Have fun today, don't forget it.
There is always a road in life, accompanied by classmates, and the sound of books is so pleasant.
Outside the school gate, we still look forward to meeting again, so we often meet up with classmates for small gatherings, and some people organize large gatherings.
When we go to a few parties, we will find that between eating and drinking, many students have changed their appearance, and they are no longer as simple as when they were studying.
After seeing the flattery and tasting the taste of being left out, you will get tired of the meal and don't want to get together with anyone. Everything when I was a teenager, it's better to miss each other.
Think about it seriously, are all students not worth mentioning? You can't generalize.
Some of my classmates have become friends, relatives, or partners after years of association. They tend to appear at the following three times, rather than simply looking for you to eat, drink and be merry.
Concern in times of distress, sincerity.
The most rare thing in life should be to share hardships and hardships. But the reality shocked you, the person who once kept saying that he wanted to help you disappeared when you were in trouble; Occasionally, I will encounter people who have fallen into the well.
Relatives and friends who can't stand the test are often people who like to eat and drink. After drinking, he said bold words, and when he woke up, he didn't remember.
Those who help are different. When they hear from you, they will be quick to help.
In the early years of the Ming Dynasty, Liu Bowen was very popular, while his classmate Shi Nai'an was very ordinary.
Shi Nai'an lived in seclusion in the mountains and wrote "The Legend of Jianghu Hawkers".
Shi Nai'an's book has not yet been published, and the manuscript has reached Zhu Yuanzhang. The content of the book is fascinating, but the direction of its encouragement makes people frown. After all, the gangsters of Liangshan are too heavy, and they are used to fighting and killing.
Zhu Yuanzhang said: "This book of advocating chaos is also a conspiracy in people's chests. After that, Shi Nai'an was thrown into prison.
At the critical juncture, Liu Bowen asked Shi Nai'an to hurry up and continue to write the second half of "The Legend of Jianghu Hawkers". As a result, Shi Nai'an's pen turned, and there was an ending in which the heroes took the initiative to recruit peace for the heavens. When the new manuscript was placed on Zhu Yuanzhang's desk, Shi Nai'an went home safely.
Although Liu Bowen and Shi Nai'an's story is difficult to distinguish between truth and falsehood, their classmates are vividly reflected.
We all know that dragons have reverse scales, which are not something that ordinary people dare to touch. Liu Bowen's approach has to be admired.
Back to real life, we will see some very touching pictures: a student is sick, and other students take the initiative to visit and solve the problem of funds; A student set up a farm, and other students helped sell it.
Maybe your classmates are thousands of miles away, and it is difficult to meet each other, but when you are in trouble, they show up in time and continue to track your situation.
Guidance when you are confused is rare.
Everyone has a hard time. When you walk out of school, should you go to **?
It is not difficult to find that one or two years after graduation, some people are working well, and some people are still looking for jobs.
There are always some students who, by virtue of their position and connections, help them find a job or recommend them to a certain industry.
During the Warring States Period, Su Qin and Zhang Yi were both Guiguzi's **. Su Qin debuted earlier and became a diplomat.
For a while, Su Qin was on an errand in Zhao State, and when he heard the news that Qin State was going to attack Zhao State, he sent someone to find Zhang Yi and arranged a very bad dinner, which angered Zhang Yi. After that, Zhang Yi went to the Qin State indignantly.
After arriving in the Qin State, Zhang Yi understood that Su Qin used the radical method to let him settle in the Qin State, and at the same time resolve the contradictions between the Zhao State and the Qin State.
Life is like chess, everyone understands the truth, but not everyone can play chess.
If you are halfway through, you don't know how to lay it out, and suddenly a classmate gives you guidance, then this friendship will contribute to the rest of your life.The poem says: "Each is a Quartet, a colleague here." There is a sequence of success, and it is not allowed to follow each other. ”Everyone's growth process is different, and the age of maturity is also different. Therefore, those who are precocious and successful will not necessarily give you benefits, but they can give you some guidance at critical times.
Listening to your words is better than reading a book for ten years. Communication between classmates may be more effective than the nagging of parents. After all, the classmates are all people of the same generation, and their ideas are more similar.
An invitation in old age, affectionate.
When you retire, do you still want to go to a class reunion? Maybe a lot of people are disgusted by this. Many old people have maintained bad habits such as showing off and boasting; Some elderly people, when they are sick, habitually sigh and sigh, which leads to a very bad atmosphere at the party.
In fact, many classmates don't like to party, but in private they will often be with a few classmates, and even go on trips together.
When the friendship between classmates becomes friendship, the relationship can be maintained for a long time.
Zhu Xi said: "Clothes are not as good as new, and people are not as good as before." ”When people are old, it is completely okay for several classmates to support the elderly together, or live in a small place, and usually take care of each other.
Uncle Ma, who lives in the same community as me, has passed away for many years. His children work in Shenzhen.
Although he lives alone, Uncle Ma is not alone. There are his classmates in several nearby communities, playing cards in a mahjong parlor every afternoon, on the one hand, to kill time, and on the other hand, to take care of each other.
If a student has difficulties and can't walk. Other students can help buy side dishes and send them to the hospital. It's a small thing, don't take it seriously.
Don't blindly close yourself off, but take the initiative to make friends with enthusiastic people. Classmates are also one of the enthusiasts.
Confucius said: "Repay grievances with straightforwardness, and repay virtue with virtue." ”
Between people, it is inevitable that there will be festivals, and it is impossible for all to have the same three views. Therefore, we must learn to be tolerant, at least not to make enemies with others at will.
Books that you read when you were young don't necessarily need them;People who make friends in middle age may not last long. Even your lover may not accompany you to the end. Why do we ask all our classmates to be able to help you and be sincere?
You just have to be sincere and kind, and as for how your classmates treat you, you can do whatever you want. I believe that there are always a few classmates, who have played since childhood, and when they are old, they can still play ** and send a WeChat.
"The Year in a Hurry" said: "There is nothing if you start again, no matter how many times you do it again, there will definitely be regrets in life." ”The imperfect relationship between classmates is also fate, gathering and scattering, and it is worth it.