When we first watched "Parents' Love", we might think that Jiang Dehua was trying his best to pursue Lao Ding, and even made her brother Jiang Defu and sister-in-law An Jie feel troubled. However, when we take a closer look at this drama again, we will find that Lao Ding is the one who "climbs high".
Let's start with Jiang Dehua's conditions. In real life, her conditions are undoubtedly better than Lao Ding's. She could choose to stay with her brother and sister-in-law, and that choice was justified. The second generation of the Jiang family grew up under her care. Neighbor Zhang Guiying once praised her for being more dedicated than her mother. Jiang Weiguo will always remember the taste of his aunt, and at Jiang Yafei's wedding, the first glass of wine was given to her. When she returned to the island after she was old, Jiang Yaning was holding her instead of An Jie, which was enough to show her importance in the Jiang family. Even if she chooses to retire at her brother and sister-in-law's house, the second generation of the Jiang family will honor her from the bottom of their hearts.
Although the relationship between An Jie and Jiang Dehua is very different from her background, the two have long been like sisters. Jiang Dehua didn't mind that An Jie didn't give herself coffee, because she knew that An Jie would give her a good thing. An Jie can tolerate the "relatives" from Jiang Defu's hometown staying at home, but he does not allow them to bully Jiang Dehua. Therefore, when An Jie told them: "Jiang Dehua is the aunt and grandmother of this family, she said it." This undoubtedly shows her status and influence in the Jiang family.
In addition to staying with his brother and sister-in-law, Jiang Dehua has other options. She could choose to marry a local fisherman, and in a haughty manner. As the sister of the commander of the garrison on the island, no matter which ordinary person she marries, the other party will welcome her with the highest courtesy. Moreover, she can choose to marry a soldier of the same age, and the other party does not have to be an officer, but as long as Jiang Defu is still the commander, her marriage can still be prosperous.
Looking back, it is not so much that Jiang Dehua is pursuing Lao Ding, but that Lao Ding is "climbing" Jiang Dehua. No matter from which point of view, Lao Ding's conditions cannot be compared with Jiang Dehua. And Jiang Dehua has many choices, but Lao Ding is the only one. This relationship is not directly presented in "Parents' Love", but after careful analysis, it will be found that it has always been Lao Ding who is "climbing" Jiang Dehua.
The days in the army should have been full of hardships for Jiang Dehua. But it was her tenacity and kindness that made those years special. Faced with many choices, Jiang Dehua chose Lao Ding alone, even if it meant facing gossip from the outside world.
Jiang Dehua's kindness comes from the choice of the heart. She doesn't want Xiu'e's sister-in-law's children to be wronged in the slightest on the road to growth. For Jiang Dehua, actions are far better than words. Since Lao Ding came to the island, she has silently taken care of Siwei and Lao Ding, taking care of everything. This also makes the four sincerely hope that Jiang Dehua can become their mother.
When he was in the artillery school, Jiang Dehua did not take a fancy to Lao Ding, because he was too arrogant at that time and did not have the sympathetic "pitiful". Although Jiang Dehua is outspoken, she is full of compassion for the suffering of the world, and always cares for those who need shelter. This also explains why she rejected An Jie in the first place, and always cared about Zhang Guilan's sister-in-law in the countryside. For Jiang Changyi, a nephew, although she dislikes it on the surface, she always protects him in her heart.
The "injustice" in his heart is also one of the reasons why Jiang Dehua made a choice. When they were in the artillery school, Lao Ding and Jiang Defu's living conditions were similar, but after landing on the island, the courtyard of Jiang Defu's house was much larger than Lao Ding's house. Although his brother lived a happy life, Jiang Dehua could not ignore the huge differences between the two families.
In the end, Jiang Dehua and Lao Ding came together. In the spiritual world, Jiang Dehua has always been richer than Lao Ding. Lao Ding has outstanding abilities and unique vision, such as staying in the military university to teach without any background and military merits, and taking a fancy to Meng Tianzhu's son-in-law. However, his life was full of ups and downs, and he was severely criticized after replacing Jiang Defu as a teacher. After arriving on the island, he also met his boss Wang Zhenbiao, who was embarrassed everywhere. Despite this, Lao Ding's life is also full of luck, because he met Jiang Dehua, the person who was willing to spend the wind and rain with him.
Jiang Dehua's careful care and deep love for Lao Ding have made Lao Ding receive great support and help in his life and work. Since Lao Ding married Jiang Dehua, his life has changed dramatically. With his tenacity and diligence, Jiang Dehua has always supported Lao Ding, so that he has made remarkable achievements in his work. In Lao Ding's career, Jiang Dehua was everywhere, and she provided Lao Ding with a strong backing, enabling Lao Ding to move forward bravely in his work.
Although Lao Ding has always been unable to meet his expectations in some aspects, he has always pursued what he cannot get, such as finding a literate wife. However, it was such an old man who made Jiang Dehua see his indomitable and love for life. Jiang Dehua accepted all of Lao Ding, accompanied him without regrets, and silently guarded him and his family.
Compared with Lao Ding's success in life and work, Jiang Dehua pays more attention to family harmony and happiness. She knows what she wants, and being able to protect Lao Ding and the children for the rest of her life is already the greatest satisfaction for her. Even if she can't be buried with Lao Ding, she has no complaints, because she respects Wang Xiu'e's decision. Jiang Dehua's kindness and dedication always do not ask for returns, she always adheres to her beliefs and influences the people around her with practical actions.
When taking care of the children, Jiang Dehua is always wholehearted and conscientious. Although she sometimes complains, she never stops giving for her family. Jiang Dehua has always fully supported Lao Ding's choice, even in the face of other **, she has never wavered in her dedication to Lao Ding.
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In general, whether it is life or spiritual world, the combination of Lao Ding and Jiang Dehua is a happy marriage. Although Lao Ding always encounters all kinds of unsatisfactory in life, he is lucky to be able to marry Jiang Dehua. Jiang Dehua's firmness and perseverance make their lives full of happiness and warmth.