In the work "Parents' Love", the role of Ge Meixia is very interesting. Her happiness is not because she has a good husband, but because she has a good fortune, which is her marriage. Although everyone generally thinks that An Jie is the luckiest woman, I personally prefer to think that Ge Meixia is the luckiest one.
In the first half of her life, she suffered numerous humiliations, but in the second half of her life, she seemed to live in a sweet pot.
She became the wife of the political commissar of the king, and although it was to fill the house, she was not treated unfairly. Because she has a pair of industrious hands. Commissar Wang has only one child, so she doesn't need to take care of Lao Ding's four eldest sons like Dehua did.
She was childless, so she didn't have to endure the pain of parenting. She doesn't smoke or drink, she doesn't play cards, she never argues with anyone, and she doesn't smoke or drink. In her later years, both Dehua and An Jie needed help taking care of their grandchildren, but Ge Meixia didn't, and she would dance and practice swordsmanship every day. With wealth and freedom, the joy in life is like that of a fairy.
Whether it is in terms of birth, character or appearance, she is inferior to An Jie, so how can she get the most beautiful?
First of all: unwillingness to accept the arrangement of fate.
Ge Meixia was born in an unsatisfactory environment, and her family used to be a fisherman. In those days, fishermen were considered criminals. Therefore, Ge Meixia inherited the mistakes of the previous generation.
In fact, Ge Meixia's living situation is even worse than An Jie's, and although her father is a fisherman, he does not give her too much of a rich life. When she saw An Jie's coffee, cups, and dress, she felt very envious.
Although I didn't really enjoy good luck, I did suffer a lot. She is a very literate person, she loved to read when she was in middle school on the island, and her grades are good, and she is often praised by teachers and classmates. She is an unmarried woman on the island, no one dares to marry her, and there are a lot of gossips. She usually holds a teaching position on the island, which is a dignified profession.
However, they may also be at risk of being criticized and taken to clean up their feces.
An Jie still clearly remembered the appearance of Ge Meixia picking up feces, and was very shocked. He felt his heart tingle. She felt heartache for Ge Meixia, but also feared that she would encounter the same situation in the future.
It is no exaggeration to say that the predicament faced by Ge Meixia at that time was extremely serious, and her existence on that island was more like a lonely island. Nothing in her life could make her happy, and nothing was more painful than the loss of a child. Despite this, she never really accepted the arrangement of fate.
Why is she unwilling to accept fate?She is the kind of person who is very charming and gentle. From the interaction between her and An Jie, we can clearly feel this. She has a special penchant for coffee with Anjie, dressed in her dress, holding a beautiful cup, and her face is full of confidence and confidence.
Indeed, she hopes to be like An Jie, marry a capable man and live a dignified life. In the feelings of envy between women, there is also a subtle element of jealousy. Obviously, Ge Meixia is full of jealousy for An Jie, and she even hopes that An Jie will suffer misfortune.
In one episode, a painter goes to the island to sketch, and he is immediately attracted to Anjie and invites him to be his model. When the painter finishes painting, he places the painting on the wall. Anjie was in a happy mood and chose to become a model with passion.
Eventually, the people of the island began to talk about it, claiming that she had some kind of relationship with the painter. These gossips were actually revealed by Dehua to An Jie. However, Ge Meixia not only did not remind her kindly, but deliberately provoked the incident. She said, what does she have to do with this painter?The painter gave An Jie a vase of flowers, and in order to avoid causing him dissatisfaction, An Jie placed the vase on Ge Meixia's table.
In an ironic manner, Ge Meixia puts the flowers back in their place. She changed her painting to a person. After that, Anjie invited her to enjoy coffee with her. Ge Meixia met the painter on the way and unexpectedly brought him with her.
Later, this scene was witnessed by Jiang Defu, which led to a heated argument between the couple. There is a view that Ge Meixia is too naïve and does not think too much.
Frankly speaking, Ge Meixia is not the kind of innocent person, her real intention is very clear, that is, she wants to put An Jie in trouble. If Ge Meixia was a person who accepted fate, she would not be jealous of An Jie.
