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Hello, welcome to the emotional world of Yijing. If there is a prosperous husband, there will be a defeated husband. Wangfu women, men want to marry home, women who lose their husbands, men marry home, a family will naturally become more and more decaying.
Men often have to train a pair of fiery eyes, so that when they meet that special her, they can understand her heart and judge whether she is really their lucky star.
Because, although some women look like immortals, they may be the scourge of "ruined husbands". So, how to identify such a woman? The following five characteristics may give you some inspiration.
1. The mouth is like a river, but there is nothing to say
Some women talk endlessly, but when you listen closely, you find that there is nothing in their words. They are good at using flowery rhetoric and exaggerated expressions to hide the emptiness of their hearts.
Such a woman, like an empty jar that only makes a noise, sounds hilarious, but is actually worthless.
As the book says, "Words are a picture of the mind, and empty words can only depict an empty mind." "When encountering such women, men should be careful not to be fooled by their rhetoric.
2. Love vanity and comparison
Women with "losers" tend to love vanity and like to compare. They always pay attention to the lives of others, and when they see what others have, they should have it themselves; If you see what others don't have, you have to have it yourself.
Such women will never be satisfied in their hearts, and they will continue to demand from men until they squeeze them dry.
As the book says, "Vanity is the tumor of the mind, which swells until it consumes the whole of life." "If a man encounters such a woman, it is better to withdraw as soon as possible, otherwise he will only fall deeper and deeper.
3. Serious emotionality, cloudy and uncertain
Some women's emotions are like the weather in June, which can change when they say it. One moment they have clear skies, and the next they are covered with dark clouds, making them unpredictable for men.
Such women often lack self-control, and their emotions can easily affect those around them. Living with such a woman, a man can feel very tired.
As the book says, "Emotional stability is a sign of maturity." "Men should find a woman with whom they can grow and be emotionally stable for the rest of their lives.
Fourth, selfishness and disregard for others
Women who are "losers" tend to be selfish, they only think about their own feelings and needs, and they have no regard for the feelings of others. At.
In their world, there is only "me" and "mine", and there is no "we". Such women can easily become "vampires" in marriage, and they will constantly suck the blood, sweat and energy of men to satisfy their desires.
As the book says, "Selfishness is a shackle to the heart, and it can make people lose the ability to love and be loved." "If a man encounters such a woman, it is better to stop as soon as possible.
Fifth, strong dependence and inability to be independent
Some women are so dependent that they are unable to live and work independently. In their eyes, men are their support and protection.
Such women often lack self-confidence and self-reliance, and they will pin all their hopes on men. However, when men are unable to meet their expectations, they are disappointed and frustrated.
As the book says, "Independence is the cornerstone of personality." "Men should find a woman who can be independent and fight side by side with them for the rest of their lives.
Conclusion:
It is not easy to identify a woman with a "bad husband", but as long as we observe and think carefully, we will definitely be able to find their clues.
Remember these five characteristics: mouth but nothing to say, love of vanity, comparison, emotionality, serious instability, selfishness, disregard for others, strong dependence and inability to be independent.
If you notice any of these traits in the woman around you, then it's better to keep your distance as soon as possible. Because marriage is a lifelong event, we can't bury our happiness because of a momentary impulse.