who is nearly ninety years old is the ** milk of the Bai family. According to the village name, I call her ** milk.
Standing in the doorway and staring to the east, I suddenly heard my mother's footsteps hurrying back. She told me that the Bai family's ** grandmother had passed away, and we would go the day after tomorrow to express our condolences, and she was going to the market to buy burning paper. With that, my mother got on an electric tricycle and drove off into the distance.
On the day of mourning, our family of three went to Bai's house, and as soon as we stepped through the door, my mother was already in tears.
A curtain of mourning had been erected at the entrance of the hall of the Bai family, and a group of men in filial piety clothes knelt underneath. There is a coffin in the depths of the curtain, and I know that the ** milk of the Bai family is lying in it.
Following our parents, we slowly circled around the coffin, and then my father came to the clay basin in front of the coffin, squatted down, and lit the paper money.
As the paper money burned, the mother cried again, and the other filial sons also knelt on the ground and wept bitterly, as if they were resonating with the mother's sadness.
Subsequently, under the guidance of our father, we kowtowed four times to the coffin of the Bai family's ** grandmother, and then left the mourning scene in the more sad cries of the filial sons.
As soon as I left the Bai family, I saw several village elders standing at the door discussing something. My second uncle is the main person in it, and as soon as he saw me, he hurriedly grabbed my arm and said, "The day after tomorrow, there is a shortage of people to serve dishes, so you can go and help."
I had never been involved in this kind of business, and I wanted to politely decline, but my father helped me take on the task while distributing tobacco.
On the way home, my father said calmly, Now that it is difficult to organize white things in the village, you happen to be at home, and you should do your part.
Our family has always been like this, and my father and I did not dare to oppose my father's decision. So, I had no choice but to obey my father's wishes.
After returning home, my conversation with my mother naturally turned to the white family's ** milk.
At the mention of this ** milk, the expression on the mother's face looked solemn. She said that although it is not possible to discuss right and wrong after death, the old lady did have a bad reputation when she was alive.
Indeed, many years ago I heard that she had done some bad things, the most famous of which was to force her eldest daughter-in-law to death.
The Bai family's ** grandmother gave birth to two sons and two daughters. After the eldest daughter-in-law got married, she only gave birth to three girls for the Bai family, so the ** grandmother was dissatisfied with her and made things difficult everywhere.
Once, the eldest daughter-in-law quarreled with her husband over a trivial matter, and the Bai family's ** grandmother hurried over after hearing it. In front of everyone, she stepped forward without saying a word and slapped her eldest daughter-in-law twice.
The eldest daughter-in-law felt aggrieved and tried her to reason, but the Bai family's ** grandmother turned a deaf ear and directly mocked: "Those who can only give birth to girls, just stay in my house for idle dinner, and still don't obey discipline?"”
This is the shame that the eldest daughter-in-law has always had in her heart. She was so enraged by these words that she was a little delirious.
When the people in the village saw that her expression was wrong, they wanted to come forward to comfort her, but she didn't let anyone get close, and ran out of the house barefoot alone while everyone was unprepared.
By the time everyone found out, she had disappeared in the big river south of the village. The body was found at the bottom of a sluice two miles downstream.
When the eldest daughter-in-law's maiden family learned the news, she led a group of people to the Bai family to seek justice. Fortunately, the Bai family's ** milk hid out at that time, otherwise she might have worried about her life.
A group of people did not find the "culprit", in order to vent their anger, they destroyed the things in the Bai family's ** grandmother's house (the two sons had moved out at that time), and when they left, they also stood on the stove and poured a few bubbles of urine into the cracked iron pot of her house.
Later, it was the grandfather of the Bai family who knelt down and pleaded with everyone, and a group of people cursed and left. Since then, the two have severed contact.
recalled the grandfather of the Bai family, and he was also quite ill-fated in his later years.
Because of a traffic accident (it seems to have been hit by a farm tricycle), he was not yet seventy years old and had to stay in bed for a long time.
I thought that the ** grandmother of the Bai family would take care of him on the side, but who knew that when she saw her wife like this, she was even farther away than anyone else.
According to the youngest daughter of the Bai family, as soon as the eldest grandfather of the Bai family lay on the bed, ** milk quickly summoned the four children home and formulated a care plan for his wife without asking
Each person takes turns to take care of them at home for a month, day and night. If the son can't come, the daughter-in-law will comeIf the daughter is inconvenient, the son-in-law will do it for her.
This provision is indestructible.
As for the Bai family's ** grandmother, her life is quite comfortable, she goes to the market, visits the door, and plays cards as usual, and she seems to be unaffected.
As for her wife's situation, she heard from her neighbors that if she came home and saw her wife urinating on the bed or her pants dirty, she might use insults and even beat her feet.
Once, he dragged his wife out of bed and pricked the soles of his feet with the tips of needles. The grandfather of the Bai family was tortured so much that he could only desperately crawl into the yard and call for help from the neighbors, which stopped her **.
The grandfather of the Bai family worked hard in bed for two and a half years, and finally passed away skinny. Afterwards, many neighbors privately discussed that the death of the old man was a relief, and he was even tortured when he was alive!
These two crimes are well-known in our village. Because of this, the Bai family's ** milk got the infamous nickname "Dominatrix" in her later years.
Actually, there is another little thing that has been lingering in my mind. Although this matter is insignificant, from another point of view, it also reflects the life of the Bai family's ** milk.
I remember that there used to be a bell tree in front of her house, and every autumn it was full of red dates.
Once, a group of our friends passed by and looked at the dates and were hungry, so we instigated the most powerful partner to kick the tree a few times.
The leaves rustled and the dates fell. We were about to pick it up and eat it, but suddenly we saw the Bai family's ** milk rushing out of the yard angrily and scolding us, the momentum was quite terrifying.
Seeing this, we quickly dispersed, but she still didn't give up, and even caught up with the last little friend of the team, not only screwed him, but also pulled out the date in his mouth, and in the process of pulling, the little partner's mouth was cut by the date core and shed a lot of blood.
After that, we didn't dare to walk through her door. When I met her on the road, I would take a detour, for fear of being recognized, after all, her actions were surprisingly ruthless and merciless!
As I think about it, my resistance to helping with the dishes grows.
However, then it was my father's words that woke me up, he said, people die like lights go out, and the person you sent is no longer the same as she used to be.
I pondered my father's words, and for a moment, I felt that they contained profound philosophies.
On the white event the day after tomorrow, I was busy sweating, shouting "The food is coming, be careful of burning your hands" endlessly. Although it was hard, I felt extremely down-to-earth in my heart.
In the evening, when my tired body returned home, I wrote the following words on a piece of paper:
A person walks through the world and behaves in the world, only wishing to be worthy of his heart.
At this moment, my heart is clear and open, and I have no guilt.