Meet · Meet your unknown self in the book. Today I would like to share with you the 8th bookDry Law。Let's read a book together, relax, and give you a respite when you're about to get back to work. The Spring Festival holiday is coming to an end, and I have rested for 7 days in a row to be happy, letDon't want to go to workThis topic is once again on the hot search. Many people's behavior is almost the same: they don't want to get up and go out, they don't dare to lie down, they feel sleepy and tired at the thought of going to work, and they are listless. In fact, not to mention "not wanting to go to work" after the holiday, too many people are tired of going to work all year round. It's like the saying that is very popular on the Internet:
The most anxious time from childhood to adulthood is Sunday night. The fear of being about to face Monday often makes me so anxious that I can't sleep.It is undeniable that part-time jobs are hard and difficult to get to work. But this kind of resistance to work will only bring greater helplessness and panic, and all kinds of harm will not benefit. "Dry Law" tells us that since we are destined to work part-time, we might as well adjust our mentality and cheer up to solve the problem. If you don't want to go to work anymore, ask yourself these three sentences.
Do you not want to go to work, or do you not want to work?
Topic comment area, netizens@青梅The experience has resonated with countless people. This year is her tenth year in the work, and for more than 3,000 days and nights, she has almost"I don't want to go to work for a single day." In the first few years, as a newcomer, I was very passive, and I was always pushed to do things I didn't like. Carrying the blame for her colleagues and being scolded by the leader, the long-term depression often made her feel a wave of anger in her heart. But because of cowardice, this fire only burns itself. After a few years of hard work and familiarity with the rules of the workplace, she began to give up on herself because she had no hope of promotion. Watching their peers rise step by step, newcomers come from behind, but they can't get up or down, which leads to even more unwanted to go to work. She comforted herself and said"Isn't it just to make money at work, it doesn't matter what ideals, ambitions, or unhappy you are. ”yes, what's the point of going to work? For many people, income is the only thing. In their opinion, if it weren't for earning money to support their families and make a living, who would like to work? But it is precisely this simple and crude exchange of value that makes us feel that going to work is a drain on life. In life, there is really a type of "workaholic", who is full of energy and joy every day. After reaching out to them, I suddenly realized:There is still a difference between "going to work" and "working". A lot of times, it's not that we don't want to work, we just don't want to go to work. 
Just like the reason why he didn't want to go to work in "Round Table Pie", Liang Wendao said: "Many times, everyone only knows that work is to earn RMB, but they don't know what they are doing. ”In other words, you are completely looking for a screw, unable to truly integrate into the company, let alone show personal value. Without hard work, unable to find a sense of achievement, and losing self-worth, such a "class" is boring for anyone. So what is the job? I agree with what Kazuo Inamori said in "Dry Law":
The meaning of labor is not only the pursuit of performance, but also the perfection of people's hearts.When you stop focusing on the salary and explore more meaningful things in your work, such as raising your awareness, broadening your horizons, or meeting better and more interesting people, you will not feel that work is torture, but rather a pleasant experience.
Psychologist Frederick has a famous"Two-factor theory".。He believes that salary and environment are the basic factors that motivate a person to work. What really motivates a person is the "motivating factor" of challenge, recognition, and personal growth. Working is simply to make money, while working is to meet a better version of yourself. Understand the difference between the two, and you'll understand: you're sick of a numb and boring life, not a meaningful job that shapes you.
Do you make a profit or a loss?
Papi sauce once filmed a joke complaining about strange phenomena in the workplace, and one of them is really heart-wrenching: many people have been in the workplace for more than ten years, and in the end they found that their treatment was lower than that of interns who had just entered the industry. In a fit of anger, I wanted to change jobs, but considering that the risk was too great, they chose to rot and became the "old fritters" in the unit:
perfunctory every day, get by, drink water toilets with pay, and talk about gossip when there is nothing to do;But as Kazuo Inamori said: "No matter how much you complain and how much you are wronged, the most important thing at the moment is to do a good job first." ”When the supervisor is there, pretend to be busy; As soon as the boss left, he slipped away;
The performance is at the bottom every year, and the monthly attendance is the worst. Except for the increase in seniority, nothing has grown.
