(This article contains fictional creations, please read rationally;At a big exhibition in the city, I met my husband, who is a talented exhibition designer.Original Statement: **All from the Internet; Names have been changed; Designed to spread positive energy).
A year later, he took me back to his hometown to meet his parents.
He repeatedly told him that this trip was just a simple visit and that it was not advisable to stay for a long time.
His mother, who looked no more than fifty years old, was handsome and eye-catching.
She is tall and slender, with curly yellow hair, a large white face, red lips, blue eyebrows and black eyes, and well-defined eyeliner.
However, her eyes revealed a cold sharpness, like a cold sword, inadvertently piercing your heart, making people shiver and goosebumps.
Despite this, she was meticulous about dressing up, wearing a bright red dress, tight black **, red high heels, Liu Xiaoqing's big emerald green jade necklace around her neck, and four or five gold and jade rings on her fingers.
She was holding a brand-new mobile phone, and her voice was loud and high-pitched.
Although she has a serious face, her enthusiasm for life is evident in her outfit.
In contrast, the father-in-law appeared short and thin.
His hair had long since fallen out, his face was wrinkled, and several teeth had been lost.
He wears an old-fashioned blue cloth tunic, green cloth trousers, and green liberation shoes.
Despite his age, he was still enthusiastic when he saw me. He personally went to the vegetable garden to cut vegetables and cook, and occasionally smiled at me.
The meals he cooks are all natural vegetables and small fish, fresh and delicious.
As we were leaving, the future mother-in-law returned from the game. She complained of bad luck and lost the gamble.
She asked her husband for 500 yuan as compensation and said:
Our family is unlucky, we don't harvest farming, and we only lose when we play cards. Raising children and daughters, relatives come and go, and money is used everywhere. We still have 100,000 foreign debts. It's up to you brothers to pay back the money. ”
Hearing this, the future father-in-law also echoed:
If we can't take care of the moon, you will get married on your own. The melon is sweet, the till is bitter, we are old and can't afford it. You work in the city, and you can earn money, and you will pay this debt. ”
I understand that my husband doesn't have a lot of money. So I immediately said that I would not want a bride price, nor would I ask for my parents' property.
I said that we are young and strong, and we have the ability to earn money to support our families, and we don't need our parents to worry about it.
I grew up in a prefecture-level city and was the only child in my family. Both of my parents were teachers.
I worked as a docent at a museum, and after work, I lived with my parents, and my salary was basically unchanged, so I saved up.
So I immediately transferred 100,000 yuan to my husband through my mobile phone, asking him to repay the debt for my future in-laws.
At the end of the year, we had a wedding.
Because my husband's house is located in a remote area, it is not convenient to entertain guests, so our wedding banquet was hosted by my parents in the city. Our home is also in the city.
On January 18, 2020, my father-in-law called** and said that this is our first Spring Festival after marriage, and we must go back to our hometown.
My husband didn't want to do anything, saying that when he went back, his mother would not only drain our money, but also kill our children.
Tiger poison does not eat children, how can a mother and grandmother harm their offspring?
What's more, the baby is still in my womb. I persuaded my husband to go back and honor the old man, so we drove back.
His home is in the most remote mountainous area of Hubei, and it is also far away from the county seat of the prefecture-level city where we live.
The house is still a bungalow built in the nineties of the last century, but the surrounding scenery is beautiful, and the mountains and streams are like mobile phone screensavers.
We lived in my in-laws' old house. This old bungalow, with bricks and wooden planks, wooden cork doors and windows, is a little old, but it has a unique charm.
My parents-in-law lived in the east room, and we lived in the west room, with a hall in between.
In the first few days, my husband and I drove to the street to buy groceries, came back to cook together, and my in-laws went out to play cards and gamble after eating.
However, my father-in-law and mother-in-law lost money playing cards, and they asked their husbands to give money and then turn over the book.
