There are many ways to get revenge on someone.
Someone said: "Ten years is not too late for a gentleman to take revenge." ”
Someone said, "The tiger is not angry, I am a sick cat." ”
Others say, "A tooth for a tooth, an eye for an eye." ”
In fact, those you hold grudges with, once they fall out, the bad things will only get worse.
Fight dragons for too long, you will also turn into dragons, and you will hurt yourself again.
Visionary people will control themselves and hate invisibly.
Note: Ignore.
In the steppes of Africa, there is a herd of wild horses.
Suddenly, a vampire bat flew in and bit the wild horse.
Wild horses jump around, flick their tails, roar, gallop, and chase away bats.
After a long time, the mustang fell.
Many believe that the wild horse died from bleeding.
Zoologists have taken a closer look and found that bats do very little harm, while wild horses are angry and self-harming.
This is the law of wild horses.
Most of the people who hurt you are not heinous and not the ones who endanger your life, and you are like a wild horse, furious and making every day hard.
During the Wei and Jin dynasties, there was a ** called Wang Ji.
With nothing to do, he ran to his nephew and Joe's house, and repeatedly hinted that he wanted to eat plums.
The plums of He Qiao are delicious and famous.
The unpleasant thing is that after a long time with Chowdaly, he just doesn't take out the plums.
After Wang Ji left, He Qiao sent dozens of plums.
Wang Ji thought to himself: "Such a stingy relative, even if he has plums, he can't eat them." "He got angry and cut down the plum tree.
Since then, the relationship between relatives has not been easy to get along with.
People do a lot of unusual things when they're angry. All anger ended in regret.
Ask yourself that the source of anger is because you saw a "bad scene" and then triggered a lot of bad thoughts.
If you learn to ignore it, things will get better.
What do they do?You don't care. You see it, you can pretend not to see it.
You can't control the words and deeds of others, but you can control your eyes. Turning a blind eye is confusion and the greatest sobriety.
Remember, seeing is not a skill, but seeing is.
Manage your body: Do nothing.
In a few years, the world will pass like this, do you still care about that little hatred?Time destroys a lot of things.
Do nothing, quietly let time slip away, and many results, naturally, appeared.
In terms of wisdom, it is a comparison, and whoever can endure for a long time will live to the end.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang and Sima Yi were sworn enemies.
Zhuge Liang attacked Wei, and Sima Yi led his army to fight against Wei.
In Tianshui, the Wei army surrounded the Shu army, and Zhuge Liang took the opportunity to lead the army up the mountain to harvest wheat, and also staged an empty city plan. Sima Yi inexplicably withdrew his army.
Sima Yi also suffered greatly from Zhuge Liang's gossip.
But later, Sima Yi understood "inaction" and could not compete with Zhuge Liang.
In the face of the ** given to Sima Yi by Zhuge Liang, Sima Yi can wear it naturally without shame.
Sima Yi didn't mind any humiliation, so he became the final victor. Zhuge Liang was old in anxiety and took the initiative to attack.
Sima Yi also praised Zhuge Liang: "The genius of the world is also." ”
Wizards can't beat a man who "has nothing", which is undoubtedly "great".
It is ethical and the best strategy to be a person who does nothing in the face of the person who hurts you.
If you think about it seriously, the fundamental reason why others can hurt you casually is that you are too weak to fight at all. At this time, only dormancy and weakness can preserve the remaining strength.
The other party sees you showing weakness and wants to continue to crush you, either they can't bear it anymore or they can't do anything about it. A hammer can't beat cotton;Teeth are no match for the tongue. That's how it works.
It is not advisable to counter violence with violence;Soft is better than hard.
Management Wisdom: Independence.
There is a wisdom called "pretending to be a pig and eating a tiger".
It's incredible that a weak pig can eat a tiger.
This also illustrates the problem that as long as the pig has wisdom, the tiger will also fail.
What really makes a person strong is your wisdom.
Walk away silently and elevate yourself. When you reach a certain height, you surpass the other person and make the other person only look up to you. At this time, the roles of you and the other person will change, and you will be considered a bad temper.
At the beginning of the Qing Dynasty, the worship was meritorious and mighty.
After Kangxi ascended the throne, he was afraid of Aobai. But he did not directly confront Aobai, but promoted Aobai to a second-class duke, made him a first-class duke, and added a Tai Chi.
In the process of promoting Ao Bai, Kangxi also worked very hard, fighting with the internal little supervisor every day, just like a child playing around.
After some hard training, Kangxi and several small supervisors inside were super capable, and they crushed Aobai and fell, so that they could really turn over.
People struggle, to win to the end, there is always an ability to work hard, and this ability is not known to outsiders.
Endure it and calm the waters;Take a step back. Promising. This kind of wisdom seems to make us weaker, but in fact, it allows us to have a big picture to plan for a long time.
You have the ability, the other party can't do anything, and at any time, the winner is you.