Among the three brothers and sisters of the Zhou family, Zhou Rong is the one I am least optimistic about.
She looks affectionate on the surface, but in reality she is very emotionally weak. She used to be a gentle and virtuous woman, but she was devastated by her father's death, and she was not even as good as a woman. She knelt in front of her father and witnessed her mother who had suffered a stroke, tears streaming down her eyes. However, her actions and decisions deeply exposed her inner indifference.
Among the three siblings, the eldest and second excelled, and the third was equally good.
However, if it is a contribution to the family, none of the three siblings can surpass Zheng Juan. Her grades and abilities ranked third or fourth among all the girls. Although Zheng Juan has always been regarded as an undervalued individual.
In the TV series broadcast last night, because Zhou Rong and they were about to go home, Zhou Bingkun specially bought an electric fan worth 80 yuan. This electric fan not only highlights Zhou Rong's indifferent attitude, but also highlights Zheng Juan's deep affection.
1 Zhou Rong's cold attitude.
Zhou Rong is not only the pride of the Zhou family, she is also a witty little girl, and she is the most beautiful in the entire photon film. In this world, she is a very lucky girl. She is regarded as a treasure by the Zhou family's parents, and her father Zhou Zhigang regards her as his own.
But how did Zhou Rong proceed?From the moment she said goodbye to her father at the train station, she had strengthened her determination to follow Feng Huacheng. She went to distant Guizhou and married Feng Huacheng in private.
Her father adamantly refused to allow her to return home, in fact, she had not been home for three full years.
Although Zhou Zhigang has deep feelings for his daughter, in this world, which parent can really convince their children?When he and his wife got married, his wife was a woman with a serious stomach problem, and in order to let his wife spend her old age in her hometown with peace of mind, they took their daughter to work in other places to earn money. Three years later, due to his uncontrollable deep longing for his daughter, Zhou Zhigang chose to go to Guizhou to find his relatives. He knew that his daughter's stomach was not in good condition and was worried that she would not be able to adapt to the taste of rice, so he took the white noodles he had exchanged for and traveled long distances to Guizhou.
On the way, he found a puppy and gave it to his daughter. The puppy also saved Zhou Rong's life while growing up.
At the moment when the father and daughter reunited, Zhou Rong knelt down to Zhou Zhigang. She knew that she could no longer say anything to her father as before, and she knew that his father would not listen and could not accept it, so she could only do this. It was her apology to her father as a daughter. But what did she say after that?
She told her father that first of all, it was impossible for her to end her marriage with Feng Huacheng in her life. Secondly, if her marriage to Feng Huacheng caused trouble to the family, she has the right to cut off all contact with the family.
From this moment on, Zhou Rong's selfishness and indifferent character were clearly exposed. For three years, she had been waiting for her father to come back to see her. She had no regard for her parents' nurturing grace and hard work at all. She refused so firmly. I had no idea why my old father would travel a long way to visit herDespite this, she still firmly follows the choice she made three years ago, preferring to pursue true love rather than have her own biological parents or siblings.
She has not returned home for seven years since her father left. Feng Huacheng can't leave because of her special status, she enjoys freedom, doesn't she know that her mother has been looking forward to her return?
As a teacher, Zhou Rong is fully capable of taking her children home to visit as long as she finds a suitable time during winter or summer vacation. Because she knows that the children's hearts are looking forward to coming home. But she never did, and it wasn't until seven years later that she returned home with Mr. Feng.
However, on the way, Feng Huacheng was taken away, and she did not even board the door of her parents' house, but entrusted her daughter to someone else to send her back to her parents' house, and then desperately went to find her husband.
Eventually, because she suffered a stroke and suffered hemiplegic symptoms, her younger brothers Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan took care of everything in the family, which gave her and Zhou Bingyi the opportunity to enter university to study Xi.
