Those who have watched "Dream of Red Mansions" finally sighed.
Why is there such a big garden, so many people, but the ending is so sad?
In contrast, poor Grandma Liu, who went to play in the Grand View Garden in the autumn breeze, turned out to be enviable.
As the saying goes: "A happy family, the quality of pension is infinitely good." ”
The role of the family for the elderly is self-evident.
No matter how rich you are and how big the house is, if the family fails, it means that the beams have fallen, the people are scattered, and there is no point in living.
So the question is, how can an elderly person have a decent family?Don't wait until you're old and rush to build, start with middle age and have a vision.
Talk about marriage, start a family.
When you get used to being alone, a person is home.
But being alone for a long time is not a decent home. Without vitality, there will be no laughter, and there will be no human spirit.
In fact, when a person is lonely, he doesn't think too much about settling down in ** and buying a house, but he keeps procrastinating, and his future is uncertain.
Falling in love and buying a house are immediately on the agenda. It's really amazing.
It was in the countryside that married families had to find a way to open an account and build two tiled houses as shelter.
When love reaches a certain heat, the home will become extraordinarily warm.
The same goes for animals.
For example, when swallows find objects, they will fly together, build a house under the eaves, and fly around with dirt in their mouths, and they are also very happy.
Starlings are even more particular, in addition to building nests in trees, they will also find snake skins and put them next to the nest to scare the flower squirrels who steal birds' eggs.
In the show "Our Daughter's Boyfriend", a young couple of lovers are ready to get married, but they can't afford to buy a house, which sparks a heated discussion among friends and family.
In the TV series "Ode to Joy", Fan Shengmei and Wang Baichuan were about to get married, and the woman made a request to add her name to the real estate certificate.
The man hesitates, then refuses, and the marriage becomes unreliable.
Yes, for the homeless, the house is the prototype of home, a place that carries feelings.
Although we don't live for a house, we will live better with a house.
When you get married, be sure to plan what the family will look like, what are you going to do in **, do you want your parents to live together, and the money to buy a house will come from**. Don't be so careless and naïve and think you're comfortable with **.
At the age of seventy or eighty, you are still adrift, that is, a lonely figure in the crowd.
Middle-aged people have to earn money and support their families.
Money is not everything. You can't do anything without money. The need for money increases with age.
When we get old, we don't have the ability to make money, but we still spend money.
It really doesn't matter if you are a vulgar and ordinary person who loves money. Don't ask yourself to be a tall person, without money, you want to live with full energy, I'm afraid you can't do it.
Spiritual food is just a way of saying that it is based on eating and drinking.
The Ming Dynasty writer Feng Menglong wrote about a man named Liu De, who married and had no children.
The couple has been running a small shop on the pier, providing room and board.
In their sixties, the husband and wife are still worried about the elderly, after all, one day, they will not be able to walk.
On a snowy day, a sick veteran took his child to collect debts and stayed at Liu De's house.
After the veteran's death, Liu De took in his children.
A few months later, there was a strong wind and waves in the river, and a boat was overturned. A lonely boy who fell into the water lost his mind to find Liu De.
As a result, the Liu family had two children, both of whom learned to do business.
There is no suspense in the story, and Liu De and his wife are supported.
A family, as long as you have money, you don't have to worry about the bleakness of the night.
Money can support one's own children, it can also support other people's children, and it can also help the poor, these are the legacies of good deeds that will be rewarded sooner or later.
Therefore, middle-aged people, regardless of their family, are right to work hard to make money.
A lifetime of parenting, people.
In this case, big is a verb. On the one hand, the family develops, and on the other hand, the children grow up slowly.
When we are old, looking back, the biggest credit is not that we got a certificate in the workplace, nor that we have made the business bigger, but that our children and grandchildren have hope.
When the children grow up, they get married, and they go to the fields to buy a house and work, this is not the old man living alone, but the family is scattered, and there is more than one point.
When necessary, the old man helps to take care of the baby, and he is happy to work hard.
Look at those old people who don't have grandchildren, in front of their peers, it is inevitable to be overshadowed. When chatting, he always said: "My son and daughter, not worthy, not sensible, not married." There is resentment.
The most important thing is that when people are old and can't walk, it is also a great relief for their children to send you to a nursing home, help you go to the hospital, and help you buy medicine.
A lifetime of struggle, a house and money, and someone will inherit it, which is also a kind of happiness.
Several generations are in the same house, lively and impatient, happy and long-lasting.