The reasons why a child is indifferent to relatives may be the following:1For children, relatives are strangers. Relatives usually see each other less frequently, and it is difficult for children to remember the faces and relationships of each relative. They may treat their relatives as strangers and are reluctant to communicate with them. 2.The child may be shy or unconfident. Some children are introverted and uneasy about strangers or unfamiliar surroundings.
They may be reluctant to take the initiative to interact with relatives because of a lack of self-confidence or fear of rejection. 3.Children may not have common interests with relatives. If there is no common topic or activity between the child and the relative, they may get bored or be reluctant to communicate with the relative. 4.Parents' attitudes, words and actions can also affect children's attitudes towards relatives.
If the parent is cold or does not have positive interactions with the relative, the child may be influenced and feel indifferent towards the relative. To improve the child's indifferent attitude towards relatives, parents can try the following:1Inform your child of the identity and relationship of their relatives in advance so that they have a certain understanding and expectation. 2.Before meeting, recall some things about relatives with your children, or let your children become familiar with the faces and appearances of relatives through **, etc.
3.Give your child plenty of time and space to adapt to and contact relatives, and don't force your child to communicate or get close to relatives. 4.Create fun activities or topics for your child and their relatives to share in common and promote communication and interaction. 5.Parents should set a positive example for their children by setting a positive example by setting a positive example by building a good relationship with their relatives and taking action.
In short, it is normal for children to be indifferent to their relatives, and parents should understand their children's feelings and adopt appropriate methods and attitudes to promote interaction and communication between children and relatives. There may be several reasons why a child is resistant to something arranged by his parents:1Formation of a sense of autonomy: As children grow older, they gradually form their own thoughts and logic, believing that they can decide their own affairs and are unwilling to be at the mercy of their parents.
This kind of rebellion can lead to resistance to what the parents have arranged. 2.Repeated admonition causes rebellion: In order to let their children behave well in front of relatives, parents will repeatedly tell their children to be well-behaved, take the initiative to call others, and be polite. This kind of repeated admonition can lead to a rebellious mentality, which can lead to an unfriendly or even indifferent attitude towards relatives.
3.Ambiguity of the concept of relatives: When children are young, the concept of relatives is vague, they don't really understand what relatives are, but their parents just call each other like this. For children, relatives are strangers, and of course they will adopt an attitude towards strangers.
In response to these problems, parents can take the following measures:1Respect your child's sense of autonomy: When arranging things, try to give your child some choice and autonomy to participate in the decision-making process. This can enhance the child's motivation and initiative, and reduce the likelihood of resistance. 2.Simple and clear advice: When telling children, parents should try to be simple and clear, and do not repeatedly tell them to avoid causing their children's rebellious psychology.
Good behavior and etiquette can be instilled in children through games, stories, etc. 3.Help children understand the concept of relatives: Parents can help their children sort out the relationship between relatives in daily life, so that they can understand that relatives are their family members and close people. You can cultivate the relationship between your child and your relatives by taking them to relatives' homes and attending relatives' gatherings.
In short, parents should respect their children's wishes when arranging things, give them a certain amount of choice and autonomy, and help them understand the concept of relatives and gradually build feelings between relatives.