When she was in college, she witnessed Feng Huacheng studying Xi on the stage, and her eyes twinkled like stars like a girl. She knows that her life is like a dream. She doesn't care about the actual situation of the old mother and daughter in her parents' house at all
Zhou Rong's mother has been hemiplegic for two whole years, could it be that during this time, she has never called home?Did she never speak to her mother?Even if she tried to hit **, but every time she couldn't hear her mother's voice, didn't she have any doubts?
As long as she was the slightest suspicious, she knew that she should go home and visit.
However, she had never had such an experience, not once.
She has been away from home for seven years, and went to Beijing for two years, and when she returned home, it was already nine years later
Zhou Rong seems so indifferent to her mother and family, and her every action reflects that she is a selfish person. In her conception, love is paramount, while both her parents and daughter are relegated to the back burner. She also has a little "cleverness" in her personality, that is, she likes to do things very thoughtfully and meticulously, never cares about personal gains and losses, and she is very serious in her work. Despite her superficial selfishness and coldness, she still displays a gesture full of affection, which is really hard to accept.
Therefore, when I witnessed her kneeling to Zhou Zhigang and her crying bitterly to her mother who had suffered a stroke, I could not be moved by her emotions at all. I would say that if it weren't for her, I probably wouldn't have met such an ordinary woman in a strange place. If she hadn't traveled to Guizhou without permission, her father wouldn't have traveled long distances to visit her. She was only taken to the hospital while she was sick and hospitalized. If it hadn't been for her misfortune, her mother wouldn't have suffered a stroke.
After their mother suffered a stroke, Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan shouldered all the burdens of the family. His father is an ordinary teacher, and his mother is a primary school Chinese teacher, and they are both fighting for their families. Otherwise, how could she and Zhou Bingyi enter the university?
Zhou Rong, for her parents' care and thoughtfulness, she has no trace of a small padded jacket at all**There is no love and care for the children?She undoubtedly suffered a great disaster from her parents and the Zhou family.
2. Zheng Juan's deep emotions.
Zheng Juan is a native of Taiping Hutong, and she does not belong to the same social class as Zhou Bingkun. Compared with Zhou Rong's Xi of a large number of books from elementary school, there is a huge difference between the two.
However, this seemingly weak woman, after learning that Zhou Bingkun's mother had suffered misfortune, always rushed to the house to help him as soon as possible.
Zheng Juan came to Zhou's house to take care of Zhou's mother, which not only included her love for Zhou Bingkun, but also incorporated gratitude.
However, in the days after Zhou Bingkun**, he not only had to take care of Zhou's mother lying on the bed, but also had to take care of three children.
When she was massaging Zhou's mother, she found that her fingers were seriously molting. Those beautiful hands have now lost their former brilliance.
Since the funds left by Zhou Bingkun were not enough to meet the demand, Zheng Juan took out the 200 yuan left by her mother. "I feel like I'm capable and capable. "She was budget-conscious and made the most of every penny.
She toils all day during the day, and at night, when the kids are asleep, she also needs to make cartons under the light to earn extra income to support the family. In the past few years, she has been a very low-income person. However, at this moment, her identity has not yet been officially recognized. She is an ordinary rural woman with a husband and son who have started a family. To the outside world, she can only be regarded as a caregiver hired by the Zhou family at most.
But in fact, what she did was incomparable to even her own daughter. Her father worked in the hospital, and she had to go to him every day to get injections and medicine. Zhou's mother was very angry, and she personally dug things with her hands. She was in good health and not sick. Perform body flips every two hours. Her mother was an old **, and every morning she always tidied up the house as neat and tidy as washed clothes. Every corner of the home was spotlessly cleaned.
Zhou Zhigang didn't agree with this view at first, but when he returned home and saw what was going on at home, he quickly accepted her, and that was his real motivation.
Zheng Juan is responsible for taking care of Zhou's mother and Yueyue, and everything she does should have been the responsibility of Zhou Rong as a daughter and mother.
