I found that girls who surpassed their peers had one thing in common

Mondo Education Updated on 2024-02-01

Hi everyone! I'm Luna, a self-disciplined mom who believes in the power of perseverance as her life creed!

The sun arches a pawn, and the merit is not donated! Let's talk to you today".What are the commonalities of girls who surpass their peers?This topic.

They all possess the psychological characteristics of masters.

Psychological representation is the difference between a real master and an ordinary person, and it is also the secret of many successful people's work**.

What does that mean?

Here's an example, let's say it's the same football game, an ordinary person watching a football game is a simple football game, and she may end up just paying attention to who wins the game.

But the really top players, when they watch a football game, what do they do next for this player? Is it to pass the ball? Or will it shoot? Or will it intercept the ball? Wait a minute.

Because for these top players, she has carved tens of thousands of defensive experiences and stress reactions into the bone marrow and written into the long-term memory area of the brain.

So, when they're watching someone else play a game, she just needs to see a certain action of this player, and then a certain exclusive action, they know that this player is ready to shoot.

Just like ordinary people may only see a tree, but a master can see a tree and a forest.

So what are the advantages of a master with such abilities?

This ability allows them to use it in practice, and they don't have to worry about analyzing most things, because this ability has become their mental representation, and they can divert this part of their energy to other preparations, so that their probability of winning this game increases.

Many masters, the reason why they are so powerful is that they are masters of using mental representations intentionally or unintentionally, and they are good at using mental representations to make it easier for them to do something.

The courage to break the box.

Frameworks are our mental models, like all of us in the same room, but looking at the same world through different windows.

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The different frameworks a person chooses determine what kind of person she will become, and it also determines the attitude of others towards her.

When we ordinary people tend to use stereotypes to evaluate a person, the master will tell himself that what we see is not all about this person, and if you also hate being defined by others so casually, don't label others casually.

The narrower a person's cognitive scope, the fewer problems she can deal with, and when she is faced with problems that are beyond her cognitive ability, she usually feels panicked, frightened, and at a loss, while when she is faced with problems that are within her own familiar range, she usually takes them in stride.

When the real masters experience the limitations brought by the framework, they will become very humble and realize that their perspective on one thing may not be necessarily correct, at this time, the master will expand the scope of cognition through learning, break the thinking framework through learning, summarize the regularity, and establish a new thinking framework.

Human growth is the process of breaking the original thinking framework and establishing a new thinking framework again and again.

Focused, repetitive exercises.

Bruce Lee once said: I'm not afraid of people who know 10,000 moves, I'm only afraid of opponents who have practiced one move 10,000 times.

One sentence shows that a generation of grandmasters also has opponents to fear.

Indeed, there is a saying that "there is nothing difficult in the world", if a person practices repeatedly, practice makes perfect, and he is naturally invincible.

Repetition is a process of changing from quantity to quality.

Never underestimate a person who likes to repeat, the more repetitive the more focused.

When a person does the same thing over and over again, he or she is able to enter the realm of "concentration".

Masters know this well, and often in the process of learning, they do think that learning only requires one thing: focused repetition exercises.

This is true for playing games, for exercising, and for reading.

I'm Ah, I'm practicing a small business, and I firmly believe in the power of perseverance.

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