In modern society, we all aspire to have a good love and marriage, but how to choose the right partner is a difficult problem. The wisdom left by our ancestors may be able to guide us to a clear path. Today, we will delve into the proverb: "Don't marry a wife, don't marry a man, don't marry a heavenly court" to seek the true meaning of marriage.
First of all, let's decipher the first half of this proverb: "Don't marry a wife". The "upturned mouth" here refers to those women who are narrow-minded and do not listen to criticism. When dealing with such women, you often need to be careful so as not to touch their sensitive nerves. However, in marriage, this way of getting along can often be exhausting. A healthy marriage relationship should be honest, tolerant and understanding, rather than blindly avoiding harm. Therefore, when choosing a wife, we should try to avoid choosing women who are overly sensitive and irritable, and look for women who are positive and tolerant.
Next, let's come to the second part of the proverb: "Marry a man, don't marry a heavenly court". In ancient physiognomy, the "heavenly court" refers to the physiognomy of the heavenly court that is not full enough and the temples are a little collapsed. However, in modern society, "Heavenly Barrier" refers more to a person's bad temper, lack of responsibility, and easily complaining character. Getting along with such a man often leads to endless quarrels and strife, which negatively affect married life. Therefore, when choosing a partner, we should try to understand the personality, conduct and sense of responsibility of the other person. Choosing a responsible and responsible man is an important prerequisite for a happy marriage.
So, how do you apply this proverb in real life? First of all, when choosing a partner, we need to fully understand the personality traits and lifestyle habits of the other person. Through in-depth communication and observation, we can better judge whether the other person is suitable for us. Second, we need to learn to listen to and respect each other's opinions and feelings. In marriage, mutual understanding and support are crucial. Finally, we need to deal wisely with conflicts and disputes in our marriages. When problems arise, learn to communicate honestly, analyze rationally, and find ways to solve problems, instead of blindly blaming and complaining.
In short, although the saying "marry a wife and don't marry a warped mouth, marry a man and don't marry a heavenly court" originated in ancient times, it still has guiding significance in modern society. By gaining a deeper understanding of the meaning of this saying, we can better choose the right partner for us and build a happy marriage. At the same time, we must also learn to cherish the people in front of us, manage our married life with our hearts, and make love more mellow in the baptism of the years. May we all walk more firmly and beautifully on the road of marriage!