In today's era of medical development and people's open-mindedness, the existence of "transgender people" is no longer particularly rare.It's just that it is relatively simple to change from a male to a female in the conventional understanding, and there have been people in China who have tried and succeeded;
Not only is life, behavior, and psychology more stable, but the public's acceptance has also improvedBut female-to-male transsexuals are indeed rare.
In terms of human body structure, there are many parts to be removed from a female to a man, and new organs must be transplanted into the human body, and the survival rate and success rate of use are difficult to guarantee.
Geng Zi is one of the successful cases of a woman becoming a man in my country.
In 2004, Geng Zi contacted a reporter from "Both Sides of the Strait", who helped Geng Zi find Dr. Xiu Zhifu of Zhongshan Hospital in Xiamen.
Dr. Xiu works in the plastic surgery department, he patiently asked Geng Zi's wishes, sex reassignment surgery is not the same as general surgery, the body ** also takes into account the patient's psychology **, and it is very necessary to understand the patient in the early stage.
At the same time, patients and doctors are exposed to unprecedented surgical risks.
In the face of the doctor's rigorous analysis and all the possible situations in the future, Geng Zi still resolutely chose to have surgery.
In the face of such a resolute Geng Zi, Dr. Xiu couldn't help but express his attitude, hoping that Geng Zi would think clearly.
In the face of these, Geng Zi was very determined: I finally had this opportunity to help me realize my long-term wishes, and I must continue to do it.
Therefore, Dr. Xiu's team carefully assessed Geng Zi's physical complex and formulated a thorough surgical plan, and the Guangzhou Armed Police General Hospital promised full support from the hospital for this operation and provided postoperative psychological counseling.
What about Geng Zi's family?Can they support their daughter becoming a "son"?
Geng Zi's parents said that they really couldn't accept it at first, but seeing the child in such psychological pain, letting her go can make her happy, what's wrong with that?
Geng Zi underwent a total of four major surgeries.
The first is to remove female-specific organs, such as ovaries, uterus and other organs. In this way, Gengzi loses feminine characteristics such as menstruation, pregnancy and other behaviors.
The second is the removal of the already mature breasts.
The operation is equivalent to completely removing the feminine features in Geng Zi's body, Geng Zi said, as if all the burdens have been cleaned out from the body, and he just feels refreshed!
The third is to supplement the male sign - reconstruction**. This is the most important surgery to pay attention to.
Because this operation starts from 0, the foundation establishment in the early stage is very important, and the delicacy of the human body makes the team of Dr. Xiu highly nervous.
The fourth operation was on December 25, 2005, Geng Zi removed a piece of cartilage from her chest cavity and placed it on the reconstruction ** of the third operation, and then connected it to the urethra.
After four surgeries, Geng Zi was finally able to become a man biologically.
Geng Zi learned that after a month and a half, in addition to not being able to give birth like other men, he was almost equivalent to a normal man in terms of life.
Geng Zi couldn't help but burst into tears. My wish for many years has finally come true, and my body and mind have finally reached unity, and I don't have to torture each other anymore.
During these four surgeries, Geng Zi went through endless suffering, completely removing a female sign from the body, and having to re-establish a male body, which was almost a difficult task.
Fortunately, Geng Zi was firm enough to never have the idea of backing down during these four surgeries, laying the foundation for the doctors' collaboration.
* sniffed out the hot spots, and rushed to report Geng Zi's deeds.
Many people who paid attention to him kindly sent their blessings and admired his determination and courage, while others expressed incomprehension and disgust, and carried out a series of personal attacks on Geng Zi, and more were incomprehensible.
Why is Geng Zi obsessed with being a man?
This also starts when Geng Zi was a child, and Geng Zi was more willing to touch the things that boys played with when he was a child, such as toy guns, toy cars, playing ball with boys, and running;
On the contrary, I don't like dolls and beautiful hairstyles that are interested in girls at all, and even reject them a little.
At first, everyone didn't think there was anything unusual about it, after all, there was nothing that only boys could like to play, and what only girls could play.
Later, Geng Zi found that he didn't like to wear skirts, and he refused to dress up like a girl, and even wanted to be like a boy when he went to the toilet.
