Time flies like a white horse, and it is the New Year in a flash. With the development of the times, more and more families, parents and children gather less and leave more. It has become the norm for parents to stay behind in their hometowns, and for their children to go out to work and seek employment. How to protect our parents, when we reach middle age, we must be carefully deployed, and we must always remind our parents of their habits, after all, our parents are old and cannot keep up with the development of the times. According to tradition, around the Chinese New Year, the hometown will become more lively, and many relatives and friends will start to visit the house. The elderly are also welcoming and like to open the door to entertain guests. The reality is not satisfactory, and many hospitable elderly people not only lose a meal, but are also deceived by others. Similar situations, around the Chinese New Year, there is a high probability that there will be more, and it is necessary to prevent the slightest. As the "guardians" of our parents, we must remind us to learn to close our doors and not to entertain the following kinds of "guests". 
01 The person who "pinched his fingers and counted" was strange. In the countryside, there are many half-immortals, fairy aunts, they can reach the sky, and they have all the skills. The words that come out will scare you and be unheard of. Thinking about it, it seems to make sense, with a nose and eyes. In fact, these people are all scaring people, and in the end they make you pay out of your pocket. There is a passage on the "New Shaanxi Net", which makes people stunned: Gao Mouzong, not only does he not have a bad disease, but even his name can be changed casually. He is "the ancestral twelve generations of kidney tonic gods, aphrodisiac and kidney experts"; He can read hand prints and is a well-known expert in hand diagnosis in the country; He can see high blood pressure and eye diseases, and is a "professor of the Chinese Academy of Medical Sciences". Speaking of which, this Gao Mouzong is an almighty person, and after being investigated and punished, he can still change his name and continue to deceive. After the Chinese New Year, many so-called "immortals and miracle doctors" will start their activities, and they will also make a fortune to have a prosperous year for themselves. Most of the mysterious things of God are things that cannot be seen, so why care? Your own family, your own management, your own blessings, your own earnings. 02 People who "solicit wealth" have deep routines. It's the New Year, and there are more people who help you save money. In other words, many people know that everyone will settle the bill at the end of the year and have plenty of money, so they hope that everyone will invest in him. All kinds of financial products are really rich, but the elderly can't understand them, and once they are deceived, they will be in trouble. I haven't made a fortune all my life, and I don't count on it when I'm old. If you really don't know how to make a deposit, then go to a regular bank, honestly put it in the passbook, don't ask for any high returns, and don't talk about the excitement after many years. 
03 People who have a "very bad character" will cause trouble. We have a lot of relatives and friends, including some people with very bad character, and even people who break the law and discipline. The old man is very enthusiastic, always used to protecting his shortcomings, and his juniors will cover up if they make mistakes. This is not right. If a relative makes a mistake and wants to go to your house to avoid the limelight, this is a sin and needs to be refused, and if the other party comes, you have to persuade him to take responsibility. Those relatives and friends who calculate money have broken off their relations, which is not a bad thing. Left and right neighbors, not necessarily all very good. He is not grateful for helping him. There are conflicts between neighbors, and when it comes to the Chinese New Year, some young people go home, and they may not know what to do on their toes to protect the interests of small families. Old man, seeing the momentum of his neighbors, it's better to bear with it, don't care, it's important to protect yourself. If the other party is arrogant and unreasonable, you should call the police, don't fight yourself, and avoid harm. 04 People who have "not seen each other for many years" are no longer strangers. I have seen some Internet celebrities who go to the countryside with gifts, and when they see the elderly, they say that they are relatives, can they eat. Yes, when people are old, they are not familiar with many younger generations, especially the children and grandchildren of distant relatives, who may not know what they look like. However, the Internet celebrity said it very similarly, and the old man did not doubt it and was happy to entertain guests. You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people. Who can guarantee that people just want to eat, not with other intentions? If you have antiques or other valuable things at home, it is very likely that the guests will see the money when they are at home. Even if the cats and dogs in the family are taken away, it is also a loss. People who used to be familiar with each other have not seen each other for many years, and they should also be on guard. may have been a well-wisher person, but he has become a great evildoer; The farmer becomes**. Thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi, who can guarantee that it will be the same for decades. Only the old man looks at people with old eyes, which leads to looking away, and it is always himself who suffers. When someone who hasn't seen you for years asks about the economy, it's good to refuse. It is even more unnecessary to invite him to dinner. 
05 People who "come when they open their mouths" love to talk nonsense. It's the New Year, a large group of people get along, you say a word, I say a word, and the chat begins. Some people are born with crow's mouths, and they are annoying and unlucky when they open their mouths. Such people, it is better to stay away. Some ugly words bring negative psychology to people, and they may linger in their minds for a whole year. For example, "Your son, if he can't find a partner at the age of 30, there must be a problem", which is a normal word, it will make the parents sad. We celebrate the New Year, picture auspicious, open your mouth to send blessings, more greetings, and give positive energy to the family. 06 While telling parents to be less hospitable, tell them how to refuse guests. Don't drive away brutally, use some tricks to avoid direct conflict. First, make excuses. Tell people that they are very busy, and they are about to go out to work, and they are going to the house of an acquaintance. His children will go home immediately and will be picked up at the entrance of the village. It's all a good excuse, and it's a natural fit. Second, talk less. When others nag, the old man will always be cold, and the other party will walk away in a funny way. Third, don't open the door. If someone else is outside the door, just respond casually, find out who the other person is, don't open the door, and give the other person a chance. If someone who is not right arrives at the house, eats, drinks, and talks for a long time, then it will be difficult to get rid of people. Keeping a bad relationship in the bud and not starting can protect you better. Parents are here, and there is still a place to come in life; When parents go, there is only a way back in life. As children, don't just enjoy the love of your parents, but also give back the love of your parents. Before and after the Chinese New Year, it is necessary to have more contact and tell parents some social wisdom. If you encounter an inexplicable relationship, tell your parents: I will go home for the New Year and talk about it in detail, don't draw conclusions and deal with it now. Of course, elderly parents should also believe in listening to their children, rather than trusting outsiders, and it is better to be able to consciously close the door. On the whole, relatives are welcome to visit; Neighbors are guests, casual; The villain is a guest, please come back.