01 Live a down-to-earth life.
In our world, we humans can be divided into different types based on personality or gender.
It's not that boys and girls are different, but that boys and girls have some differences in their way of thinking.
Many girls will always fall into a sense of confusion, in fact, many times it is just because our thinking orientation is wrong. We always think that we have to rely on something to survive.
Many girls think exactly like this, they think that when they are out of love or lonely, they will be very insecure.
They always hope that their other half can always be with them, so that their hearts are less sensitive and fragile.
Why do we always think about changing ourselves through others?
Can't we be independent without the presence of others?
To become independent, we must first learn to live a down-to-earth life.
It's enough to live your life in a down-to-earth way, to know what you want in the future, and to know what you want to do right now.
In fact, many of us just don't understand our goals enough and don't know what the meaning of our lives is.
02 Be patient.
Many girls always think that after falling in love, the boy should give himself wholeheartedly.
If we don't feel good about ourselves, then we become very impatient.
So we should be a little more patient with everything, and we shouldn't always let our emotions go with our own temperament. We need to be a little more rational and let our reason control our emotions.
We shouldn't always be too emotional, because being too emotional will make us not do things well enough.
Be patient and see what things are.
Many times when we are ** something, we will always stare at the appearance.
Very few people can look beyond the surface of things to see what the essence of this thing is.
That's simply because we don't have enough patience, we always want to, desperately know what the outcome of this thing is.
But the more anxious or impatient we are, the less calm our hearts become.
Just like the process of falling in love, in fact, we want the love of others, which is a relatively common thing, but we can't force others to love ourselves.
If the other party can take the initiative to love you, or take care of you, then this kind of love will be more free.
If we insist on forcing others to love ourselves, then even if we get that love, then what?
It's impossible to force someone to do something for a long time, and if one day they don't want to sacrifice themselves for the sake of you.
They are also learning to rebel against you, so how do we deal with ourselves?
03Stay in good shape.
For girls, making themselves look better is not only about how to take care of their ** or how to put on makeup.
A change in our appearance may make us look younger, but if we have a good attitude, it will give us a youthful atmosphere from the inside out.
How do you keep yourself in a good shape?
First of all, we need not to always worry about some small things, even if something big happens, we are the same, don't always let ourselves think about it.
Shift your attention in time and shift your attention to the things you like.
Maintaining a love for the things in this world also gives us hope for the future.
04Don't always get caught up in fantasy.
In fact, many of us like fantasies, and fantasies are not necessarily a bad thing, but sometimes excessive fantasies can lead us into a state of uncertainty.
We always imagine what the future state will be like, but we don't take action at the moment. Immersing ourselves in fantasies can often cause anxiety in our hearts.
To make ourselves stronger, in fact, we still need our own efforts.
What we want, we must make ourselves clear.
Know your goals, and don't always stagnate in the future.
Having a goal is a good start, and the way to keep that good start going is to keep trying.
Don't always think that your efforts will be in vain, in fact, even if the experience of our efforts does not work at the moment, it will have a certain effect in the future.
Don't be too utilitarian in everything we do, we must keep a clear head, and don't always be disturbed by the myriad thoughts in this world.
If we want to become a person with a big picture, we must put ourselves in a state of calmness, don't always worry about some small things, and have a calm heart when facing various things.
Let yourself be calm enough, and then deal with these things slowly, after dealing with these things, we must also reflect on ourselves in time.