Educate him to strictly manage him, or let him go unchecked?

Mondo Education Updated on 2024-02-04

I am in class because it is the first round of revision in the third year of high school, and the children are facing the college entrance examination, so they also know the importance of the first round of revision. During class, every child was nervous to follow my pace, but I suddenly found that there was a student named Li Gang who was deserting, he always lowered his head and looked into the table box, I guessed that he must be interfering in learning unrelated things, so I walked to his side while lecturing, and sure enough, he was taking his mobile phone to watch Kuaishou**, to be honest, I really felt sorry for him at that moment,I also deeply understood the true meaning of "angry and unhappy". Why do I say that? This has to start with Li Gang's life experience.

When Li Gang is talked about in school, everyone will say that Li Gang is a poor doll, if you can take care of it, everyone should take care of it. It turned out that Li Gang's mother died of hemorrhage when she gave birth to Li Gang's younger brother. Li Gang's father takes care of three-year-old Li Gang and his newborn brother, and although the family has had a difficult life, they still have a home. When Li Gang was in first grade, one day, Li Gang's grandfather had a birthday, and Li Gang's father was very happy, so he took Li Gang, Li Gang's grandparents and Li Gang's younger brother to a restaurant outside to eat and celebrate his grandfather's birthday, but who would have thought that something unfortunate happened. When his father drove to the street, a large truck drove on, and the driver of the truck had already fallen asleep in the car due to fatigue driving, so the truck driver crashed directly into Li Gang's father's car. It is conceivable that a carload of people soon fell in a pool of blood, and the scene was very tragic at that time! Except for Li Gang, none of the people in the car survived.

Lee was seven years old at the time of the accident. Although it was said that Li Gang lost his mother a little unfortunate before, but now Li Gang has lost his home, he has lost his dearest relatives in the world, and has become an orphan who no one cares about and no one cares about.

Later, under the persuasion of everyone, one of Li Gang's distant uncles adopted Li Gang. Although it is said that he adopted Li Gang, because the blood relationship is far away, he is not good to Li Gang, and he has wanted Li Gang to drop out of school many times, but due to social pressure, he has to let Li Gang go to school.

Li Gang usually studied well in school. In addition, people know the specific situation of Li Gang, so they always treat Li Gang intentionally or unintentionally"Eat a partial diet", I hope that Li Gang will be able to stand on his own when he grows up, so Li Gang's academic performance is okay. But now that he is in his third year of high school, he is so nervous about studying, but he got a mobile phone from somewhere, and he was attracted to it in class.

At that time, when I saw Li Gang looking at his phone, I really wanted to give Li Gang a big ear scraper, but I finally held back the outstretched hand. Then he said to Li Gang very sadly: ".You kid really don't fight at all, the way you look now, it's equivalent to joking with your own fate, it's really sad! After I finished speaking, I confiscated Li Gang's mobile phone and called him to the office to criticize him seriously, and at the same time said that he was harmful to playing with his mobile phone in the third year of high school. Although he assured me that this would not happen again and that he would study hard, I guessed that something must have gone wrong with him.

Originally, our school stipulated: "If you find that a student is using a mobile phone, especially if you play with a mobile phone in class, you must report it to the school leader", after reporting to the school leader, you will be faced with: the student is warned and punished, and the parents are asked to write an inspection, etc., but I really can't bear to be punished by Li Gang called the parents, because I know that Li Gang's parents are very special, but in the face of the situation that the students are so unhappy, what should I do? I should deal with him seriously, let him have a little more knowledge, and at the same time influence him with love and care, hoping that he can self-reflect, wake up on his own, and work hard!

I hope my good intentions are not in vain.

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