Life, like an uncarved rough stone, will one day be smoothed out by time and the wind and rain experienced, making us more sleek and mature.
This process is what we call growing up.
Growing up has nothing to do with age, some people have grown up at the age of 20, and some people are in their thirties, and they still haven't grown up at the age of 40.
Growing up is related to the maturity of the mind, and the so-called youth and old achievements are so.
I think that when we were young, we were always full of infinite fantasies and longings about the world, and longed to be the one who could control our own destiny when we grew up.
However, when we entered the society, we gradually realized that growing up is not easy.
The world is like a vast ocean, and we are insignificant boats.
Sometimes, we meet those annoying people who are unkind to us and even hurt us.
However, people who have really grown up know that for these people, a smile is the best way to fight back.
Because a smile not only dissolves embarrassment and tension, but also shows our noble qualities and tolerant mind.
Smiling can make those who hurt us not know the details of us, so that they dare not act rashly. 、
Growing up means that we have to learn to pull out the thorns from our bodies.
Pulling out the thorn is not really pulling out, but dealing with the world with a more peaceful and sleek attitude.
Everyone has their own temperament and emotions, but as we grow up, we will gradually understand that it is a wiser choice to remain peaceful and stable.
Whether at work or when dealing with people, a person with a calm mind is often able to deal with problems more calmly and rationally.
Learn to control your emotions, no longer get angry about small things, and not be easily influenced and hurt by others.
We become mature and resilient, and in the face of setbacks and difficulties, we no longer give up easily, but persevere in chasing our dreams.
Growing up means that we have to learn to face the realities and dilemmas of life.
The world is never as beautiful and perfect as a fairy tale, and we will face all kinds of challenges and unsatisfactory situations.
We put in the effort, but we may not get everyone's liking and recognition.
But that doesn't mean we're losers.
On the contrary, it is the test and grind that life puts on us to be wiser and stronger.
It will also make us a person who is calm in the face of great rights and wrongs.
We are not afraid of failure, because there will always be a next opportunity, so be prepared and wait for it.
Understand that what really matters is inner growth and adherence to one's own worth.
As long as we treat ourselves and others with sincerity and do everything with our hearts, it is enough for us to face the imperfections of life calmly.
Growing up is not an overnight process, it requires our efforts and sweat.
Everyone will have their own story and their own growth trajectory.
Some people may have experienced setbacks and failures, but they never flinched in the face of adversity and rose to the challenge bravely.
There are also people who may have a smooth journey, but they still manage their inner world with their hearts and minds, and constantly improve themselves.
Either way, they have gained a lot of valuable wealth along the way, and they have become truly resilient and wise people.
Growing up is a process of growth, and it is also a journey deep into the heart.
No matter how much wind and rain we go through, the journey of growing up will always continue.
In the process, we see the bitterness and sweetness of life, and experience the interweaving of laughter and tears.
We have used our own hands to polish our inner strength, and we have learned the strength and wisdom to face the world.
Although our edges and corners have been smoothed, we still retain the original intention and persistence, which is the mark of our growth and the driving force for us to become better.