Seeing them gambling so hard makes me worried. My husband's younger brother lives in a new three-story building next door, and occasionally the family of four comes over for dinner.
My little nephew is very cute, I give them snacks, small toys and red envelopes, and we are safe with each other.
Fei Juan rarely came to play, and the other villagers were far away, and I didn't know anyone, and I felt lonely alone. Luckily, I still have my husband with me, and we only plan to stay for three or five days before returning to the city.
However, on January 23, the news suddenly announced the lockdown of Wuhan, followed by the closure of most urban and rural areas in Hubei, the closure of villages, and the closure of roads. The incident happened suddenly, the transportation was cut off, and there was a food shortage.
There were some vegetables in the field, and the rice and flour oil we brought back was only enough to eat for a week.
I didn't have many snacks to eat after I was pregnant, so my husband immediately drove to a small shop on the street to snap up a trunk and came back.
My father-in-law and mother-in-law don't eat snacks, and my mother-in-law often plays mahjong in the teahouse, goes out after lunch, and only comes home for dinner in the middle of the night.
We were the only ones who ate our snacks and were on the cupboard in our bedroom. However, after only two days, I noticed that the mountain of snacks was gone.
My husband said forget it, if you lose it, you will lose it, and then buy it.
My father-in-law said that I didn't see it, but my mother-in-law actually said that it was a cat, a dog, and a mouse dragged away, and muttered and scolded me for being lazy and lazy, and an adult was still greedy for snacks like a child, like a starving ghost.
I don't have pets at home, and rats are not such a way to eat.
It was the first time I heard my mother-in-law's mean words, I had suffered such a grievance in my mother's house, and I was scolded for eating some snacks, I was surprised and scared, and I felt extremely uncomfortable being insulted and despised by her.
I ate what I bought with my own money, and I didn't spend a penny on others, and besides, I was pregnant, and the child was going to grow up.
My new daughter-in-law enters the door to treat her mother-in-law as a mother and an elder, but she is still afraid, and it is inconvenient for me to reply no matter how rude the old man is, and I don't refute it.
After two days of precipitation, the rice and oil we brought back disappeared without a trace.
So, under the cover of night, my husband was forced to cross the checkpoint blocking the village, make a detour to the commissary on the other side of the mountain, and buy back a bag of rice and a pot of oil.
However, the next day, the food mysteriously disappeared again.
One day, my nephews and nieces came to our house to play, and the snacks in their hands were exactly the same flavor that my husband had bought for me.
The nephew revealed that his dad had a cart of these snacks in stock.
Curious, I followed him to my brother-in-law's car, opened the trunk, and was amazed by what I saw: it was full of rice, oil, and snacks, just the right amount and a complete variety, just what I had lost these days!
I immediately called my husband to come and check, his face turned from red to white, and he was so angry that he couldn't speak.
Before I could speak, my mother-in-law scolded me angrily: "You are an adult, you have to be shameless when you compete with children for food and drink!" ”
She quibbled forcefully, "Everything in the supermarket is the same, and it's not just for you, you can buy it, they can buy it!" If you are greedy for other people's things, you can buy them yourself! ”
I never expected my mother-in-law to be such a person, and her behavior completely subverted my three views.
It's not that I can't understand that a child wants to have a snack, but I'm pregnant! The brother-in-law and the concubine also ignored it, and the anger in my heart had reached the extreme.
My husband had to dig the path again at night and buy back bread to satisfy my hunger. I ate two packs and hid them in the closet.
At night, I pretended to fall asleep, and saw my mother-in-law quietly push open the door and open the cabinet to take the bread.
I immediately turned on the light and said to her, "Mom, you can eat if you want, please leave one for me if you can't finish eating, I'm hungry too." ”
But she threw the bread on my head, rushed over and grabbed me by the hair, and dragged me from the bed to the floor.
