Some time ago, the hit drama "Flowers" earned enough topics.
Equally surprising is the fact that the show has a long production schedule.
Under the direction of Wong Kar-wai, the filming of this drama took three years alone, and the overall production lasted for six years.
Every shot had to be shot over and over again, and every detail had to be weighed back and forth.
The silent waiting of the cast and crew finally presented this artwork to the audience.
Like the hidden before the bamboo breaks the ground, like the dormant before the python attacks.
Everything that is good needs to wait more or less.
The real wait is not to sit back and be caught.
Instead, we need to calm down, be patient, and slowly cultivate our lives.
When people reach middle age, they can't be anxious about everything.
All the waiting will eventually lead to the blossoming of life.
Precipitate while waiting and upgrade yourself.
There is a hot question on Zhihu:
Is all the waiting meaningful? ”
Gao Zan replied at the bottom
The purpose of waiting is not just to get a satisfactory result, but to find oneself in waiting. ”
Before we embark on a journey, we must not only pack our bags, but also prepare ourselves.
After all, all opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared.
Learn to precipitate in waiting, and polish your heart and skills.
When the wind and waves are rising, you can ride the wind and be light.
The poet Wang Guozhen spent the first half of his life waiting.
When he was a child, he didn't have much opportunity to go to school.
At the age of 15, he entered the factory and became a worker.
Loving literature, he has always wanted to pursue his ideal of being a poet.
But he also understands that there is a long way to go, and nothing can be achieved quickly.
Therefore, Wang Guozhen learned to wait and learn to improve himself silently.
After work, when the workers were all around to play cards and drink, Wang Guozhen chose to sit alone in the corner and read seriously.
At that time, it was not easy to obtain literary works at home and abroad.
Wang Guozhen is willing to run around, just to borrow it and have a look.
Later, Wang Guozhen tried to write poetry on his own.
But he has no foundation in writing, and he undoubtedly runs into walls everywhere.
But Wang Guozhen was not arrogant or impatient, he just continued to wait.
To read, to create, to revise tirelessly.
Thanks to waiting, Wang Guozhen adjusted his writing style again and again and updated his style.
In the end, he created a number of touching poems such as "Learn to Wait" and "Love Life", realizing his dream.
Just like Wang Guozhen wrote in "Learning to Wait":
There is no bridge over the river and you can wait for it to freeze, and after a long dark night, it will be dawn. ”
Life is not afraid to be a little later, a little slower.
What I am afraid of is that I am eager for quick success and lose my original intention.
The wind will sweep away the gorgeous appearance of luck, and what cannot be blown away is the ability that you have practiced by yourself.
For the rest of your life, please learn to give yourself more skill points while waiting.
To read, to exercise, to see the world.
All the time that lies dormant in the gloom will eventually shine with stars.
Be aware of the wait and optimize the path.
Psychologists have conducted experiments on a group of students who play basketball.
They divided the students into three groups.
The first group of students practiced actual shooting for 20 days.
The second group of students did not do any training for these 20 days.
The third group of students was asked to make an imaginary shot for 20 minutes a day before actually throwing it.
If not, correct the action in your imagination first.
As a result, psychologists found that students in the third group had the greatest improvement in achievement.
This is the famous "Bliss theorem" in psychology.
It means to wait for a while and think for a while before you do something formally.
The efficiency of doing things later will be greatly improved.
In today's society, everything seems to be moving fast.
People always don't think about it, they don't have time to see the situation clearly.
They rushed to action, only to be at an impasse.
Life is not short of a few minutes of thinking.
Learn to wait before doing things, so that you can do more with less.
In a physical competition variety show, the contestants were asked to smash the ice on their own and come out of a room blocked by an ice wall.
There are many players who are extremely nervous in the face of difficulties.
Without even thinking about it, they began to smash frantically through the middle of the ice wall.
As a result, after smashing for a long time, they found that it was becoming more and more difficult to smash like this, and the effect was also very poor.
Some players choose to wait for a while and observe the ice wall carefully before smashing the ice.
They found that the middle of the ice wall, the further down the wall were, the tighter it froze due to gravity, and the more gaps there were.
It is wise to smash along the gaps in the two upper corners of the ice wall.
As a result, they saw the situation clearly, and the ice smashing efficiency was very high.
The result of the match was clear, and the competitors who waited and watched before smashing the ice won a landslide victory.
As Albert Einstein said:
If I were given 1 hour to answer a question, it would take me 55 minutes to figure out what the question was asking.
Once it's clear what exactly it's asking, the remaining 5 minutes are enough to answer the question. ”
Give yourself a chance to wait before you act.
To observe, to ponder, to make a simple idea.
Only by determining the right path can you be invincible.
While waiting**, stabilize your mood.
In an interview, a reporter asked writer Bi Shumin:
How did you get through the low point in your life? ”
Bi Shumin replied, "Wait quietly." ”
In life, there will always be some darkest moments.
In it, we bear the pain of the past, the difficulties of the present, and the confusion of the future.
The best choice is not to act rashly.
Don't use the hidden dragon, wait quietly, in order to keep the moon until the clouds open.
In the TV series "Gentle Shell", Juexiao, played by Wang Ziwen, is going through a difficult moment in his life.
In the face of the blow, he was scarred and deeply depressed.
The more you struggle, the deeper you sink.
The more you try to get out of the predicament quickly, the more damage you get.
After learning about Dai Chun, a boy with mental illness, Juexiao learned to "wait".
She learned to let emotions flow calmly through her body.
Learn to be gentle and wait for the turmoil of life to subside.
A life that does not force itself to act is slowly healed.
In the days of waiting for dawn, Jue Xiao and Dai Chun injected each other with a lifetime of love and hope.
In the end, they came out of despair and reaped happiness.
Psychological research finds:
In the face of a very difficult moment of emotional distress, the more confrontational it is, the more intense the pain becomes.
In a 2017 psychology study, subjects were advised to go to the forest**.
It is to wait quietly in the forest, thinking about nothing, doing nothing.
Let the sound of spring water, the fragrance of leaves, and the touch of the breeze flow freely into the body.
It was found that almost all of the subjects experienced significant improvements in their emotional well-being.
After that, they also have a stronger ability to get out of the situation.
The writer Romain Rolland once said:
The soul should be given a rest, to heal the wounds it has suffered from its earthly travels, and then to go back to it. ”
In the cold days, we have left too many scars on our bodies.
Self-discipline at this time should be to slowly heal and rest well.
Instead of having to go out and run and tear the wound bigger and bigger.
Everything in the world has its right time.
Instead of fighting the storm to defeat both sides, learn to wait for the rain to clear in a few moments.
This is an era of "fast".
People want everything to be done as quickly as possible.
But Wong Kar-wai proved it with "Flowers".
Good work is always worth the wait.
This is true of artistic creation, and so is our lives.
As the writer Balzac put it:
The so-called strong person has both the will and the ability to wait for the opportunity.
People who are good at waiting, everything will come in time. ”
Those little achievements, those little happiness that shines.
There is so much beauty in the world, as long as we are willing to wait.
When you reach middle age, please put your waiting power on top.
Precipitate yourself in waiting, be aware of the world, ** wounds.
Please believe that if you stop at the foot of the mountain, you will be able to wait for the warm morning sun to rise from the peak.