Author |Mr. Nai (ID: renshengxiuxing).
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There is a good saying: life in the world is to be a person, not to do things.
We weren't born to work, we were born to enjoy life.
You know, we have to be people, not things.
If you spend your whole life doing things instead of being a person, then you will regret it one day.
To learn to be a man, we must do these three things: a kind face, a restrained mouth, and a kind heart.
As the saying goes, people have three treasures, and nobles help each other, and the person who really has these three treasures will definitely help him.
Kind face. As the old saying goes, it's all about harmony. A person who knows how to treat others with a gentle attitude usually has a kind heart.
On a time when Song Jiang crossed the river by boat, just after sitting down, a man with a scar on his face pushed Song Jiang aside and shouted, "Get out of the way, let me come", Song Jiang didn't say anything, and let him directly.
Just when the boat drove to the center of the river, a big wave hit and made the boat shake, which made Scarface, who was already unhappy, even more irritable, and he slapped Song Jiang in the face.
When the boat docked on the shore and several brothers came to meet Song Jiang, they saw that Song Jiang's mouth was dripping with blood, so they asked him what had happened and wanted to stand up for him, but Song Jiang only said that it was because of what food he had eaten during this time, which caused the heat in his body.
Hearing that Song Jiang not only did not pursue it, but protected himself like this, the "scarface" immediately regretted it, so he apologized to Song Jiang very sincerely. Song Jiang said lightly: "It's okay, everyone will have troubles." ”
As the saying goes: "Your facial features are imprinted with your three views." ”
A person's appearance can be divided into beauty and ugliness, and a person's appearance can also be divided into good and evil.
In real life, people who are in a bad mood always like to make a lot of noise, always have a cold face, and are annoying.
And a broad-minded person is often as open-minded as the sea, and his expression when he speaks will make people feel cordial.
Smart people know that if you treat each other with courtesy, luck will come automatically and life will go more smoothly.
Restrained mouth. As a person, you must know that there are some things that should be said.
One day, Zeng Guofan invited some classmates to a banquet, drank and chatted, and talked about the heroes at that time.
Zeng Guofan said: "Peng Yulin, Li Hongzhang and other heroes are beyond our reach. ”
A military advisor said: "Everyone has their own strengths and characteristics, and we cannot generalize. Peng Gong is brave and martial, and Li Gong is witty. ”
Zeng Guofan asked lightly, "What do you think of me?"”
Everyone bowed their heads and did not answer. A young man stood up and said, "Zeng Shuai, you are very personable. ”
At the end of the banquet, Zeng Guofan said to his staff: "This person is a talent, don't waste it." ”
Zeng Guofan was soon promoted, and he brought this young man up.
There is a saying that is very good, speech is an art, through the tone and intonation of speech, you can understand a person's mentality and cultivation, and then it is related to a person's fate.
There are people whose shortcomings you can know, but you can't talk about themSome people's scars can only be seen, not revealed.
Don't always use frankness as an excuse to keep your mouth shut, and don't always use cowardice as an excuse to keep your mouth shut.
In this society, everyone wants to hear the truth, but there are also some people who prefer to hear some nice words.
Watch your words, don't talk nonsense, and don't get into trouble.
Outstanding people often speak as soon as they open their mouths as "popular", not "angry".
A good heart. As the saying goes: "People are good, although blessings have not come, disasters have been far away".
It doesn't matter how a person looks, the key is to have a benevolent heart, do good deeds often, and do more good deeds, so that it is easier to get the favor of others and achieve their own goals.
In the early Northern Song Dynasty, Li Fang and Lu Duoxun became brothers and had a very close relationship.
Since Lu Duoxun ascended the throne of prime minister, he has always deliberately suppressed Li Fang, and even sued in front of the emperor, so that Li Fang could not eat and walked around.
Later, Lu Duosun was dismissed for breaking the law, but Li Fang became prime minister. But Li Fang still repeatedly asked the emperor for forgiveness for Lu Duoxun.
Li Fang is in a high position, but people often come to him and want a position, but Li Fang can come up with a solution, and he won't offend people.
Anyone who has the ability, Li Fang will recommend them and let them take the exam, because he believes that those who have the ability will inevitably be valued by the emperor, so these people also left confidently.
As for those incompetent people, Li Fang is even more happy, eating fragrant and drinking spicy food, and over time, he can't get what he wants, so these people leave with some embarrassment.
Li Fang was often amiable, and finally became a good **, and his fourth son and fifth grandson also served in the court.
Some people say: "A good heart is **".
In people's hearts, there are always two seeds of kindness and **. The more good things there are, the fewer good things there are.
If you have always maintained a kind heart, then everyone you meet will become your benefactor, and every look you look at will make people feel warm, and your heart will become calm.
You must firmly believe that what is good today is the blessing of tomorrow.
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About the author: Mr. Nai, a post-95 freelance writer, seeks to correct the three views than the facial features. Here you will feel that life is just a practice, and you must always maintain mindfulness, righteousness, and infect the people around you with positive energy. Here you will find the charm of words, and a heart full of sincerity. Here, you'll have a friend to talk to.