I struggled to my feet, and she roared loudly:
My son bought the bread, and I can eat it if I want, and I have to get your permission? You're really thinking of yourself as a character! In the past, my son was so obedient that he handed me a penny and never hid it privately. It's good now, marry you as a fox, and all the money will be spent on you! I've long seen that you're not pleasing to the eye, what kind of lady is pretending! ”
The more she spoke, the more energetic she became, pushing me. I** was her opponent, and I staggered to the ground, feeling a heat in my lower body, blood gushing out, and my pajama pants were wet.
The husband hurriedly got up and stopped in front of his mother, his eyes were red, but he didn't dare to say a word. He could only watch as his mother-in-law took the bread.
That night, I was bleeding profusely.
My husband and I were so scared that we cried for half the night. The mother-in-law cursed in her room.
Because the village health supplies have been sold out, and the infirmary has no ** medicine.
I wanted to go to the hospital or go home, but all the main roads and small roads were blocked. I couldn't leave without a pass in the village.
I had to turn to the patrol car in the township, and they helped me bring some sanitary napkins and hemostatic medicine.
At the same time, I consulted the doctor on the Internet for relevant advice, and I lay still and the bleeding finally stopped. However, the child was not saved.
My mother-in-law still plays mahjong, plays with her mobile phone, and shoots Douyin every day. When she got home, she scolded me for not giving her a hot meal.
Didn't even let me boil hot water for a bath. I can only eat instant noodles and rice and vegetables every day. The body is getting thinner and thinner.
Inability to go out for medical treatment for three consecutive months**, resulting in uterine adhesions and cessation of menstruation. All of this made me anxious and irritable.
And the husband just cried on the sidelines, saying that there was nothing he could do.
My concubine once said to me: "When I first got married, I also treated my mother-in-law as my own mother. But she plays cards all day and doesn't care about her family. In a fit of rage, I smashed pots and pans and called people from all over the country to see her ugly appearance. She was afraid that my troubles would delay her youngest son's pension plan, so she restrained herself. Although she behaved like a demon from time to time, she didn't dare to slap me blatantly anymore. I see that you are a bully when you first arrive, and she is trying to make a name for you! ”
On March 18, when we were freed from the lockdown in Wuhan, we returned to the city like a bird to seek medical treatment.
The doctor's words were like a bolt from the blue, he said that I was not timely after the miscarriage, and the uterine adhesions were serious, and it was very difficult to get up. My heart was in turmoil, and my husband's face changed.
From time to time, the mother-in-law appeared in the city, and each time she brought a man in her forties and fifties.
They always come to my house in the middle of the night, and their eyebrows are full of affection, intending to sleep in the same room.
I couldn't stand this kind of vexatiousness, and they woke me up at 5 o'clock the next day, banged on the door, and made the neighbors watch, which embarrassed my husband and me.
My 140-square-meter house, located in the most prosperous part of the city, was bought for me by my parents with their hard-earned money, and it was my independent property before marriage.
My mother-in-law asked me to transfer the house to my father-in-law, and she said, "If you want to be a member of my family, you have to write the name of the house." ”
The man was still on the sidelines: "Young people should be filial to their elders and obedient." ”
In her eyes, her son's is hers, and she will have to ask her husband to give her the house inch by inch. And my husband has always been a filial son, and this house can't be saved.
My mother-in-law was reckless in my home, pushing and shoving me, as if she would not stop until she knocked me down. I was bleeding again and was in the hospital.
After a painful struggle, I suffered another injury to my uterus, and the long hospital life left me physically and mentally exhausted.
In the face of the pain, I chose to bear it alone, and I didn't dare to tell my parents who were far away from home, only my husband was by my side and took care of me silently.
I was haggard, sallow, and distressingly emaciated.
In just one week, his weight dropped sharply by nearly ten pounds. The mental stress almost broke me, and every day was like walking on thin ice, and I could fall into the abyss at any time.
And my mother-in-law didn't bring me a trace of comfort and care. She didn't buy any nutritional supplements for me, let alone come to take care of me.
