Women don't have a wife, is it really desolate when they get old? In fact, whether it is desolate or not is all in one's own mentality.
I have an old classmate who is a high school teacher. She and her husband are in the same school. They have a son and a daughter, and the children are very good, but the age difference between the two children is a little big, the son is already a sophomore, and the daughter is still in the third grade of primary school. Although both of them are about to be five years old, the two of them are still gracious, but".People have good and bad luckWhen she woke up one morning, her husband never woke him up, and when everyone pulled him to the hospital, it was said that he had no signs of life, and it was a cerebral hemorrhage that took his life.
The old classmate was sad after losing her husband, it seemed that the sky had fallen, she washed her face with tears all day long, and she had no intention of taking care of her life and taking care of her little daughter. Many people saw her like this and said: "Look at how good the relationship between husband and wife is, now that the man is gone, the woman is estimated to not be able to pass this hurdle".Indeed, my old classmate has been in a state of decline ever since, as if life has lost any hope for her, and slowly people don't want her to come and go. She isolated herself in an isolated worldThe more lonely it gets, the more desolate it becomes.
And a woman who buys noodles on our street is completely different from her way of life. This woman, let's call her Sister Zhang! Sister Zhang is in her fifties, her children have long been adults, and the husband and wife run a noodle shop. One day, she was eating, and she fell unconscious before she could swallow a mouthful of food. Sister Zhang, who lost her husband, also scolded the heavens and felt that life was too unfair to her. Seeing Sister Zhang like this, many people speculated:Sister Zhang will definitely collapse. But what people didn't expect was that after Sister Zhang closed the door for seven days, she cleaned up and appeared in front of everyone, so many gossiping people had a new topic to talk about: "That woman doesn't love her husband at all, and she doesn't seem to be sad at all if she doesn't let you see her husband die for a few days."
Sister Zhang just smiled impatiently when she heard the news, and then said: "The dead are dead, no matter how sad I am, can he come back to life?" And my life has to go on, not to mention that I also believe that he wants me to live happily", so everyone didn't say anything more, and Sister Zhang lived optimistically and mingled with the people around her, and anyone could see that she was living happily.
So I think:Whether a single woman's life is bleak in her later years depends entirely on her own mentality. From your description, I can see that you are a woman with a strong ability to live, as long as you are happy to live and pay attention to your physical health, I believe that you will live well in your old age, of course, in order to avoid no one to take care of you when you are old and sick, you can find a way to live around your children, so that it is convenient to take care of each other.
It is not easy to live, we should let go of all distractions and strive to live our lives well, so that we will not live in vain. Therefore, we must abandon pessimistic thoughts, look up all day long, and believe that life will be good when it comes!