I am immersed in my own pain every day, I always feel that I am the most unbelieving person in the world, and at the same time, I always ask myself, why God makes my life path, so sad, that I am in pain every day, but today I have a conversation with a colleague, I know:It is not easy for everyone to live, and behind every glamorous and brilliant one, there is a bitter tear!
Xiao Zhu and Xiao Li in our unit fell in love freely during college, Xiao Zhu is small and exquisite, has a gentle personality, and always has that sweet smile on his face, which makes people always feel that everything in the world is very beautiful. But when she talks about her experience after marrying Xiao Li, she will also cry sadly.
Xiao Zhu said that when she first met Xiao Li, it was during college, at that time, Xiao Li always felt that he couldn't eat enough, and he was black, so it felt particularly funny, but through contact, Xiao Zhu felt that Xiao Li was not bad, no matter how tired he was and how busy he was, he would take time to take care of the classmates around him, especially during the holidays, when they went to work outside, during the break, many people only took care of themselves, but Xiao Li also knew to take care of the female classmates in the same group, This made Xiao Zhu feel that Xiao Li was still more reliable, so he had a good impression of him, so that the two fell in love later!
After falling in love, Xiao Li told Xiao Zhu that their family was very poor, because Xiao Zhu thought that Xiao Li was very good, so he didn't care too much about the fact that his family was poor. When Xiao Li led Xiao Zhu back to his hometown for the first time, Xiao Zhu was still a little shocked when he looked at Xiao Li's dilapidated house. But when the whole family sat down to eat together, Xiao Li's parents were humble to each other, and Xiao Li's siblings were very politeThis made Xiao Zhu feel that although the family was poor, it was very warm to sit and eat together, which made Xiao Zhu strengthen his confidence in marrying Xiao Li.
Because Xiao Zhu learned that Xiao Li's family was really poor, when the two families sat together to discuss the bride price, Xiao Zhu persuaded his parents to ask for a little less bride price. So Xiao Zhu married Xiao Li with hope without taking much dowry.
After getting married, the two of them hurried to work and did not live with the old man. Since both of them have just joined the work, the family economy is not rich, so they have no money to buy a house, so they have to rent a house outside, and at this time the little pig is pregnant again, in order to reduce expenses, the two discussed going back to their hometown to give birthAfter returning to her hometown, Xiao Zhu really experienced the sadness of a woman, a little girl became a real woman, and at the same time had to endure the bitterness and abuse of her father-in-law.
She couldn't stay any longer, she was afraid that if she stayed for a long time, she would starve to death in the deep mountain ravine.
Xiao Zhu returned to Xiao Li's side, but he didn't expect that after a while, Xiao Li's father actually called Xiao Li ** and said, let Xiao Li must strictly monitor Xiao Zhu, otherwise Xiao Zhu will spend all the money, and even send it to his mother's family, hearing these words, Xiao Zhu is really speechless! At that moment, she deeply realized that poverty is not terrible, but what is terrible is a person who is stubborn in thinking and being mean. At the same time, she also experienced the sadness of a girl transforming into a woman.
Of course, although my colleague has gone through so many trials, she usually can't see the slightest pain she has suffered, and she is still alive and sunny.
After learning about the experience of my colleagues, I realized that everyone's life is not easy, and they are in various contradictions every dayTherefore, I also have to adjust my mentality and live every day I have.