Parents are the concern of life and a warm haven. When they are still alive, home is a happy world, and the Chinese New Year is a happy time for a reunion. But as the years passed, my parents had left me for 20 years, and when I returned to my hometown, I could only see the cold tombstones, and looking at the loneliness, I touched the pain in my heart. In the city, although there is no companionship from parents, at least some friends and colleagues will bless each other and accompany each other during the Chinese New Year, so that the heart can get a touch of warmth.
My hometown is where I grew up and a source of fond memories of the past. However, after many years away from home, the hometown has been stormy and withered. The house is leaking, the walls are covered with green moss, on the bed, on the cupboardTables and chairsThe benches were covered with thick dust, the yard was overgrown with weeds, and even the faucets were broken. Returning home requires laborious cleaning and repairs, but these efforts will not change the dilapidated scene of the hometown. Comparatively speaking, the city's accommodation, although it may not be luxurious, at least guarantees a warm and tidy oneenvironmentto make people feel comfortable and relaxed.
yearsNot thereLiving in my hometown, all kinds of facilities are no longer perfect. Without water, electricity, and gas, life is very inconvenient. If you want to buy rice and vegetables, you need to walk several kilometers to the supermarket, and you don't have basic seasonings such as oil, salt, sauce and vinegar. There is no running water, so you can only go to the river to get water; Pots and pans are old and dirty, and it is also inconvenient to clean up. So toughenvironmentI can't help but be rightGo home for the New YearAll kinds of inconveniences are worried, not to mention enjoying the joy and excitement of the New Year, so staying in the city for the New Year has become a better choice.
The mattress on the bed of the hometown that I haven't stayed in for a long time is covered with dust, quilts, quilts, etcBlanketsIt is moldy and damp, and the electric mattress cannot be used. Moreover, there is no electricity and charging equipment, and it is even more cold at night. In such a coldenvironmentNext, how to live and work in peace and contentment, and how to experience the happiness of the New Year?
Although I can stay at a relative's or neighbor's house when I go home, I always feel uncomfortable under the fence. Especially when people reach marriageable age, it seems that there is always no escape from the greetings and ridicule of others. Answering the question "no one yet" can be embarrassing and overwhelming. Staying in the city, although you can spend the New Year alone, you can at least live the life you want, without external pressure and interference.
In the past, it was a very happy thing to celebrate the New Year when I was a child, but when I grew up, I was sophisticated, and all kinds of trivial things made the New Year's flavor discounted. Adults need to worry about how many gifts they need to prepare for their relatives, how much money they need to give each other's children, and how much money they can get for their children. In this atmosphere of courtesy, I can't feel the innocent happiness of childhood. What's more, I don't have a wife and children myself, and I am embarrassed and lonely in the face of ridicule and expectations from relatives and friends.
Go home for the New YearIt costs a lot of money. Even if there is a certain amountEconomybasic, but the cost of travel home and food expenses will make people feel a psychological burden. Relatively speaking, the New Year's goods** in the city are relatively stable, and you can also prepare some New Year's goods to welcome the New Year, and there is no need for additional transportation costs. Therefore, inEconomyUnder pressure, staying in the city for the New Year is even moreEconomyAffordable.
Cities have the opportunity and ways to create a happy life, while the countryside has always been trapped in poverty. In the city, New Year's shopping, gastronomy and a variety of entertainment activities can be enjoyed. Celebrating the Spring Festival with family and friends is a better way to enrich your life and pursue a better future by staying in the city for the New Year.
Now, when I think of the New Year's flavor and family reunion, I feel a little embarrassed and helpless. Maybe it's the growth of life experience, or maybe it's the modern pace of urbanized life that makes it less important to go home for the New Year. In any case, for me, there are indeed many reasons not to go home for the New Year, and each one is very reasonable and irrefutable. Maybe in the future, I will have the courage to face everything and return to my hometown for the New Year. But now, I choose to stay in the city, enjoy the convenience and freedom of the city, and live a more relaxed and fulfilling New Year.