The adult world has never been easy.
Hot and Hot is undoubtedly one of the movies I am most looking forward to during the Chinese New Year.
Before it was met with the public, the news that Jia Ling had successfully lost 100 pounds had quickly occupied the headlines of major **.
In order to present the best side to the audience, Jia Ling chose to keep a low profile before the release of the movie, and this responsible attitude towards the audience undoubtedly increased our expectations.
This movie not only has an exciting plot, but also shows how an ordinary girl finds herself from confusion.
And in my opinion, the character behind the movie, Jia Ling, is even more powerful and moving.
After going through a lot of twists and turns, she chose to live for herself, tearing off the label given to her by the outside world, and bravely pursuing the career she truly loves.
Jia Ling's experience tells us that getting rid of other people's expectations and pursuing her inner voice is an important step for a woman to self-awaken.
This is also a profound truth that I have learned from the movie "Hot and Hot".
Recognize yourself and accept yourself as you really are.
Jia Ling used to be troubled by her character.
As a child, she was like a man, full of energy.
She's either climbing trees, digging birds' eggs, or fighting boys.
Because her grades were often at the bottom of her class, Jia Ling developed a strong interest in literature and art.
She is good at telling jokes and imitating the performances of people on TV, showing excellent acting talent.
However, in the eyes of the villagers, with such achievements and personality, there seems to be no other way out than to be a chef when she grows up.
These remarks made Jia Ling feel very annoyed, she didn't want to spend her life like this, but it was difficult to break her habit of being fun-loving and noisy.
Fortunately, her mother, Li Huanying, always encouraged her, saying, "Just be yourself, I believe you will definitely have success in the future." ”
Her mother's support made Jia Ling's heart gradually stronger, and she was no longer arrogant because of other people's opinions.
At the age of 12, Jia Ling was admitted to Wuhan Art Institute with her confident and cheerful personality, which also laid the foundation for her future acting career.
She recognizes that every woman is unique and has her own strengths and limitations.
As Yang Jiang said: "People must learn to recognize themselves, polish themselves, and transform their future in this life." ”
If you just focus on your own shortcomings, it is easy to fall into the powerlessness of "I am useless".
Only by accepting your true self can you find the best solution in life.
To recognize oneself is not to be defeated by difficulties.
Du Leying, played by Jia Ling, has been staying at home since graduation and has been staying for ten years.
She lives with her parents and her sister who is divorced with a baby.
Le Ying's life is extremely regular, eating, sleeping, eating out, and sleeping on the other side, as if she is stuck in an endless cycle.
Her cousin, who works at a TV station, wants to help her find a job, but she resolutely refuses, she resists contact with the outside world, and feels that this life can be lived for a long time.
The long-term decadent life made Le Ying communicate less and less with people, and finally even caused her boyfriend to cheat on her best friend.
All this made Le Ying feel painful and confused.
Le Ying's non-working state caused her mother's worries and her sister's dissatisfaction, and the conflict finally broke out in a fierce quarrel.
Le Ying got into a fight with her sister and finally left the house.
To make ends meet, she got a job as a waitress at a barbecue restaurant.
Here she unexpectedly met boxing coach Hao Kun.
Le Ying developed a strong interest in boxing, and Haokun's pursuit of her boxing dream also made her feel good about him.
However, when she found out that Haokun was boxing for money and didn't even take her seriously, her heart was broken.
Life is not tolerant of Le Ying, and just when her love was shattered, her career also suffered.
The owner of the barbecue restaurant harassed her in public, and this time she mustered up the courage to resist.
However, because of this move, she lost her job and was even sent to the police station.
At this difficult time, my cousin shows up and brings her warmth and help.
In order to repay her cousin, Le Ying agreed to participate in the show to find a job.
However, she didn't expect her cousin to maliciously edit in order to create the effect of the show, so that she would be ridiculed and abused by the audience.
All this chilled her heart and made her re-examine her relationship with the world.
Le Ying's world collapsed in an instant, and love, career, friendship, and family were all away from her.
She began to question whether sincerity could be exchanged for sincerity.
