1. A new way to celebrate the New Year: wives are no longer sad, husbands are no longer embarrassed, and parents are more relaxed.
With the progress of society and the change of concepts, the traditional way of celebrating the New Year is undergoing a revolutionary change. Many young couples are faced with the problem of who to return to for the Chinese New Year, and they begin to adopt a new way to deal with it, that is, "each goes back to his own home". In this way, the wife does not have to embarrass her husband, the husband does not embarrass his wife, and both parents can celebrate the New Year with ease. This new type of "New Year's Celebration" is trending and has become the norm in some families.
Many couples, like Papi-chan and her husband, choose to go back to their respective homes to spend the New Year. From falling in love, to getting married, and now having children, the parents have never met, but they are not bothered or upset by it. Papi-chan explained that they didn't do this because they didn't care about each other, but because they didn't feel the need to care too much about it. For the husband's parents, the son is the most important, and for their own parents, the daughter is also the most important. It's a sobering way to say that we can respect each other's family relationships while also providing convenience and comfort for both parents.
This new "New Year's way" quickly became popular, and many couples began to follow the example of papi sauce. For example, Ms. Li from Guangzhou and her husband have been married for 6 years, and at first they were faced with the problem of who to return to. But after a quarrel, they decided to go back to their respective homes for the New Year, which has been going on for five years. Ms. Li said that such a choice not only did not have any impact on the relationship between the two, but made their relationship more harmonious. As soon as this story was published, it immediately aroused widespread discussion and resonance.
Support for this new "New Year's Celebration" is mainly focused on young women. Especially in single-child families, daughters want to spend more time with their parents after getting married, but they often can't do so because they go back to their in-laws' house. If this method is widely implemented, it will solve the grievances and sadness caused by many female friends. In addition, for children who are parents, their own home is always the most comfortable place, regardless of whether they are married or not. If the Chinese New Year can be spent in his own home, the husband does not have to worry about the embarrassment and embarrassment of his wife returning to his hometown, and it also liberates both parents, no longer need to pay attention to the opinions of his daughter-in-law or aunt, and only need to take care of his children.
However, there is also some opposition to this new "way of celebrating the New Year". It has been argued that this choice may be impersonal, since marriage is not only a matter for two people, but also involves two families. Especially for parents who are more conservative in traditional values, if their daughter-in-law or aunt does not come home during the Chinese New Year and does not visit relatives, it may be considered rude or untouched. In addition, if only one person comes home for the Chinese New Year, it may be seen as a problem in the relationship between the husband and wife, causing concern for the parents.
Therefore, when faced with the question of whose home to return to for the Chinese New Year, it is necessary to respect traditional concepts and consider the feelings of both parents. Choosing the right approach is a compromise. For example, go back to your mother-in-law's house this year and your parents' house next year; Or during the Spring Festival, bring both parents together, which is both lively and takes care of everyone's feelings. Especially for couples who have settled in big cities, you can consider bringing both parents together for the Chinese New Year, so that the wife and husband will not be embarrassed, and the parents can feel more love and respect.
In general, there is no fixed pattern for the way to celebrate the New Year, and it should be decided according to your actual situation and the opinions of both parents. Only by respecting each other's feelings and understanding each other's thoughts can we achieve a state of balance and harmony. Whichever way you choose, the most important thing is to be able to make everyone feel happy and happy during the New Year.