Love is a double-edged sword, when a person is very affectionately invested in a relationship, and deep in it, she can feel the most fiery love from love, but will also be burned by this blazing heat, because once you love each other more than the other party loves yourself, it is easy to lose yourself in the whirlpool of feelings, the initiative of the relationship will naturally give way to the other party, the speed of the rhythm will also be controlled by the other party, you will appear extremely passive in the relationship, at this moment you will have to be ready to lose yourself.
Whether it is the love of young people or the love of middle-aged people, once two people with the same magnetic field come together because of fate, there will inevitably be a sweetness like glue, which will make the two people in love refreshed, and each other can draw strength from each other.
But this sweetness will not last forever in the relationship, two people in love, the depth of love is not the same, this is related to the character and emotional experience, the kind party will love deeper, the person who loves deeply will dedicate his heart to the other party, without any reservations to love, care about the other party's warmth and coldness, intervene in the other party's interpersonal relationships, the party who loves deeply hates to be with the other party and himself, and there will be overwhelming thoughts and worries after a moment of separation.
In fact, at this time, the road of feelings has gone crooked, the party who loves deeply will only become more and more sensitive, the person who loves shallowly will not communicate with any person of the opposite sex, the party who loves deeply will be tense and tense at all times, he is getting more and more tired, and the other party will be more and more tired, this emotional state will last for a long time, both parties will be painful, and the party who loves deeply feels that the other party does not love himself, The party who is in shallow love feels that the other party does not understand him, and both parties are tormented by love, and this anxious state slowly consumes the initial sweetness.
Human instinct will gradually move away from bad feelings, and when this tense love relationship lasts for a long time, both parties begin to look at each other, and each other is no longer a luminous body in each other's eyes, and love becomes dim. When the partner you love discovers that the other person's behavior and actions have begun to determine your own joys and sorrows and deeply affect your emotional stability, that is when you lose your personal charm and when you lose yourself. The party who loves deeply tosses and turns, trying to make love better, but it turns out to be a mess, and the more they love, the more they push each other far away.
Therefore, in order to have a long-lasting relationship, the loving party must see the essence through the appearance of the relationship, and accept the fact that the other person loves himself more than you, which is human nature and no one can change it. The only thing you can do is to manage your life well, to be back to your former self, once you find yourself, you will continue to exude temperament and energy, the magnetic field will become stronger and stronger, and the other party will love you more and more.