There are two kinds of money, one is called 'living money' and the other is called 'dead money', and 'living money' represents circulation, and in the process of circulation, common values and resources will be gathered. 'Dead money' represents non-circulation, and non-circulating money is bound to inhibit the exchange of human feelings, once there is no exchange, it will cut off the link between the individual and the society, and the link will be cut off, and it will be difficult to achieve success in career or business.
There are many people in ordinary families whose wives manage money, and the reason why ordinary families are ordinary has a lot to do with their wives managing money, including the propaganda of **, as well as the sketches of the Spring Festival Gala, you will see that women's social status has been greatly improved, making the wife's management of money a way of expression of love and trust, just like a man's management of money is a mistake, and he must be messing with flowers and grass outside.
On the contrary, the money that men manage is 'living money', and the money that women manage is 'dead money'. Families in which men manage money tend to have successful careers, live a prosperous life, have a high level of consumption, and have a high income, and their view is that only when money flows can the family continue to flow money. Women who manage money live a tight life, thrifty, low consumption level, low income, their point of view is not to spend a penny indiscriminately, to save what they can, and never spend the money saved until they have to, so the money is not flowing.
Any business itself is a relationship between people, and if a man wants to make a career in society, he needs to establish a connection with the people in this society. When I was a child, I would make friends with people according to my personality preferences. Socializing in adulthood is about making friends based on interests. The establishment of connections between people is inseparable from the use of money, and the social interaction paved with money is more sustainable.
Once the wife is in charge of money in a family, the woman's pattern and thinking will inevitably 'lock' the money that goes into the pocket, preferably like Pixiu, only in and out of the line of thought. The money is 'locked' to limit its flow, and if money does not flow, human feelings and interests will no longer flow, which is bound to lock the door for men to establish a connection with society, and over time, men's circle of friends will become smaller and smaller, and there will be less and less information to contact, and there will be fewer and fewer opportunities, and in the end they can only live a life with their wives with limited assets.
As a male group, men themselves occupy a dominant position in survival and competition in the social ecology, and only by earning enough money can they create a relaxed living environment, and the marriage created by a relaxed living environment can better reproduce high-quality offspring. Once the wife is in charge of money, it not only locks the door for men to establish a connection with society, but also stifles men's survival and fighting spirit as a male group, which will make men cowardly and unconfident over time. When his wife woke up and hoped that his man could use money to open up a new world, he found that the man had already been stifled and regretted it was too late.
Therefore, if a family wants to go uphill, the wife should use money to awaken the man's fighting spirit, so that the man will have a desire for money from the bottom of his heart, just like the desire for a woman at the age of 20, there will be the motivation to move forward. Don't just care about the immediate benefits, the money you give up is like the seeds you sow, sooner or later it will take root and sprout, and finally reap fruitful fruits.