Instead, she showed up at the hospital frequently, bringing the lewd man to my husband and asking him to buy them food. Picking the fat and picking the thin, her behavior is tantamount to rubbing salt in my wounds.
In the face of all this, my husband never stood up for me.
He didn't dare to accuse the man, and even treated him like a father.
Whenever my mother-in-law counted me down in front of other patients and insulted me for being unfilial and lazy, he could only stand silently in the corner of the ward, looking out the window with a red face.
His big round eyes were filled with trembling tears.
He must have struggled in pain, but he never had the courage to shed a single tear.
Whenever my mother-in-law threatened to go to my unit to sue me, he would suddenly come over and try to stop her. His face was flushed, and his Adam's apple trembled several times, but he never had the courage to say words of resistance.
My mother-in-law's shouting became more and more harsh, and if I hadn't stepped forward, her lies would have become true.
I couldn't help but retort loudly: "Mother-in-law, speak with your conscience!" Your rhetoric has overflowed, and now it's my turn to speak. Allow me to say that I have the right to express myself.
What you don't want others to know, I'll remind you to remember.
You didn't pay a penny when you got married, and I didn't accept your bride price. Even before marriage, I have helped you repay the debt of 100,000 yuan.
I ask you, is this my unfilial piety, or is it your greed? And now you're even up to the idea of my house!
This house was purchased by my parents in full before my marriage, and it has nothing to do with your son, let alone the name of my father-in-law.
I just choose to live with your son, I belong to myself, not to your family. Usurping my family's property? Don't! ”
For a while, the mother-in-law was speechless, staring at a pair of deep-set old eyes and stunned in place.
The patients and family members in the ward all looked at me.
I continued:
"Do you know why I was hospitalized? It's because of her! During the pandemic, she stole food from me, a pregnant woman, just for her little son.
When I was hungry, I had to drink water to satisfy my hunger. She actually broke into my bedroom in the middle of the night and did something to me for the food, causing me to have a miscarriage and lose my baby.
Have you ever seen such an eccentric, ruthless, and conscienceless mother-in-law? ”
I turned to face her:
You're a strong man who spends your days gambling on cards, while I, a new daughter-in-law, cook for you at home after a miscarriage.
Who is lazy to do it? You're too much, and you bully me because I'm young and talkative! I don't care about you! ”
She yelled angrily, "You are talking nonsense! I'm going to beat you to death! ”
My mother-in-law raised her hand as if she was going to beat me, and shouted for my husband to help her beat me.
Fortunately, it was pulled away by the patient's family in time. ** also came in and invited them out of the ward.
I watched my husband silently wipe away his tears and rub his face that had been scratched by his mother-in-law. Although he was tall, he was like a lump of limp flesh at the moment.
The people in the entire ward also showed helplessness and disappointment.
I struggled to my feet, tears streaming down my face, and my voice trembling as I rebuked my husband, "Why is your mother so vicious?" Why are you so cowardly? What should I do with her? Will we be killed by her one day? Let's get a divorce. ”
The husband hid his face and wept, choked up:
"You've suffered. It's not you that she hates, it's my grandfather, my grandmother, my father and me. She hated me, hated me to the core, and even wanted me to die. But after all, she's my mother. ”
Thinking of the hint of the concubine, I forced my husband to uncover the hidden family history.
It turned out that the mother-in-law came from the deep mountains and old forests in the west, lost her father at a young age, and in order to support her younger brothers, she was sold to her husband's father by her mother at the age of 15 for 1,600 yuan, and became a child daughter-in-law.
At the age of 16, she gave birth to her husband.
In that era, the mother-in-law was beaten and bullied by her in-laws, while the husband's father was honest and honest.
The so-called "round house" was actually a forced sexual act, and she became pregnant shortly after entering the door.
For her, the firstborn in her womb is not the crystallization of love, but a symbol of humiliation and hatred.
She tried several times to get rid of the baby, but eventually gave birth.