I have a friend in the banking industry who has only increased his salary by two levels after seven years of service. So I complained when I met people, saying that over the years, I have learned skills, worked at the counter, ran customers, talked about cooperation, and never been lazy in the work I should do, but I didn't expect it to be in vain. After receiving no effective response, my friend did not find another way out, and he could not be as conscientious as before. 
He began to cheat and play tricks, traveling everywhere on business trips, playing on his mobile phone during meetings, playing games and watching movies during overtime, ......is just 35 years old, but he marginalized himself because of a little grievance and lived as a transparent person in the team. Later, the unit introduced a new assessment mechanism, and my friend became the first batch of people to be dismissed without accident. It wasn't until he lost his job that he realized:These years of rottenness have not delayed anyone, but only harmed themselves. In recent years, this kind of thing has become very popular on the Internet"Touching the Fish Philosophy"., as the name suggests, fishing in troubled waters, not working well. Many people are tired of going to work and have to go, so they can only use "fishing" to fight and live a mixed life at work. But ask yourself, is this kind of "mixing" a profit or a loss?This passage of He Jiayan, a big name in the workplace, can be described as an enlightenment: "When you mess around at work, you are actually wasting your time." Because you yourself think that your time is not valuable, how can your salary be high?”Refusing to lie flat is not for the boss, but for yourself. Because every day you have to get by is the biggest waste in life. 
Is your life really inseparable from work?
Rockefeller, the American oil magnate, once said:
If you see work as a pleasure, life is heaven;If you see work as an obligation, life is hell.People who fish in troubled waters at work have wasted time and delayed themselves. People who carve themselves with their work, but they are always making progress and always reaping. A few days ago, I met Brother Zhang, an old classmate from medical school, and when I saw his high-spirited appearance, I couldn't believe that just two years ago, he was still decadent because of his work. At the beginning, Brother Zhang went to the hospital office as soon as he graduated. I thought it was a stable and decent job, but I didn't want this to be a battlefield without gunsmoke. A propaganda draft is not qualified to be changed five times, the leader's mind is elusive, he asks more, and the leader criticizes him for not using his brain; There is also a strange colleague who is right everywhere and goes to make a small report if he has nothing to do. At that time, he had just arrived at the unit for 20 days, and his mood at work every day was heavier than "going to the grave", and he kept asking himself: "What are you still holding on to in such pain?" ”But life is in front of you, and people always have to support themselves, so Brother Zhang can only force himself to insist on it. He shifted his mindset and no longer focused on his own petty emotions, but focused on doing the task at hand.
Write each manuscript carefully, think carefully about the opinions given by the leader, and humbly ask excellent colleagues for advice. When he wrote an article that he was satisfied with and praised by the leader, Brother Zhang suddenly discovered:It turns out that the joy of work is so great. In this way, he worked steadily and hard, and now he is the youngest director of the publicity team. Brother Zhang told me that he was most glad that he didn't give up at the beginning, and he didn't lie down later. There have been many students on Zhihu who have not yet graduated: "What if I don't like my future job?" A high praise replied: "In this world, there is no job that is not hard." What kind of work attitude you have, what kind of life. ”
Kazuo Inamori also wrote in "Dry Law":
Instead of looking for a job you like, you should first like the job you already have. Keep your feet on the ground and start with the present.We will always encounter colleagues who don't get along, leaders who don't talk to each other, and we may also be exhausted by the mechanical operation day after day. But if you regard your work as your enemy and resist desperately in the workplace, you will naturally have nothing to do.
If you see your work as a ladder of progress, you will also continue to improve and be fulfilled by your work. Click below** to listen to Mr. Fan Deng's interpretation of "Dry Law" for you