Liu Xuehua was born in a vibrant family, her parents are intellectuals, and her three older brothers and sisters are very fond of this little sister. She grew up in a warm environment, with a lively and cheerful personality, full of vitality. When he was seven years old, his grandfather died of illness, and Liu Xuehua cried very sadly. Since she was a teenager, her two older sisters have moved out one after another, and the home is empty and only she and her parents are left. At first, she was still cheerful and optimistic, and she had a good relationship with her parents. But the older she gets, the generation gap between her and her father gets deeper and deeper. Her father wanted her to pursue an academic career, but she wanted to be an actress. The two quarreled repeatedly over this. 
At the age of 18, Liu Xuehua entered the showbiz and started acting in martial arts films. Leaving her hometown and coming to Beijing, she began a life of solitude through ups and downs. Her parents and brother are not around, she is alone and alone, and she is lonely and lonely inside. Fortunately, her acting career is thriving, and with the help of Qiong Yao drama, she quickly emerged. While gaining fame and fortune, she once again suffered the blow of the death of her relatives. The death of her father due to illness had a huge impact on her. Her mother, the only one she could share with what she missed, also suffered from depression and she had to take on the responsibility of caring for her mother. The trauma of losing loved ones again and again made her inner world empty and soft. Emotionally, Liu Xuehua has also experienced twists and turns. When her career was in full swing, she starred in the TV series "Love in the Wind" during the filming process, which allowed her to meet the popular actor Liu Dekai at that time. The two have many touching rivalry scenes in the story. Knowing that Liu Dekai was married, Liu Xuehua tried to suppress his growing feelings at first. But after the TV series was completed, the two still can't forget each other's natural voices. Eventually, they chose to live together. 
At the beginning, Liu Xuehua was full of longing and beautiful yearning for their future. She even became pregnant for Liu Dekai and was ready to get married. Unexpectedly, this dreamlike story came to an abrupt end at a turning point - Liu Dekai abandoned her and went abroad to meet a new love. Liu Xuehua suffered heavy bleeding in an agitation, not only miscarried the child, but also removed the uterus and lost her fertility. The gradually declining career and broken feelings made her slump, and her heart was full of remorse and pain. Fortunately, at the lowest point in his life, Liu Xuehua met Deng Yukun. Deng Yukun, who is 13 years older than her, loves her and takes care of her, which makes her regain her vision and expectation for the future. With Deng Yukun's encouragement and support, she finally starred in her best costume drama again, and successfully played the role of the queen mother in "The Legend of Zhen Huan". It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, Deng Yukun fell to his death in an accident, and Liu Xuehua fell into endless grief again. Her career was also greatly affected and fell into another slippery slope. The ups and downs of her feelings again and again tormented her like a roller coaster. 
After the death of her husband Deng Yukun, Liu Xuehua devoted all her energy to her work. Only busyness can numb the grief in her heart, she continues to shoot new dramas, and successfully plays a series of roles as the queen mother. The wise and kind Queen Mother in "Splendid Weiyang" comes from her superb acting skills. Work became a haven for her to escape reality. Even though her career is thriving on the surface, the emptiness and loneliness in her heart cannot be increased. During the day, she was busy filming, and she came and went with the staff. But when she returns to her empty home at night, she can only stay with the TV. Turning on the TV 24 hours a day has become her Xi, and those conversations are better than the dead silence at home. In the past ten years, Liu Xuehua's life has been home, crew, and home. Aside from work, she hardly has any social activities and hobbies. For her, the mobile phone is only a necessary tool for dialing, and there are few functions compared with the current smart phone, which has been out of touch with the pace of the current society. Until one day, a variety show called "Summer of the Eaves" aimed the camera at her. Through the current state of the house equipment, the host and the audience were surprised to find out that she had been living alone for ten years. 
As soon as Liu Xuehua's situation was **, it immediately sparked extensive discussions on the Internet, and many people expressed distress and incomprehension. Her story became the focus of that episode, and it also reminded people of the obscure empty nesters and lonely old people, who also suffered from loneliness. Liu's situation is the tip of the iceberg, reminding people that the social isolation problems faced by the elderly deserve attention. Liu Xuehua's experience made many viewers and netizens feel deeply sad. As an excellent actor, she was a sensation, so naturally she should not be so snubbed. If you think about it, there are many examples like Liu Xuehua in life. Those elderly people who suffer from loneliness around us are also faced with the lack of mental and physical support systems, and live a boring life every day. Ms. Liu can be said to be a microcosm of them. Once upon a time, these elderly people were also beautiful. They are the mainstay of the family and the children's dependence. However, as they grew older and their children left home, the spiritual world of these elderly people changed dramatically. They need to learn Xi adapt to the "empty nest" and learn to live on their own. But most of the elderly do not go well in this process, their social circle gradually shrinks, it is difficult to find someone to talk to, and they are gradually abandoned by the times and surrounded by loneliness. This undoubtedly requires a great deal of adaptability on their part. 
Ms. Liu's story reminds us that as family members or members of society, we should give more spiritual comfort to the elderly. By caring for them and listening to them, we can help them through life's most difficult times. At the same time, it is also necessary to establish a physical and psychological support network at the system level, so that more elderly people can enjoy basic medical and life care. This is not only the responsibility of children, but also the responsibility of ** and every member of society. Only by allowing the elderly to live a decent life can our society become more civilized and progressive. Liu Xuehua's story is a microcosm of thousands of lonely old people. When we feel sorry for her, don't forget those obscure old people. They can no longer bring anything to this society, but they are still living strong in loneliness and illness. Everyone equally needs to be moistened by a warm drizzle. They need the company of their children, the greetings of relatives and friends. Even Liu Xuehua, who is a social celebrity, is not immune to the dilemma of "spiritual asylum". 
Each of us can bring a little warmth to the people around us through small actions. Even a sentence of "child, I'm thinking about you" can make the old man feel a lot more relieved. It is the responsibility of all of us to arouse the light of humanity and create a society that is inclusive and empathetic. At the same time, it is also a reminder that life is short and fragile. When you are young and vigorous, you should be prepared to cope with growing old and the second half of your life. Regular physical check-ups, cultivating special interests, and expanding our social circle will make our last days more comfortable. I believe that as long as we establish a correct outlook on life when we are young, then even if we encounter something, we can face it better and live a wonderful life. I hope that Liu Xuehua and all the elderly can find their own happiness.