At first, Geng Zi's question to his parents was why he couldn't pee standing up like a boy?
Why can't you keep your head and so on, when your parents heard it, they just thought it was Geng Zi's first understanding of gender when he was a child.
But these problems were buried in Geng Zi's heart for a long time, and it was not until he became the last big problem that his parents realized the seriousness of the problem.
Later, Geng Zi came to puberty. Puberty is an important period of differentiation for boys and girls, and the female organs of Gengzi begin to mature gradually
The development of breasts and the arrival of menstruation made Geng Zi more and more psychologically repulsive to the fact that she was a girl, no matter how short her hair was, her physical development made it impossible for her to deceive herself.
Especially when she had menstrual cramps, Geng Zi was extremely disgusted with her gender at this time, and the pain made her almost unable to stand, and she could only lie on the bed with a hot water bottle.
When she was at school, Geng Zi was very reluctant to go to the women's toilet, she felt that she was like a ** man in the women's toilet, and she was tied up in the face of girls.
Sometimes because of Geng Zi's short hair, which was later cut directly into an inch head, the cleaning aunt would mistake Geng Zi for a boy, and occasionally drive her to the men's toilet
It was as if he had a valid reason to go to the men's bathroom.
Later, after being stopped out of the door again at the train station, Geng Zi didn't go to the women's toilet anymore, and it was convenient to go directly to the men's toilet, anyway, there was a door in the toilet.
Usually Geng Zi is dressed like a boy, wearing a sweatshirt and cargo pants that do not show his figure, and if he doesn't pay attention to his appearance, he really thinks that Geng Zi is an out-and-out boy.
Just because of his inappropriate dress, Geng Zi would be gossiped about by the neighbors every time he went out.
Because of this, Geng Zi's parents persuaded countless times, his mother's gentle words turned into severe scolding, and his father's silence became a feather duster. Geng Zi always acted according to his own ideas and was not moved in the slightest.
Geng Zi fell in love with someone in high school, which was a normal thing in high school, and half-grown children were attracted to each other, and they had a good impression of each other dimly.
It's just that Geng Zi is different, she has the heart of this daughter and a man, so what she likes is the girl in the class.
This girl is a very inconspicuous girl in the class, because she is always very quiet to learn Xi, such a character is simply her cuteness for Geng Zi, and she always subconsciously observes the girl in the class.
This girl naturally noticed Geng Zi, and the two fell in love with each other and talked happily.
When Geng Zi opened up to this girl, the girl did not feel that Geng Zi was an outlier, on the contrary, she listened to Geng Zi's self-description and was very considerate of Geng Zi's feelings;
She is also willing to help Geng Zi, listen to Geng Zi's thoughts, and help her solve some problems. This kind girl has grown deeply in Geng Zi's heart since then.
But Geng Zi was originally a very concerned "focal point" in the class, and her behavior would always trigger discussions among others.
So when she and this girl got closer and closer, the class began to spread that these two people were gay!This caused quite a stir at the time.
When Geng Zi's parents talked to her, Geng Zi bluntly said that he was officially pursuing this girl as a boy.
After hearing this, the parents finally realized that the problem was serious, and they told Geng Zi that even if Geng Zi thought he was a boy, but after all, it was not realistic to just think about it, and if it continued like this, it would only delay the life of the girl she liked.
It was this sentence that had a huge impact on Geng Zi, who thought that it was her body that hindered her freedom to be a boy, and she began to look for a solution.
Geng Zi learned from the Internet that there had been successful sex reassignment surgeries abroad.
In 1930, there were cases of male to female, but from then until 1980, there were no successful cases of female to male.
In China.
In the 80s and 90s, the spread of news was very limited, and I had nowhere to know which doctor in the *** could perform sex reassignment surgery on me.
In 1992, Geng Zi saw the news about transgender surgery in the newspaper, and she opened a breakthrough to collect news everywhere.
Because Geng Zi's actions were too big and his parents knew about it, and when he learned that his daughter was determined to become a man, the two parents were very devastated;
In order to prevent her from going out, her parents tried to lock the door of the room and prohibit Geng Zi from going out, but after finding that they couldn't stop it, Geng Zi's parents even forced each other to die, but they couldn't stop Geng Zi's determination.