However, while Zheng Juan is working hard at home, what is Zhou Rong doing?
At first, she was running around because of Feng Huacheng's affairs, but then she decided to follow Feng Huacheng to school.
In the depths of Zhou Rong's heart, Feng Huacheng has always been above her biological parents and daughter. He is a very ordinary man, without any background and prominent status, but he has a very unique temperament. In the first half of her life, Zhou Rong lived with Feng Hua as the center.
When a woman is only a man in her eyes and heart, without leaving any place for her parents or other family members, such a woman not only seems selfish, but also a little stupid.
Her ubiquitous affection did not leave any room between husband and wife, which also made her husband feel deeply oppressed. Feng Huacheng's derailment is, of course, because of his bad behavior, but Zhou Rong is not innocent.
3. An electric fan priced at 80 yuan made a clear difference between the daughter-in-law and her biological daughter.
Zhou Rong and her husband followed Zhou Bingyi back home, the first time Zhou Rong set foot on the road home after many years away from home.
On that hot day, Zheng Juan held a fan every day to fan Zhou's mother. Zhou Bingkun felt his wife's pain deeply, so he proposed to buy an electric fan.
Zheng Juan heard that the ** of a unit was as high as 80 yuan, so she proposed to hand over the money to meI said you don't need it, what money do I have?I made an electric fan for our house. I said that won't work!In any case, there are only a few short days of the year, and after a period of boiling, it will pass.
Zhou Bingkun mentioned with some embarrassment that his sister and brother-in-law planned to return home for the summer, and this was the first time his brother-in-law visited his home. At that time, the whole family will be tightly gathered in one place.
Before Zheng Juan finished speaking, she said directly: Buy, buy an electric fan.
Zheng Juan has a deep affection for Bingkun, and she doesn't want her husband to get into trouble. Although she was reluctant, she still encouraged her husband to buy it.
In Zhou Bingkun's heart, he bought the electric fan out of concern and distress for Zheng Juan, and he did it both to reduce her work burden and to make her mother's life less hot.
Zhou Bingkun is the least careful person at home, and he can always think of these things. He says his favorite thing to do is sleep. Zhou Rong was more attentive than her younger brother, but Zhou Rong never expected this?
Until then, Zhou Bingkun thought that his mother was a person who could bear everything, which is why he mustered up the courage to share it with her. Unexpectedly, my mother was so dizzy by what he said, that it was even difficult to speak. Unexpectedly, my mother had a stroke when she learned about it.
Zhou Rong knew her mother's character very well, and she once warned Cai Xiaoguang not to mention to her mother about the affair between her and her husband, because she thought her mother was an irresponsible person.
From the analysis of this matter alone, Zhou Rong's carefulness obviously exceeds that of Zhou Bingkun. Why can't I imagine that my child's tuition is so difficult to collect?Considering her attentiveness and concern for her family, she has been away from home for many years, entrusting her daughter to her maiden family, but she never expected that the family's predicament would be so great?Why didn't we think about providing economic support to Bingkun and Zheng Juan?
Why do I think Zhou Rong is too cold to herself?
First of all, in terms of marriage, she married Feng Huacheng privately without the permission of her parents. This would have been a great thing, because she could put her marriage and family under the control of others, which was undoubtedly a big blow to her. Of course, she may have planned to act first and report later.
In this regard, Zhou Rong is not comparable to her younger brother, and although Zhou Bingkun is with Zheng Juan, he always waits for his father's consent before going to apply for a marriage certificate.
In that bygone era, Zhou Rong's actions were seen as heretical.
Secondly, after seven years, she did not return home, but when she decided to go home, due to Feng Huacheng's misfortune, she had to entrust her daughter to her maiden family while she went to find her husband.
Although she was not at fault, after finding her husband, she chose to stay in Beijing with him and remained reluctant to return home.
Knowing that they were about to return, Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan were discussing buying a house and an electric fan for them. They want to stay at home for a while and then go back. This is what younger brothers and sisters-in-law can do for them.
