Not all mothers are a woman's biggest support. It is said that the mother's family is a woman's last retreat, and it is also a woman's biggest backer.
Unless there is no younger brother or elder brother in the family, whether the mother's family can become a woman's last backer depends on whether you have money in your hands, whether your parents are patriarchal, and whether your brother and brother value you, the sister who marries!
Not long after I fell asleep, my mother called ** and said in a serious tone"Why did you forget to give a red envelope to your niece yesterday? Your sister-in-law is still angry at home"
I was confused"My nieces are all working to earn money, why do I have to press the New Year's money, and my sister-in-law didn't give my children the New Year's money"
Mom's tone softened a little after hearing this, but she still insisted"Can your child compare to your sister-in-law's? If you don't talk to your sister-in-law, will your father and I be able to have a good life at home? As soon as you left today, your sister-in-law asked me why you didn't give your niece a red envelope as an aunt, did you look down on her, and I called you dozens of **, you don't pick it up or you don't reply. "
I divorced myself with my son, started a small business on my own, and became a father and a mother by myself, and my life was not easy.
In the past few years, business has not been good, my children go to school, various tutoring classes, and I have been under a lot of financial pressure.
Before the divorce, every time I went home, I had to bleed profusely, otherwise I wouldn't be able to enter the house at all, and I divorced my ex-husband, and there was also a reason for this, he said that my mother, our whole family is a vampire.
This year's Chinese New Year, I didn't plan to go back to my parents' house, as soon as I entered the Layue Gate, my mother cried and asked me to go back for the New Year, no way, I had to take my son home.
I gave my sister-in-law 5,000 when I entered the door, and I bought a lot of things, I don't know why, my sister-in-law didn't give me a good face at the beginning of the junior high school, not that Sang scolded Huai was to smash the pots and bowls, no way, I took the child and left in the second year of junior high school.
Now that my mother said this, I realized that it was because she didn't give my niece New Year's money.
I still remember when my niece was born, every birthday, Children's Day and Chinese New Year, I would wrap her a big red envelope until she was 22 years old.
In this way, I spent at least tens of thousands of yuan on her, not counting the expenses for buying her clothes and snacks, school and living expenses.
Let's look at my children again, every Chinese New Year, for the 50 yuan given by my mother, my sister-in-law has never bought a single piece of clothing!
My mother was commanded by her daughter-in-law, and even my sister-in-law's unreasonable behavior was indulged to the extreme, telling me to bring red envelopes to my niece when I went home, so as not to cause family conflicts again.
I told my mom"From this year onwards, I will no longer give red envelopes to my niece.
According to common sense, she also worked, since she was a child, I have been kind to her, she should also buy a gift for her aunt, let them deal with this matter this time.
I figured out that I wouldn't give my niece any more money. In the future, let me go back, and if I don't let me go back, forget it! Anyway, this home is nothing worth my nostalgia!
People are different from people, families are different from families, parents and parents may not be the same. Talking about money is very realistic, and it seems to be an insult to family affection, but many times, it can really test and get a lot of things, real things.
If you don't have money, you can't pave the way back to your parents' home, so this kind of severance of family affection is not a kind of cruelty in the world.