The pain of childbirth made her miserable, and years of hatred made her personality gradually distorted, becoming irritable, vitriol, and ruthless, especially for her eldest son.
After hearing all this, I collapsed on the bed, and my heart was mixed. This hateful woman has such a tragic experience behind her.
After the death of his grandparents, his father also grew old through the years of grinding, and his mother was like a wild horse, no longer bound by anything.
She began to wear fancy clothes, and unscrupulously paired up with the adulterer at home, and even made him and his brother bow down to the man to recognize him as a godfather.
His father acquiesced to all this, but there was nothing he could do.
The three of them are like gamblers, with a huge debt of up to 300,000 yuan.
And half of this debt is due to gambling and raising a man, and the other half is to buy real estate, vehicles and prepare for the wedding of his youngest son.
Of them, 200,000 was paid off by him with his pre-marital savings, and the remaining 100,000, he stupidly repaid for her.
His husband never ate a mouthful of his mother's milk since he was a child, but was left to be raised by his grandparents.
Because of his mother's contempt and scolding, he was full of fear for his mother, and when he saw his mother, he stood like a wooden chicken.
When he was in the first year of junior high school, he dropped out of school to work as a farmer and went to the city to work, but his hard-earned money was taken away by his mother. If his uncle hadn't taken him out to learn to design, he would have been squeezed dry by his mother.
He has longed for maternal love since he was a child, and treats his mother like a loyal dog, always obedient and obedient.
However, his mother came and went as soon as he was called, and he never dared to say half a word, for fear of losing his mother's love.
His ex-wife also had a miscarriage because of her mother's beating and insults, and finally couldn't bear it anymore and chose to divorce.
This woman was like a femme fatale, and she wanted to drive away his wife and kill his children. It's not enough to do it again, it's simply inhumane!
When I asked him about his parents, he said, "My father was cowardly, but he was cruel at heart; My mother, on the other hand, was greedy, lustful, cruel and partial, and was shameless. ”
Did your family premeditate, one pretending to be stupid and the other pretending to be a murderer, intending to wipe us out and squeeze out of us innocent people?
My husband complained: "My mother is a little ruthless, but I am not in the same league as her." I have told you all that I am sincere to you and cannot afford to lose you. ”
I warned you not to go back, but you are stubborn. She is my mother, as a son, how could I have thought that she would be poisoned!
I remember that at that time, my husband didn't plan to go home for the New Year.
He also advised me that if we went back, my mother might poison the child.
However, for the sake of those red tapes, I persuaded him to go home, and the result?
We and our children have fallen into the jaws of the tiger!
I let my husband see the facts, bad people are always bad people.
My mom was even more excessive. I don't expect her to find out in conscience.
She has many enemies, including her own mother, grandfather 2 month** dynamic incentive plan grandfather, grandmother and her husband, but you are not. She needs to heal her inner wounds, but not to take revenge on her husband by cheating. It is not possible to abandon, squeeze, and destroy the eldest son as a solution. You can't bully your new daughter-in-law and fetus who are favored by your parents to make up for your life.
My husband said, "We don't live with her. ”
I shouted angrily, "Can you stop her? I'm not going to get tangled up with you bad guys. ”
I don't care about your family's old accounts. You pay your parents' debts.
I want a divorce, pay me back 100,000 yuan, and compensate me for 200,000 yuan of physical and mental losses.
He has always been cowardly, but at this moment he said firmly:
I will become strong and no longer expect motherly love. I promise you that you will never associate with my mother again, lest you be poisoned by her. ”
Before I was discharged from the hospital, he wrote the divorce agreement by hand, in triplicate, and sent one copy to my in-laws, falsely claiming that we were divorced and had nothing to do with them.
We changed the phone number, deleted his parents' numbers, and cut off all contact with them.
He also told the guards of the community not to let them enter.
Now, I concentrate on recuperating my body and look forward to our new hope - the arrival of our children.