The hardships of life came like a tide, and Le Ying felt unprecedented pressure.
She stood on the roof of the building that night, and a strong urge surged in her heart that everything could be over with a single jump.
However, when she jumped down, she landed lightly on the roof of someone else's house, and there was not a trace of scar on her body.
The self in the mirror met her eyes, what kind of image was that?
She was tired and lost, but she was resilient.
Le Ying looked at herself, and the frustration in her heart surged like a huge wave.
She realized that she hadn't really lost anything, except for her otherwise fragile self.
After the storm passed, Le Ying made a decision.
She wants to get back to her true self, and she wants to fight for herself.
She sweats profusely in the ring, and every punch embodies her determination and courage.
The biggest internal friction in life is to find your own answers in the eyes of others.
We need to learn to treat the world as a guest, and not let the judgment of the outside world dictate our choices.
There is a sentence in the TV series "Asuka Collection" that says: "Only after hellish tempering can the power of heaven be created; Only a bleeding finger can play the swan song of the world. ”
Le Ying interpreted the truth of this sentence with her actions.
In the face of difficulties and challenges, we need not only tenacity and perseverance, but also perseverance and love for our hearts.
She found that life is not a story in the eyes of others, but a song in her heart.
As long as you insist on yourself and perfect yourself, no matter how stormy the outside world is, life will always leave you with a clear sky.
Recognize yourself and learn to reconcile with yourself.
In the restaurant, Le Ying's father found her and handed her a piece of meat, but she chose to eat the onion she had sandwiched.
Her father asked her with concern if it was hard work, but she just smiled and didn't reveal the story behind it.
Only she knows that everything she has been through, everything she has given has made her stronger.
Wu Kun saw Le Ying's slimming down appearance and began to be moved by her.
He invites her to taste the delicious bullfrog, but Le Ying calmly tells him that she doesn't like to eat bullfrogs.
In the hazy moonlight, she walked alone without looking back.
She learns to express herself and truly falls in love with herself.
She has the most genuine kindness, but also sharp edges and corners.
She shook hands with the world and knew how to protect herself.
The English name of the movie "Hot and Hot" literally translates as "You can only live once", which is also the true meaning of life that director Jia Ling wants to convey.
You only have one life, so no matter what difficulties you face, you should not be afraid.
It doesn't matter if you're ridiculed, you want to cry, you fail, what matters is whether you live a steamy life and make life wonderful.
Although there are many hardships and hardships in life, as long as we learn to love and feel, we will definitely be able to taste the sweetness of life.
At the end of the film, Le Ying did not receive God's favor.
She didn't win competitions, she didn't succeed in her career, she didn't get the people she wanted, and she didn't become rich or attractive.
But she eventually reconciled with herself, and that was her biggest gain.
There is no fixed pattern of success in life, and we can all live our own light in ordinary days.
You don't have to be whispered to please others, and you don't have to be swayed by other people's opinions.
We need to follow our hearts, accept and reconcile everything.
As Mo Yan said: "Life is a practice, we must learn to reconcile with ourselves and life." Smile and face the people and things you hate, and live each day quietly. ”
We need to be brave enough to let go of the illusion of being loved and truly love ourselves.
It doesn't matter if the road is a little twisty, it takes a lot of time, or if it's different from someone else's expectations.
As long as we are always on the path of being ourselves, this is enough.
Life may hurt us, but those wounds eventually become our hardest places.
Yu Hua once said: "There is no repetition of every road in the world, and there is no substitute for life." Each of us is immersed in our own lives. ”
And we are often trapped in the measurement of secular standards, shackled by the cage of "what should be" and "shouldn't be", forgetting the diversity of success and the colorfulness of life.
Each individual's pursuit of the ideal life is different, so the choices are naturally very different.
For women, the real awakening is to find that self-sufficient strength, to break free from the shackles of others, to listen to their inner voice, and to make courageous choices.
Please always remember that a woman's life can also be colorful and full of infinite possibilities.
Only by being clear about one's own pursuits and devoting oneself to the affairs that truly touch oneself can one rejuvenate one's vigorous vitality.