Have you ever used the "Pin Chat" feature on WeChat?
Are the people you are pinned to chat with that you care about, or who are important to you?
This instinctive, habit of prioritizing life, hides a person's character, values, and emotional tendencies.
Life is trivial, age is growing, and the perception of life is quietly changing.
I have seen a lot, I have seen it lightly, and the order in the "Pin Chat" is also changing.
Although it is a small corner, it also interprets real life.
I don't know how many parents like me have set their children or important contacts related to their children to "top chats".
This stems from my own experience.
On that occasion, the teacher sent out important information in the child's class group and needed the cooperation of the parents to complete the task.
I happened to be busy with family affairs and didn't pay attention to the group messages.
In the evening, when I deliberately opened the class group to check the messages, I found that I was the only one in the class who had not completed the task.
I hurriedly finished the operation and replied to the teacher.
Afterwards, when I talked to a friend about it, she said that since her child went to kindergarten, the class group has been at the top.
In this way, she can stay informed about the dynamics of the class and the child, and also respond to important things in a timely manner.
Since then, I've started to follow my friend's example and rarely miss important information about my child.
A friend is the only daughter in the family, but she is still married far away.
After his mother died, his father was left alone.
She wanted to take her father to live with her, but she was always in love with her hometown, and no matter how much she persuaded her, her father was unwilling to move in.
After her father fell once at home, she was even more relieved.
She pinned her father's WeChat to the top, and also taught her father to set herself to the top, so that the father and daughter could find each other.
She often chats with her father, and sometimes, her father will take the initiative to "report" to her.
In the ...... of "Have you eaten and drank, what is the weather, and are you warmly dressed?"In these chattering gossip, the father-daughter affection is getting stronger and stronger.
She said that although she can't do filial piety in front of her father, she can only rely on this way to calm her guilty feelings and maintain her inseparable concern.
I saw the messages of several netizens:
My WeChat is at the top of my lover and parents, the closer the person, the more I will pay attention not to ignore; ”
My daughter works in the field, and since I put my daughter's WeChat at the top, I feel so convenient; ”
Seeing that my wife put my WeChat on the top, I felt warm in my heart; ”
When people reach middle age, their understanding of family affection is more emotional and cherished than when they were young.
WeChat to the top of relatives, is to leave the most important position in your heart to your relatives, silently remind yourself:
They are the most important people in my life, and I want to receive news about them as soon as possible.
In everyone's WeChat, there should be a confidant or small group who is pinned to the top.
They are the backyard of their own emotions, some happiness and only want to share with them, and some pain, and only dare to confide in them.
They are the ones who can be disturbed by themselves anytime and anywhere, without having to think about whether they can bother later.
I have seen the story of Zhihu netizen @Xiaolan.
Xiaolan and a primary school classmate have known each other for 30 years, from their student days to their respective marriages and children, although they live in different cities, they have never lost contact.
They're all top friends of each other.
When Xiaolan is in a bad mood, her friends will send hundreds of messages to comfort and encourage her; When friends go shopping, they will send voice messages or take photos to share with Xiaolan; When they have a conflict with their lover, they will complain about each other ......
If you want to say anything, just pick up your phone and send it, and you don't have to scruple about anything.
Once, Xiaolan worked overtime until 12 o'clock at night, confided in a friend that her lover was unreliable and didn't come to pick her up.
Xiaolan, who finished her work, took a taxi and came home to find takeout hanging at the door.
At this time, a friend sent a message, complaining that she was woken up by her, and at the same time telling her to rest early after eating.
Looking at the heart-warming news and eating the hot takeout, Xiao Lan's eyes were moist, and her heart was overflowing with emotion and contentment.
There is a saying:Whether it's amorous verses, beautiful essays, or leisure pleasures, nothing can replace intimate friendship.
It is enough to have a confidant in life, taste the sweetness of life together, and resolve the bitterness of life together.
They are busy and care about each other, and this fate should be cared for in the palm of your hand.
Many people set customers, leaders and colleagues, work groups, and so on to "pin chats".
Some people can't help themselves and have to do it; Some people willingly and spontaneously do so.
No matter what you think in your heart, it shows that work occupies an important place in life.
I have a college classmate who went to work in Beijing after graduation, and was promoted from a grassroots clerk to a general manager's secretary in less than two years.
Later, I learned that in our eyes, she had great luck, and she relied on her own efforts to get promoted.
From the beginning of her entry, she has set the leader and the work group to the top, and whenever there is a work task, she can respond and implement it as soon as possible.
In one case, the company's partner had promised to sign a contract the next day, but was ready to negotiate with another company the night before.
When the company leaders got the news, it was already more than 11 o'clock in the evening, and the staff who were originally in charge of the project documents could not be contacted at all.
Seeing the news of the work group, the students immediately responded to the leader and acted separately with the leader.
She found the home address of the staff member and rushed to pick up the documents.
By the time she delivered the documents to the airport, the leader had already arrived and held off the partner.
In the end, the signing of the next day went smoothly and saved a big business for the company.
The work attitude of the students was affirmed by the leaders, and they successively handed over important work to her.
With due diligence day in and day out, promotion comes naturally.
People who work at the top know what it means to work for them and how to achieve results.
Especially in a highly competitive environment, it is very fortunate to have a stable job.
There is a saying, "in its position, seek its job", focus on the **, the harvest is in**.
Promotions, salary increases, and a good life are all earned in this way.
Those who work at the top will also receive a gift in return for their work.
WeChat is at the top, which is the expression and display of a person's inner emotions.
The pinning is different, but the purpose is to make it easier to see or find, and to expose the position and value of the person being pinned in a person's heart.
Who is left with an important position in your heart, who keeps an important position for you, whether it is the trust of two-way running, or the persistence of one-way running, this experience is worth cherishing.
There is a kind of concern called "silently topping".
May this be in the square inch of land:
There is family, friendship and love, and in a precious relationship, feel the meaning of life;
Have a job that you like and are willing to pursue, give yourself the freedom to walk through life, and experience the value of life.
Halfway through your life, don't misplace the most important things, the right position will warm your heart.
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