It is precisely because of the unwillingness to accept the arrangement of fate and face all kinds of difficulties that people develop a narrow mentality.
If An Jie hadn't gone to that island, Ge Meixia would probably have gradually accepted fate.
However, even An Jie, who was born in poor condition, has a chance to become the wife of an officer.
Her heart became more restless. Her life was peaceful and uneventful. She is passionate about building a good relationship with Anjie and improving her social status by showcasing her aesthetic and social status. It is precisely because of Ge Meixia's indomitable heart that she has good luck in the future.
The second point: seize every opportunity.
Ge Meixia experienced two romances on the island, one with Lao Ding and the other with Commissar Wang. The first time he fell in love was when he was a company commander. Have you noticed that Ge Meixia's love partners have a status greater than herself.
Actually, I think that Ge Meixia's choice to keep herself does not mean that no one really wants to marry her. I think she's a beauty in the eyes of others. Considering her beauty on the island, both Lao Ding and Commissar Wang are greedy for her, not to mention others?
Her only reason is that she is not interested in ordinary men and has been looking for a suitable opportunity. When Lao Ding traveled to that island, the first person he thought about was Ge Meixia.
Surprisingly, Lao Ding is not familiar with this place on the island, and there is no An Jie to introduce how he and Ge Meixia are so closeThrough Tak Wah's description, we learn that Ge Meixia has gone to Lao Ding's home to conduct a "home visit" activity.
We can speculate that the relationship between Lao Ding and Ge Meixia may be Ge Meixia's doing.
It's a pity that Lao Ding couldn't do anything, and in the face of the oppression of his superiors, he finally chose to let go. He chose to leave this world. Ge Meixia later felt extreme indignation at Lao Ding, not because she lost her true love, but because she missed a good opportunity to change her fate.
Commissar Wang tried to stop Ge Meixia's relationship with Lao Ding, and perhaps at that moment, Commissar Wang developed some kind of emotion for Ge Meixia. After the failure of her relationship with Lao Ding, Ge Meixia lived alone again for several years until Zhang Guiying died.
Surprisingly, when Commissar Wang's family left Songshan Island, how did he reconnect with Ge Meixia?Have they ever worked together?Incredibly, before Zhang Guiying's body cooled down, Political Commissar Wang had eagerly entered the palace of marriage with Ge Meixia.
The two men had come together before the matter was made public.
An Jie was still naïve to play the role of a lobbyist at that time, but in fact he was just used as cannon fodder.
Ge Meixia is about to enter the palace of marriage with Political Commissar Wang, and her overall image has changed dramatically, no longer in the state of tension and caution before, but has become more relaxed and calm. It all seemed so natural to her. She may have reached the point where she may live a happy life in the future.
After a long wait, we finally have a chance to change our fate.
After marrying Political Commissar Wang, Ge Meixia's life became extremely busy. In the army, she was a woman with a lot of personality. Although Political Commissar Wang showed a cold and distant attitude towards Zhang Guiying in the past, he showed deep concern and care for Ge Meixia.
After marrying Commissar Wang, she has no worries about her life, and her children do not need to worry, and she seems more relaxed than An Jie and Dehua. She said that she is not the kind of woman who is born to love tossing, but she never hesitates in the face of love, she is a very assertive and capable woman, and has a strong sense of pursuit of career. It is not surprising that she was able to win in the end, as she understands her needs and desires very well.
And, once the opportunity arises, she will definitely not let it go. Although she may seem weak on the outside, she is actually full of determination on the inside.
From a certain point of view, Ge Meixia is not motivated by selfishness or utilitarianism, if it were in this era, she would definitely be the one who changed her fate.
The third point: people who tend to be selfish.
Ge Meixia is successful because she adheres to the principle of selfishness.
Whether it's in love or friendship, she's wondering if it's going to help her. If she loses the value of being used, then she will show a completely different side.
Before Ge Meixia spent time with Political Commissar Wang, she often followed An Jie and became his close friend because of the conflict between Teacher An and Teacher Chang'an.
Since she married Political Commissar Wang, Ge Meixia has rarely had contact with An Jie, and the deep feelings she once had have disappeared without a trace.
