My ex-husband's determination to have a son made me watch a good show, and the 53-year-old aunt got married and divorced right
I am Zhao Yuan, 53 years old this year, I have been retired for three years, and I have a pension of more than 3,100 yuan per month. I live in a two-bedroom apartment of 70 square meters, living alone, and my daughter is working in a foreign country and is not married.
Three years ago, my ex-husband and I divorced. Although I claim not to be sad and lost, I actually loved him deeply. However, our marriage broke down mainly because he and his in-laws were too obsessed with having a son.
Since the two-child policy was lifted seven years ago, I have been living with the pressure of childbirth every day. However, when I retired at the age of 50, I agreed to my ex-husband's request for divorce on the condition that I buy a house for my daughter in full.
In our 18th-tier city, a three-bedroom apartment of 110 square meters costs more than 800,000 yuan. The ex-husband and in-laws gritted their teeth and agreed to buy this house in order to have a name for their son born outside.
I also happened to be retired, with enough money and a house, although I didn't have in-laws to serve and no men to worry about. My daughter has a stable home, and my future life will be full of sunshine.
Even though my retirement salary is not much, the cost of living alone is not high. The house I live in is provided by the unit, and the water, electricity and heating costs are borne by the unit, so I don't need to spend a penny.
Before my ex-husband filed for divorce, I had already thought about what I was going to do when I retired. I don't want to look for a job, but I plan to follow the teacher and do my own thing.
My ex-husband and I met after work and then got married. At that time, my in-laws liked me very much, thinking that I was delicate and sensible, good at embroidery and housework. What makes them happiest is that the Hunan food I make is their favorite.
However, my in-laws' affection for me only lasted for just over two years. After the birth of their daughter, they became unhappy and always wanted me to go back to their hometown in the countryside and give them another grandchild, pretending to be the child of the villagers, and then we adopted.
At that time, the policy was zero tolerance for overbirth, not only could they lose their jobs, but some people could even be punished and bankrupt. As much as I can't understand it, I'm not going to risk it just to have a son.
So, at my in-laws' house, I have always been a tolerant person. No matter how much others accuse me, I keep my head down and concentrate on what I do. Usually, I go for a run and go to the library to read a book.
My daughter has always been a good child, she went to graduate school until she graduated from graduate school, and she also got a good job in the field. However, the expectations of my ex-husband and in-laws for my son have not decreased, and what I didn't expect was that my in-laws actually found a woman for my ex-husband to have a son.
When my ex-husband showed me his son's **, I almost fainted. Then, I recalibrated my mindset. Anger is inevitable, but how to protect the rights and interests of my daughter and me is the practical issue I should consider.
When my in-laws learned that my ex-husband had confessed to me, she came to the door to talk about it in person. They offered to settle the matter with 300,000 yuan, but I was unusually calm.
Considering that it is not realistic to have an ex-husband buy a house for their daughter in a foreign country, they cannot afford it. Therefore, I intend to purchase a modest property in the best location in our local area, which is exactly what they can afford.
Also, I carefully calculated my savings with my ex-husband over the years, and they are now in my name. I decided to put most of the money aside and buy the treasury bonds as my daughter, while the rest of the savings were divided equally between me and my ex-husband.
Given that the ex-husband was troubled by the distractions of women outside, he agreed to buy a full-payment property for his daughter within his means. However, my in-laws changed their minds, thinking that I was not satisfied, thinking that the 300,000 yuan they provided was already very good, and even suggested that I divorce my wife and remarry directly.
In fact, the first year after the divorce was very difficult, I hardly went out, and most of the time I only strolled downstairs at night when it was sparsely populated to vent my inner depression.
Originally, I was not fat, but a year after the divorce, I lost more than 80 pounds. My ex-husband called ** many times to inquire, and he thought that I might have an incurable disease that caused me to be so thin.
In the second year of my divorce, I gradually came out of the trough, and I was willing to exercise in the sun, and I started running again, gradually regaining my vitality and full of hope for life.
My self-leading career also gradually started, not only following the teacher to receive various business cooperation, contributing to the teacher's account, but also learning to operate my own account.
Today, my monthly income is almost comparable to my retirement salary, and being alone has laid the foundation for my later years.
At a small gathering with a few old colleagues, they mysteriously told me that I was getting divorced too quickly!
At the time, I didn't understand what they meant. Later, my closest sister told me that my ex-husband's son was not his biological son at all, and even his future wife could not identify the biological father of the child.
The ex-husband's future wife only said that during that time, she had intimate contact with three men. The other two had already gone abroad, leaving only my ex-husband by her side, so she insisted that the child was mine's ex-husband's, and that it was also a son, which made my ex-husband very happy.
However, when the child was sick and hospitalized, he found that his blood type was special and did not match his ex-husband, so he thought of taking a DNA test. After several tests, the results showed that the child was not his own. Now my in-laws and ex-husband are feeling devastated, but I am not happy about it. I think this is the fairness of heaven and dooms everything.
I went through a year of pain, and now it's my ex-husband's and in-laws' turn to suffer for the rest of my life. Fate is really fair sometimes, and the heavens watch everything. I have always been a kind woman, honoring my in-laws, taking care of my daughter, and giving a lot for my ex-husband, but I suffered such a blow.
My old colleague said that I was a wise woman and that I would definitely be rewarded. I look forward to my good fortune and hope for happiness in the future.