Hi everyone!I'm Luna, a self-disciplined mom who believes in the power of perseverance as her life credo
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Because I have 2 daughters, I always hope that they will not only look beautiful in the future, but also live beautifully.
Of course, if you are beautiful, you can only say that your genes are good, and there is nothing to show off, but if you can still live beautifully, then it is wisdom!
Always have something that you hold on to and can't be broken.
It can be the bottom line of principles, your values, your original intention, and the boundary of doing things for people, in short, this is something that others cannot touch, can not be broken, it is your firm belief and always abide by it, it is the code of conduct and behavior that you practice, in short, it is what you firmly believe in, and the cornerstone thinking that does not change.
Of course, if you are still very young, a large part of your current values come from your family of origin, the books you have read, no matter what, there will definitely be something that you stick to, you can think about it carefully.
You can also establish your own values from these aspects:
First: Find from the big V you recognize;
Second: Looking for it from the wisdom of the ancients, for example, I particularly like a sentence in the Analects: Wealth and nobility are what people wantIf you don't get it by its way, you can't get it anywhere. Poverty and cheapness are the evil of people, and if they don't get it by their way, they don't go. If a gentleman goes to office, he will become famous?The gentleman has no end of food, and the time must be so, and the upheaval must be so.
In short, it is what we have always believed in and can always use and implement in our work and life.
Develop a Xi of exercise.
If you are tired of reading, you will go to exercise, and after exercising, you will release the happiness factor, don't make excuses to live up to the joy of sports.
I'm currently practicing from these aspects:
First: Take your kids on the weekend for outdoor hiking and cycling;This is both satisfying to go out and play, and to be able to exercise;
Second: skipping rope at home at night, this is basically a working day, making up for not being able to go out;
Third: I don't have enough energy, I will practice ** jumping exercises at home.
In short, the compound interest brought by sports will benefit you for a lifetime.
While laying a good foundation, multi-field cross-border learning Xi.
There are two purposes here: first, to find the direction of the future;Second, anything you learn that may seem useless now will help you at some point in the future.
You can learn Xi from these aspects
First: what you like;
Second: what you are good at;
Third: what you have;
Fourth: future trends.
When I was a few years old, I was brave enough to pursue my dreams and make many trial and error.
Because only by trying more can you know what your ultimate passion is and what kind of life you want. Don't be afraid to fail!
This can be done in conjunction with the third point.
Develop a Xi of saving money as early as possible.
There are two ways to have money, one is to make money and the other is to save money.
If you have the ability to make money, you can also keep the money, which is the real ability.
Because I've been in the rain myself, I've been trying to instill in them the need to be prepared.
The method I currently teach my children to save money is the 3-3-3 method of saving.
This method of giving pocket money to children comes from the Rockefeller family, and whenever a child receives an allowance money, one-third is used for investment, one-third is used to help others, and the remaining one-third is used for his own consumption.
The child is still so young, of course, there is no way to save a lot of pocket money, the wisdom of taking precautions lies in a word, since childhood, there is a sense of danger in times of peace, in order to be able to safely defend their own piece of the country in the stormy world!
Accumulate effective contacts.
The essence of networking is the connection between people, and a powerful person must not be alone.
When you're not good enough, you can buy it by crossing over or misplacing to meet people who are better than you.
A high-quality network passbook must be a great asset for you in the future.
But remember to map out your social boundaries to ease the social load.
So what about the ways to accumulate contacts?This is something that takes time to do slowly, for example, names, and how do you get to know each other?The most important thing for everyone is birthdays;There are no mutual friends, each other's preferences, do not break boundaries;In addition to birthdays, the most important dates;Do the most important things every year;What is your favorite way to socialize, of course, the above information is not possible to be written all at once, it is a process of continuous improvement.
Read good books.
you are what you eat！！！Be sure to read quality books.
Many people seem to have read a lot of books in a year, but in fact, they are all Internet**, full of blood and violence, and what pops out of her mouth every day is "Go die", "You can imagine the quality of her usual reading."
Books can be found from these aspects:
First: high-quality publishing houses.
Second: recommended by big V in the professional field.
Third: Reliable friend recommendation.
Fourth: your current needs.
Knowledge of at least one foreign language.
As for why you want to master a foreign language, I don't think I need to say too much about it.
Because there are so many benefits.
Finally, may each of us walk at the age of 20 with steady wisdom and no regrets, see you next time
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