During the Chinese New Year, the seven aunts and eight aunts sat together and started chatterboxing one after another.
The tea is steaming, but it is not just the water that is boiling, but the deep emotions and troubles in everyone's heart.
My aunt pursed her lips and said earnestly: "Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and other people's affairs are good, we must learn to be generous." Don't always worry about it so that you can have a good time. ”
The seven aunts and eight aunts nodded in agreement, and their words seemed to show generosity and tolerance. However, in their conversations, perceptive people may have spotted a subtle contradiction.
It turns out that while everyone cares about other people's families, they pay more attention to their own small families. They seem to be happy to give advice and guidance to others, but they are cautious and cautious when dealing with those around them.
The aunts always advised: "Don't meddle in other people's bad things, let it be." But they themselves were privately discussing trivial household matters, arguing over trivial matters.
Is true concern just a façade?
Perhaps, this isThe complexity of human nature。In the depths of our hearts, we always prefer to put ourselves first, focusing our attention and speculation on our own small family. We want others to be more understanding and considerate of our affairs, but we are rarely willing to take the initiative to think about others.
However, perhaps we should reflect: can we truly be generous and tolerant when the seven aunts and eight aunts get together for the Chinese New Year?
In the past year, have we cared much about the joys and sorrows of others? When they were in trouble, did we really lend a helping hand?
Perhaps, we can try to change our attitude. Instead of dwelling on trivial household chores, it is better to care more about your relatives and friends around you. Give them support and encouragement when they are facing difficulties, and exchange genuine care for sincerity.
At this special moment of the Chinese New Year, let us learn to face the contradictions and misunderstandings between relatives with a tolerant heart. Let go of selfishness and be more considerate of others. Perhaps, when we really care about other people's small families, we will also find our own warmth in their care.
Therefore, when the New Year's talk is only a small family, the real concern should be placed on the **? Let's no longer just talk on paper, but use practical actions to change ourselves.
Let's shift the focus from our own small family to others. Through understanding and tolerance, our relatives get along more harmoniously and care for each other more sincerely. In this way, we can truly experience the warmth and happiness that the New Year brings.
Let's say goodbye to the careful eye of the calculating and embrace generosity and tolerance. Because only in this way can we meet every day in the future with a better self.