Geng Zi couldn't reach an agreement with his family, so he went out angrily and planned to find a way out by himself, but it was not easy to live outside, so Geng Zi began to work while looking for a way out.
She went to the supermarket to make deliveries and wash dishes in restaurants, Geng Zi tried all the means to survive, and her efforts made her quickly accepted by the people around her, but her unique style of doing things also attracted her criticism.
Some people began to doubt her gender orientation, and in the face of these speculations, Geng Zi was equivalent to acquiescing and not making excuses, which made everyone think that she was an outlier and did not want to stay with her;
But these did not stop Geng Zi, but only made her more determined to become a man. It wasn't until 2004 that Geng Zi met a journalist and then began her transgender journey.
After the operation, Geng Zi faced not only physical changes, but also psychological.
The operation was performed publicly, and since then there has been a steady stream of suspicions and evaluations of Geng's life.
The doctor once said that if Geng Zi can't be psychologically unified with his body, he can't be called a perfect transgender.
The doctor was very concerned about Geng Zi's situation and provided him with male psychological cognition courses, including men's sports posture training and male thinking mode simulation
Men's mental activities, as well as motor expression and physical behavior, are all designed to help Geng Zi better Xi and experience of male life.
Who will be the first person to inform Geng Zi of the success of the news?
It was the girl he was in high school, and this girl was also Geng Zi's first love.
When she learned of Geng Zi's efforts over the years, the girl felt a deep sense of distress, and even more congratulations, the girl couldn't help but say that if Geng Zi had successfully operated ten years ago, things might have been different...
Why would she say that?
The relationship between the girl and Geng Zi 10 years ago was forced to end due to the tough attitude of the parents, and the girl accepted the blind date and married the right person.
Even though Geng Zi was very sad about the fact that his first love was married, he was still at the girl's wedding scene, wishing her a happy marriage.
It's just that as soon as the girl's mother saw Geng Zi's appearance, especially Geng Zi, who was not transgender but already looked like a boy, she was like a big enemy, and she couldn't care about her demeanor and desperately tried her best to let Geng Zi leave.
The girl also noticed the movement, and came to Geng Zi with her head bowed and thanked her.
Facing his former lover who was going to be a stranger from now on, Geng Zi was sad and insisted on sending blessings, leaving his once unreserved love in his heart.
Even so, Geng Zi still has hope in his heart, he is now a real man who can pursue the girl he loves openly.
He still hopes that he can meet the girl in his soul, and he will give the other party true happiness.
In fact, during the operation, Geng Zi was blessed one after another, and said that he wanted to be together as if he wanted to be together, and Geng Zi was more cautious in the face of feelings at this time.
If it weren't for the person he liked very much, Geng Zi would not be with the other party.
Soon, Geng Zi really met a girl he liked, the two hit it off at first sight, the girl's beautiful face was in line with Geng Zi's aesthetics, Geng Zi decided to pursue this girl and be with her.
To like a person is to be honest with the other party, and Geng Zi didn't want the girl to feel that she had been deceived, so Geng Zi told the other party all about his life experience and told the other party the truth about his operation.
The other party was speechless for a long time, but he still proposed to Geng Zi to break up, and since then they have never seen each other again.
After being unilaterally rejected, Geng Zi fell into pain, but this time the work went more smoothly.
Geng Zi set off to a company in Shenzhen, and with the help of his boss, Geng Zi had a new job opportunity. The boss was very sorry for his talent, and he was a little puzzled that this young man had not worked for two years, and Geng Zi did not hide it and told the truth.
The boss did not discriminate against him, but admired him very much, and kept him, and his colleagues were also very tolerant. Geng Zi's plan that was completed in a few days was recognized by everyone.
Since then, Geng Zi has continued to challenge himself, traveled north and south to find a job, experienced life, and became a company director from a copywriter.
From 2005 to 2023, Geng Zi has gone through 17 spring and autumn seasons as a man, and in these 17 years, he has had three relationship experiences, but they all failed, and he is still alone.
Geng Zi is not discouraged, he is still on the road of finding true love, and he does not regret that he made this decision in the first place.
Geng Zi used his life to tell everyone that if you stick to your original intention and keep progressing, your life will become more and more open.
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