Why did she change like this?It is clear that before Ge Meixia found her home, she established a good relationship with An Jie, which led to the improvement of her social status.
After all, An Jie is the wife of an officer, and being able to get a little honor is also a kind of face, which is what people often say about relying on big trees to enjoy the shade. So, when her husband was promoted to major general in the army, she didn't pay much attention to it, because he already saw himself as a small tree. Once I have a real big tree, I don't care about Anjie anymore.
Therefore, Ge Meixia can be described as a very utilitarian woman. He knew she was a woman, but she wasn't a woman, she was just a man. It wasn't until later that An Jie really saw Ge Meixia's true face. Regarding the relationship between Jiang Yafei and Wang Haiyang, Ge Meixia did not hesitate to stand on the side of the Wang family.
Although she knew that An Jie did not approve of this marriage, she still tried her best to facilitate their marriage, and even Ge Meixia did not disclose any information to An Jie about their marriage and obtaining a marriage certificate.
For Ge Meixia, An Jie is like a springboard, once her vision is realized, the springboard seems meaningless.
Dehua once asked An Jie: Aren't you two friends?Anjie commented: "This is a friend. Indeed, Ge Meixia cannot be regarded as a real good friend.
Ge Meixia also behaved quite unruly in her later years, her clothes were either bright red or bright green, giving people the impression of suddenly getting rich.
Then again, is her love for Commissar Wang sincere?
It doesn't have to be seen. The power of Commissar Wang had a strong attraction to Ge Meixia, and once she stood on this high branch, no one dared to oppress her anymore.
If Commissar Wang loses power and influence, it will be a completely different question whether Ge Meixia will be able to go with her to the countryside to experience hardships and challenges.
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From a different perspective, I have a lot of respect for Ge Meixia, who is not only extremely strong in heart, but also full of vitality. There is a unique temperament and spirit in her - tenacity, tenacity, perseverance, optimism and tolerance. Just like those weeds that grow in the crevices of rocks, they have the ability to take root and germinate even in harsh environments.
The pain and crimes she experienced on Songshan Island were beyond anyone's imagination.
Although the first half of her life was full of loneliness and pain, she never gave up the pursuit of life. There is never a shortage of opportunities and challenges in her life, and she always finds her place in the most difficult times. She is always looking for the right opportunity, and whenever the opportunity comes, she does not hesitate and gives her all to seize it every time.
Whether it is Lao Ding or Political Commissar Wang, her decisiveness and courage are deeply respected. Her courage and wisdom made people know her - a person who dared to face difficulties. It is commendable that those who have experienced suffering do not despise themselves or feel sorry for themselves.
She is full of envy for An Jie and hopes to become An Jie, but she also knows her position very well. She is an ordinary soldier who has been in the barracks for more than 20 years. If you want to change your destiny, you need to sacrifice part of your self-esteem. Even though Commissar Wang was once troubled by her, she still readily agreed in the face of his outstretched hand of reconciliation.
I'm thinking, if An Jie stood in Ge Meixia's position, what kind of side would she show?
An Jie's heart is full of pride and superiority, her whole life has been pampered in the palm of her hand, her children dare not anger her, her husband is always accommodating to her, and her brother and sister are meticulously caring, but in fact, she has not experienced too much hardship.
If she can live so happily, then fate and luck undoubtedly occupy a considerable proportion. Life is something that a person is born with, but fate is difficult to measure in numbers, so she has to choose for herself. Although fate was born in the context of a capitalist and was discriminated against and reviled against, it likewise experienced the qualities and self-confidence that wealth brings.
As a result, she met Jiang Defu and showed deep loyalty to her. In the first half of her life, Ge Meixia had neither fate nor good luck, but in the second half of her life, she finally ushered in good luck, so her career was booming.
I can't blame Ge Meixia, as much as she may have been too selfish and utilitarian, it was a heroic act in itself for a woman to transcend social class and achieve true happiness in that particular context of the times. In fact, she, like Lao Ding, is just an ordinary person looking for a space of her own in the tide of life.