Family education has always been one of the important topics, and the communication between parents and teachers is a key part of family education. With the rise of social networking, class groups have become the main platform for communication between parents and teachers. However, in some class groups, there are some awkward situations, such as parents seeking to show off and show off their English proficiency, which makes it difficult for teachers and other parents to cope. This article will discuss this situation and how to correctly view the parent group and the equal communication between parents and teachers from the perspective of family education.
The rise of parent groups has facilitated communication between parents and teachers and saved time. Parents can get school notices in a timely manner, avoiding cumbersome communication and student communication, and it is more convenient to ask questions and get answers. However, due to the large number of parents in the parent group and their different personalities, it is inevitable that some "conspicuous bags" will appear, and the parent group will be used as a stage to show themselves. Their behaviour is not only incomprehensible to other parents, but has even led some parents to withdraw from the parent group and not want to be disturbed.
Expanding: The emergence of parent groups has indeed greatly facilitated communication problems in family education. In the past, the communication between parents and teachers was relatively limited, either by notifying them one by one, or by students going home. If parents want to find a teacher to communicate and solve the problem, they often face certain troubles, the teacher can not pick up the class at any time during the day, and the teacher may disturb the teacher's rest at night. Therefore, many times parents can only choose to wronged themselves and endure the problem, and have to admit that parents' concerns are reasonable. However, the emergence of class groups effectively solves the problem of communication between parents and teachers. Parents can ask questions in the group in a timely manner, and teachers will deal with them immediately if they have time, and reply at a convenient time if they don't have time. There are more parents in the parent group, and everyone's personality, background, and educational concept are different, so whether it is talking about school affairs, or solving the problems encountered by children in school Xi or life, everyone's concept will be different. In addition, the emergence of class groups also breaks the limitations of time and space, and realizes barrier-free communication and interaction.
However, the existence of a parent group is not all smooth sailing. In some class groups, some parents tend to use the parent group to show off themselves and use it as a personal stage. Not only do they engage in incomprehensible behaviors in the group, but they sometimes even over-display their English. This kind of behavior not only embarrassed other parents, but also invisibly brought a kind of pressure and negative energy to the parent group, and may even cause other parents to quit the group chat. How to deal with this situation has become a big problem for teachers.
In order to better address the communication issues between parents and teachers, many schools have set up parent committees. However, the establishment of a PTA is not an easy task and requires election and consultation among parents. In the course of the election of some parent committees, some capable parents will send their resumes and self-introductions in the form of small essays to the class group. At the beginning of the campaign, they also often attract attention with a show-off opening. On the one hand, these parents want to increase the success rate of the election campaign through self-promotion, and on the other hand, it is also for the purpose of showing their excellence. The unique way the PTA campaign was conducted drew a series of reactions in the group chat.
Expanding: In order to make the PTA campaign as fair and transparent as possible, parents are scrambling to come up with some ideas. Among them, one parent posted his resume to the class group, bringing his own self-introduction like a small essay, directly letting other parents see his excellence. At that time, the atmosphere in the group was pleasant, and the parents generally praised the parent. This behavior not only made the PTA campaign more interesting, but also made the parents impressed by the parent's campaign, adding a competitive advantage to his campaign. However, this method of competition is not without controversy. Some parents have questioned whether running for the PTA has anything to do with their resumesSchool PTAs should be there to better serve children, not to judge parents' individual abilities. As a result, this style of campaigning is not universally accepted by all parents.
In the class parent group, some parents pursue a way to show off and show gratitude, and often choose English to express themselves. They may find English more elegant or more attention-grabbing. However, such expressions are not appreciated by the rest of the class group. After all, everyone is Chinese, and it is completely enough to express gratitude in Chinese. You may use English just to show off your English skills and not care about the actual issues. This behavior increases distress and embarrassment in the class group.
The parent group is an important channel for parents and teachers to communicate, and its role and value should be emphasized. However, equal communication between parents and teachers is more important. Teachers and parents are working hard for the growth and development of children, and they should respect and understand each other and talk to each other on an equal footing. Don't go too far for superficial entertainment and flattery, but communicate with the other person sincerely and directly. Especially for teachers, they already have a lot of work to do, and they can't keep an eye on the class group all the time. For parents who seek to show off and show, not responding may contribute to this culture, and replies may also be misleading to other parents. Therefore, teachers need to deal with such situations with wisdom and skill.
Parents are the first teachers of students, and homeschooling is essential for children's development. Therefore, parents need to always pay attention to their words and deeds and set a good example for their children. It's not really important to show your English or other abilities in a class group. More importantly, parents can focus their time and energy on their children's home education, pay attention to their children's learning Xi and growth, and maintain good communication and cooperation with teachers. Ultimately, parents and teachers work together to create a good environment for their children to grow up.