What did Zhou Rong do for her family?In her memory, her father's illness made him tired every day. The mother suffered a stroke for two years, so she decided to let her daughter stay at her maiden home for two years. In the past two years, Zheng Juan has supported the overall situation of the Zhou family alone, which is why she and her brother were able to enter the university.
Due to her mother's stroke, she could not take on the responsibility of taking care of the child, and her brother-in-law did not fulfill the obligation to take care of the child, but Zheng Juan was willing to bear the hard work of many years in silence.
Thirdly, I had been away from home for nine years, and the night I came home, I did not stay to take care of my mother as a sign of filial piety, but took the whole family to a hotel to stay. She spent the night in her room, only to pack her clothes the next day and then returned home. Even if she was in charge of taking care of her mother for a whole night, it was enough for Zheng Juan to get a short rest.
Despite this, she took her daughter directly to the hotel to stay, and he had been worried about the old mother at home for a while
There is an opinion that as time goes on, we grow up, and our parents are getting older. In fact, this is just a metaphor, because the parents have left this world, and the children have not yet fully matured from their own growth, so we are like this. Being able to be with them, even if it is just a moment and a second, represents the deep filial piety of children to their parents.
However, after nine years away from her hometown, what activities did she carry out?
For Zhou Rong, it was originally her duty to take care of her mother and daughter, but now it is Zheng Juan who has taken on this responsibility. However, in her mind, it seemed like a simple obligation rather than something she should do. As her sister, she can't return home, doesn't that provide her with some financial support?
With a bed-ridden patient and two children at home, their financial ** limited to Zhou Bingkun's salary and Zheng Juan's small amount of money to make cardboard boxes, their predicament is understandable.
When the child fell asleep, Zheng Juan was resolutely reluctant to turn on the electric fan out of concern about the waste of electric energy.
Zheng Juan trimmed Zhou Bingkun's nails while telling him that her sister and brother-in-law did not come home, and you think it is unfair to buy this fan.
Zheng Juan's frugal life is significantly different from Zhou Rong's luxurious life.
In the TV series that aired last night, Feng Huacheng provided a large amount of money as a subsidy, while Zhou Rong preferred to live in a hotel with her husband and daughter, but did not know how to save some money to subsidize her brother and daughter-in-law.
In the face of Zheng Juan's deep feelings for Zhou Rong, Zhou Rong simply said "hard" and did not respond to other things.
Zhou Rong told Zhou Zhigang a long time ago that she and Feng Huacheng had begun to save their monthly salaries. If Zhou Rong is willing to support her brother a little, then Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan may not feel heartache because of buying an electric fan.
Among the three brothers and sisters of the Zhou family, the strength of the elder brother and sister surpasses Zhou Bingkun, and their prospects are brighter than Zhou Bingkun, but it is the third child who is often ignored who can really stand up for the family.
If Zhou Bingkun is not married to Zheng Juan, he alone will not be able to support all the burdens of the family.
Therefore, in the end, it was Zheng Juan, the daughter-in-law, who shouldered all the burdens of the family.
Understanding Zhou Rong's cold attitude will make people feel even more sorry for Zheng Juan's deep emotions. What kind of power is it for a man to be able to prove his love for his wife with his actions in front of his wife?Everything she does is for Zhou Bingkun. As a daughter-in-law, treating her husband's family as her own and caring for and serving her wholeheartedly is the most precious selfless love in the world.
Zheng Juan's affection for the Zhou family is much more than that, when she is busy with housework, she will ask her son Nan Nan to provide massage services for Zhou Bingkun's mother.
Zhou Bingkun was very lucky, because he married such a kind and loving woman.
She once told Zhou Bingyi that she was not worth it, but I want to say that Zheng Juan deserves the best in this world. She is a caring, grateful woman. The kindness and deep love she showed was so precious.
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