Yesterday I happened to see such a sentence:It only takes one day for you to marry in the mountains, but it takes a lifetime for your children to get out of the mountains! 
This reminds me of the TV series "Parents' Love", there is such a plot in the TV series: An Jie's youngest son Jiang Weimin was unwilling to endure hardships when he was young, and he was unwilling to stay on the island as a soldier, and when he wanted to be a soldier a year later, he didn't have this opportunity. In the end, he missed the opportunity to be a soldier, and he had nothing to do at home, so he could only go to the mountains and go to the countryside, and was arranged by Jiang Defu in his hometown. 
Originally, their plan was to let Jiang Weimin's hometown work for two years, and then find an opportunity to transfer back to the city, who knew that after staying in the countryside for less than a year, Jiang Weimin himself went to the tractor factory to learn tractors and became a worker in the tractor factory. met his wife Xu Hong in the tractor factory, and this daughter-in-law An Jie originally disagreed, but An Jie and his eldest son Jiang Weiguo had a conflict between the mother and son because of his girlfriend, and his daughter Jiang Yafei also had a conflict between them because of her marriage. 
An Jie was reluctant to have any more conflicts with them about his youngest son's marriage, and An Jie always felt guilty about Jiang Weimin at home, so he respected his youngest son's opinion. Not long after the two got married, they gave birth to their daughter Yaya, and because they had no time or energy to take care of the child, they took the child back to the city and handed it over to Jiang Defu and An Jie to raise. 
The two of them are not motivated, coupled with the rise of the wave of layoffs, Jiang Weimin and his family have become laid-off workers, and the two of them stay at An Jie's house, they are lazy to do it all day, and the children are brought up by An Jie and Jiang Defu. Jiang Weimin and his family didn't go out to look for a job, they counted on An Jie and Jiang Defu to find them a job one day, An Jie thought about it, and the two of them were not suitable for anything. 
Then I thought of giving them a laundry for the two of them to do first, at least having a job to support the family, so that they would not be lazy at home all day and make trouble for themselves. But they didn't have much money in their hands, so An Jie thought of a way, she wanted to raise money from the children, so she gave each child a **. In the end, more than 300,000 yuan was raised, and An Jie said: This can show the benefits of our more children, I knew this, I might as well have had a few more back then. 
In fact, An Jie was able to raise so much money, not because of how much money she gave birth to, but because she chose a capable father for the child. An Jie's eldest son Jiang Weiguo and second son Jiang Weidong were both stained with Jiang Defu's light, Jiang Defu arranged for them to be soldiers, and in the end they had a chance. And their first daughter Jiang Yafei stayed on the island directly to serve as a soldier, it stands to reason that the environment at that time made it very difficult for girls to become soldiers, but Jiang Yafei was able to stay on the island as a soldier, which was completely due to Jiang Defu's strong ability. 
On the other hand, it is also because these children work very hard, otherwise if you have a capable father, it will be in vain if you don't work hard. Just like Nabao said earlier, it only takes one day for you to marry into the mountains, but it takes a lifetime for your children to get out of the mountains.
So it is very important to have a person who needs help, and in Jiang Defu's family, Jiang Defu is the one who helps, what do you think?