Gao YuanOnce a girl who lacked self-confidence, she was once ruthlessly abandoned by her ex-boyfriend. This relationship made her feel very humbled, and she tried to make her boyfriend happy with her, but she always felt worthless. Gradually, she realizes that she is being manipulated in this relationship by her boyfriend, who controls her by belittling her. This is unhealthyIn loveLasted a year, letGao YuanMore and more self-loss. Eventually, with the support and enlightenment of friendsGao YuanMake up your mind to break off friendship with this scumbag.
After the breakup,Gao YuanFall intoEmotionhaunted, she has lost trust in anyone and feels that she is not worthy of love. However, during this low period, a friend of many years appeared in her life, silently accompanied her, and comforted her after she got back on her feet. Gradually,Gao YuanI regained my self-confidence and slowly developed feelings. The former friend became the current boyfriend, although the process of transformation was fast, butGao YuanI felt like it was too late. She regretted that she hadn't faced her true feelings in the early years, hesitating because they were friends. Now, she has finally found someone who treats her sincerely, and she feels that she must have done something good in her previous life to meet such a good person.
However,Gao YuanThe happiness didn't last long, as the boyfriend's ex-girlfriend intervened in their relationship. For the existence of this woman,Gao YuanAlways skeptical. She worries that her boyfriend will say the same sweet words to his ex-girlfriend, and that her love is not pure enough. However, she begins to realize that if they were the right couple, they wouldn't break up. There will always be different stages in life, and even if you have loved someone else in the past, as long as your current partner is single-minded about herself, it is enough. Let the past romance pass.
For the presence of boyfriend's ex-girlfriend,Gao YuanStarted to feel uneasy. She begins to wonder if her boyfriend is also acting so well with her ex, and wonders if her boyfriend has said the same sweet things to her ex. Such suspicion and insecurity make itGao YuanBecame suspicious, for fear that his ex-girlfriend would take away her boyfriend by means of it. The boyfriend reassured her, saying that not all women deserve him so well with theirsIn loveIt's just a few months that pass by in a hurry, and we break up because we don't think it's appropriate. However, seeing the ex-girlfriend's footprints in the boyfriend's visitor record,Gao YuanLost his mind again. She begins to wonder if her boyfriend has really forgotten about his ex and whether his feelings for her are only temporary.
In the midst of this confusion and anxiety,Gao YuanInability to live a normal life. She began to sneak up on her boyfriend's social **, trying to find any trace of her boyfriend and ex-girlfriend. She is sensitive to anything related to her ex-girlfriend, and even if it is just her boyfriend inadvertently mentioning her name, it is enough to trigger her jealousy and uneasiness.
However, she also gradually realizes that her actions are wrong. She understands that a healthy oneIn loveRelationships are supposed to be based on trust and respect, and she has been asking her boyfriend about her ex-girlfriend and inadvertently hurting her boyfriend's feelings. She decided to take positive action to solve her own problems.
Gao YuanI found a counselor for help. The counsellor helped her analyze her emotions and behaviors and taught her to build the right way to trust and communicate. Gao YuanBegin to learn to accept your imperfections, but also learn to believe that your boyfriend's love is real. She talks openly about her uneasiness with her boyfriend and expresses her trust in him. My boyfriend is right, tooGao YuanThe feelings gave full understanding and support, and after a period of running-in, the relationship gradually returned to the normal track.
Gao YuanAfter a bumpy relationship with her boyfriend, they slowly supported each other spiritually and built a deeper trust and understanding. However, the presence of an ex-girlfriend is still an issue that cannot be ignored.
Gao YuanDecided to take the initiative to get to know his ex-girlfriend instead of being prejudiced against her. She took the initiative to contact her ex-girlfriend and expressed her blessings. After some exchanges,Gao YuanDiscovering out that her ex-girlfriend wasn't as scary as she had thought it would be. They found that they shared common interests and topics, and even became friends who supported and helped each other.
Through an exchange with an ex-girlfriend,Gao YuanI also learned more about my boyfriend's past. She gradually understands that her boyfriend is not unable to forget his ex, but has chosen her as his partner, and in their relationship, she has received a unique love and support that her boyfriend's predecessor could not give.
Gao YuanEventually, he learns to accept and accept his boyfriend's past and his emotional experiences. She understands that everyone has a past and will have some entanglements, but what really matters is that they care for and cherish each other now. She learns to let go of jealousy and quarrels with her ex-girlfriend and cherish the happiness in front of her.
Finally,Gao YuanWork together with your boyfriend to get rid of the shadow of the past and build a healthy, stable and happy relationship together. They support each other and work together to get through life's difficulties and challenges, and the presence of an ex is only a small part of their relationship and is no longer a problem for them.