What are some things that make you romantic?
Some people say that they ...... watching the stars, the sea, and the sunset with the people they like
It is also said that the moment you receive the flowers, you feel very romantic.
Although romance has a thousand different forms in the eyes of different people, I can guarantee that it has nothing to do with material things, because some people can still create a variety of romances to ...... even if they don't have a lot of money
Xiaoyue, a young man of literature and art, runs a barbecue garden that does not make money. Because of his love for **, he set up a simple small stage, and when there were no guests, he played and sang with a group of friends. Sometimes when it rains heavily, the rain will seep down the cracks in the shed, and you have to take pots and pans to fill them, but everyone doesn't care, and they continue to sing and dance in the wind and rain, so ...... happy
ll, an unemployed young woman with a cleaner face than her face, but often gives small gifts to her friends. The gifts are not too expensive, but they are full of heart-warming ingenuity. Once, she stayed at a friend's house for one night, and in order to express her gratitude, she left a small card the next day, on which were painted a few smiling flowers, and the handwriting was beautiful and clear words of thanks, although the number of words was not much, but it was full of warmth. She also reserves a cup of coffee at a café that her friends frequent, so she can be pleasantly surprised the next time she visits.
Ah Lu, a female rap singer, although she has not become famous, she firmly believes that she will become famous one day. This girl is also very sincere, and when she met a sad-faced flower seller at the bar, she simply bought all the roses in her hand and gave them to all the girls present.
Why is romance not related to materialism?
Is it hard to live romantically?
Some people find it difficult because they have a sense of scarcity with money. In their hearts, romance is equated with money. Men love romance? That's not doing business, it's a showmanship; Women yearn for romance? That's money worship and profligacy.
These people's imaginations are completely bound by the numbers on their bank accounts and product labels, and as long as the former does not grow to a certain concrete and considerable scale enough to "surrender" the latter, they will not be able to think about the seemingly ethereal thing of "romance" for a day.
However, even if one day they are freed from the cage of money, they will still have a bottomless fear of "romance" in their hearts. They thought romance could be sold in bulk, but they will find that the buying process is not as easy as they think – because romance has nothing to do with money, but with the imagination in your head.
I'll admit that creating romance sometimes costs money, but it doesn't always cost you a lot of money to get the best romance.
Take tourism, for example
Is it romantic to drive a convertible sports car and feel the evening breeze on Coconut Grove Avenue?
Is it romantic to eat a seafood feast with oyster and abalone by the sea?
Is it romantic to check in and take pictures in the aquarium suite for 100,000 yuan a night?
Money may be the stepping stone to some of the best luxuries. However, when everyone spends the same expensive **, imitating the same pose, experiencing the assembly-line "same romance", and is eager to punch in, take pictures, retouch, and show the most perfect results in front of everyone, the poetry in this is immediately eliminated - because romance cannot be reproduced.
Money can only bring you infinitely close to stacking the material elements of "romance", but it cannot reach the essence of romance.
Romance is more revealed by your words and deeds, and should carry the imprint of your own temperament, and your understanding and insight into another person - but the standard answer provided to us by the business society is much the same, even simple and crude.
Romance comes from both loving yourself
And love the thoughts of others.
What does true romance look like?
I can't define it, but I know that at its core it is about love, pleasure, and the desire for freedom.
One romantic experience I remember was when someone invited me to a nearby secret sea spot to "sit" - I usually go to a café, a tavern, or someone's company, but I didn't experience the wild "sitting" in the past, so how could I not go there happily?
When we arrived at our destination, we set up camping chairs on the steep reef and sat down relatively closely. I saw the waves crashing in front of me, the light rain in the sky, and the fishermen fishing not far away, and immediately I felt a sense of freedom and dizziness, as if this was the end of the world.
Then again, is it hard to have such a romance? It's not that hard, and it may cost more to go to a nice café or bar than this – but very few people are willing to take the time to explore such a beautiful place and invite me to enjoy it.
Speaking of the barbecue restaurant owner Xiao Yue mentioned earlier, every time he drinks and sings with his friends, he is very energetic to heat up the atmosphere. Once, he even put on sunglasses on a big night, danced Michael Jackson's classic dance steps, and put a hand into a fist in his clothes, pretending to be a heart jumping, saying that he "has never been so excited". Everyone laughed back and forth, and the time spent in this way seemed to be recalled, and they could bring happiness with the shining stars.
I think of my high school math teacher again, in the afternoon of the second half of the third semester of high school, the classroom was always sleepy, in order to wake up the sleepy insects, she simply picked up a branch, pretending to be a fairy with magic, who pointed to, who would be snorted away! The "mantra" wakes up.
I've found that people who can produce "exclusive romance" have a lot in common:
First of all, they love life.
Because I love life, I enjoy the beautiful gifts of this world: nature, dance, food, wine, ......There are all kinds of beauty in the world, and they are happy to open their arms and feast, completely unaware that they are intoxicated.
In other words, they are people who don't screw, whether they have money or not. They don't compete with themselves, blaming themselves for not making enough millions, and not being qualified to lie down and enjoy themselves. Even if they are dedicated to making a living, they will still find time to reward themselves.
Secondly, they love humans.
Because I love others, I want to share my happiness and make others happy together. Love here can be love in the narrow sense or love in the broad sense. What I see in them is a heartfelt tribute to every living life – every person is a window, they are willing to enjoy the scenery of other windows, and they are willing to open their own scenery for people to enjoy.
Therefore, romance is a virtuous circle, the more you create, the more you enjoy, and you never feel wanted.
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