First, betraying the original family and cheating (cheating women are the most serious case, you must stay away);
Second, he has a strong personality and is selfish
Third, it's lazy to eat and like to play mahjong;
Fourth, vanity is too strong, and they don't know how to be satisfied;
Fifth, divorced with children, especially with sons;
Sixth, the reason for the divorce was caused by the mother-in-law;
Seventh, they are too dependent on others and have no ability to live independently
Eighth, the economic situation is unstable, and there is no financial planning and financial management ability;
Ninth, lack of responsibility and responsibility, unable to deal with daily family affairs;
Tenth, unable to build real trust and communication with your partner, lacking communication skills and problem-solving skills;
Eleventh, not respecting the views and opinions of others, always self-righteous;
Twelfth, there have been bad disputes with their predecessors, and there are legal disputes arising from marital problems;
Thirteenth, there is a lack of awareness of the responsibilities and commitments in marriage, and it is easy to divorce lightly;
Fourteenth, lack of good family education concept, unable to establish a good parent-child relationship with children;
Fifteenth, misconduct, having bad habits or fanatical hobbies, unable to balance the needs of family and individuals;
Sixteenth, the social circle is too narrow, unwilling to contact and integrate into new social groups;
Seventeenth, misconduct, criminal record or moral problems;
Eighteenth, lack of enthusiasm and passion for married life, unable to create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere;
Nineteenth, too much emphasis on material life, the pursuit of luxury and vanity, unable to satisfy the simple family life;
Twentieth, lack of patience and tolerance towards family and partners, irritability and impulsiveness;
21. Failure to respect the promises and agreements of marriage, frequent changes or inability to adhere to decisions.
Twenty-second, too impulsive and imprudent decisions before marriage, without enough thought and understanding of each other;
Twenty-third, lack of self-growth and improvement to adapt to the changes and challenges in marriage;
24. Mental instability, serious psychological problems or emotional disorders, unable to give stable emotional support;
Twenty-fifth, addicted to the virtual world, lack of investment and attention to real life;
Twenty-sixth, lack of gratitude, unable to cherish and maintain the happiness and beauty in marriage;
Twenty-seventh, the excessive pursuit of self-authority and control, unable to balance and respect the rights and interests of both parties;
Twenty-eighth, lack of pragmatic and persistent attitude towards life, easy to give up and escape difficulties and challenges;
29. There is no adequate communication and common goals before marriage, and the life philosophy and values of both parties are inconsistent;
30. Unable to deal with family problems and conflicts in marriage without having a good family background and family relationships;
Thirty-first, the expectations of marriage are too high, unrealistic or idealistic, and the imperfections of reality cannot be accepted;
Thirty-second, without the ability to grow and optimize oneself, it is impossible to bring positive effects to marriage and family;
Thirty-third, lack of sense of responsibility and the spirit of dedication, irresponsible for the responsibilities and obligations in marriage;
Thirty-fourth, the pursuit of personal freedom and independence is too great to form an intimate and dependent relationship with the partner;
Thirty-fifth, a lack of planning and vision for the future to provide motivation for purpose and development in marriage;
Thirty-sixth, unable to adapt to the adjustment of mutual relationships and the change of roles in marriage;
Thirty-seventh, lack of ability to resolve conflicts, easy to adopt an evasive or indifferent attitude towards problems in marriage;
Thirty-eighth, lack of clear understanding of rights and obligations in marriage, and insufficient understanding of laws and regulations;
39. The family background and social relations are complex, and the marriage is easily disturbed by external factors;
Fourthly, there is a lack of respect and care for the partner, and it is impossible to establish a good relationship of mutual support and growth.
The above point of view is intended to provide a reference, and each person's choice of marriage is a personal decision that should be judged according to their own circumstances and values. Most importantly, marriage is a lifelong commitment that requires both parties to work together and build a relationship of mutual respect, trust and understanding in order to create a happy and stable married life.