How to deal with the son of a college student who is lying flat and rotten
The child graduated from Beijing 211 University, and was the pride of the whole family at the beginning, and the college entrance examination was more than 100 points higher than the score line, but now it is a pain for the whole family and a joke for relatives and friends. After graduating from college, I missed the school recruitment, wandered outside for two years, and now I am at home, I don't work, I don't fall in love, I don't even bother to go to driving school, I don't have any ideas and no action, I have become a waste person, I don't take responsibility, the Buddha lies flat, black and white is reversed, I sleep during the day, I toss at night, I brush my mobile phone, or go to an Internet café to play games, I don't listen to anything outside the window, I don't care about anything at home and outside, and I don't take into account other people's sayings and opinions, and he lives heartlessly. We shouted "shut up" and "shut up" with a white face, and we were all driven crazy and collapsed. We also tried to find his close classmates, friends, and relatives, and created opportunities for persuasion, ideological work, contempt, and promised to change, but almost to no avail, and after persuasion, they remained the same, repeating the old story, day after day, doing nothing.
When a man gets married, a woman should get married, what kind of age should be matched to do what kind of thing, this is human nature and natural law, I really don't know how to get it like this? We don't dare to see acquaintances on the street, and we don't dare to go to relatives during the New Year's holidays, because there are always good people who pretend not to know (a small county town with a big fart, everyone knows that the parents are short), and deliberately ask the child to go to work in **? Whether the salary is high or not, whether you are married or not, by the way, selling your children, looking for a sense of superiority, and in the end, I deliberately said that I am thirty years old! What should I do, what do you say, do you want to make people crazy?
In the past few years of graduation, the public examination, the national examination, and the provincial examination have been compiled. Provincial public institution joint examination, local public institution recruitment, all participated, but never saw his desperate efforts, not salty and not light reading and reviewing, giving people the feeling, just want to easily, casually take a career exam, so the result is always so a few points, if the difference is too much, or the study has not worked, or the effort is in place, unsuccessful, we will accept fate, give up the idea of the examination and compilation, the problem is that there seems to be hope, but it is far away, year after year disappointment, year after year, this torment, I don't know when is a head? Let me register for a class, review systematically, and increase the probability of being admitted, but people can't live or die, and they are in a hurry, so they simply fall asleep, don't eat or drink, and don't pretend to read. Do netizens have the same situation? How do I untie this knot now?