"Observe your thoughts, and they will become words; Observe your words, and they will become actions; Observe your actions, they become habits; Observe your habits and they will become character; Observe your character as they will become your destiny. ”
- Frank Outlaw
When people say three things, they violate the will of heaven. ”
If you don't know the art of speaking, you will hardly be able to control your already troubled fate.
Between words, there are often hidden blessings and misfortunes of a person, and inadvertent gaffes may become stumbling blocks to fate.
Although words are small, they can warm people's hearts, but they can also hurt people deeply.
If you want to have a smooth life, you must not say the following three words easily!
Remember the last time you got angry? Did you yell and hurt people by smashing your glass?
Have you ever been hurt by a bad word from someone and your heart is so cold?
We all understand that anger is a negative emotion that can have a negative impact on our physical and mental health.
ButWhen they are angry, people tend to say bad things that not only hurt others but also affect their own destiny
Bad words hurt people in June cold",Those mean words are really hurtful when they are passed on to others
Although the cruel words of the moment are relieving, they hurt the people closest to us, and they are not beneficial to solve the problem.
No matter how close the relationship is, it will also give rise to dislikes.
To be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others. ”
Because it will only make your mood worse and will not solve the problem.
When you're angry, learn to be silent. "Impulse is the devil", only by calming down, can you say the appropriate words and make the most correct decision.
To leave room on the tongue is to bring three points of blessing to yourselfThere must be a reason for this.
There is a saying in "Zengguang Xianwen": "Those who are right and wrong must be right and wrong." ”
People always like to talk about other people's rights and wrongs, and there are many voices that tell the truth and spread rumors.
It seems that humans and animals are harmless, but in fact, it has turned into a sharp weapon to hurt others, harm oneself and others, and even affect one's own destiny.
The ancients said: "The land of right and wrong cannot stay for a long time", which means that the land of right and wrong will affect the fate of people.
No one who is right or wrong shall not be handed over. ”
People who talk about right and wrong are often narrow-minded and like to sow discord, and such people cannot be easily interacted with.
The Hotspot Engine Project "Aphorisms" has a saying: "Sit quietly and think about your own mistakes, and don't talk about others." ”Judging others willingly will only diminish one's own blessings, but will not add half of the benefits.
Don't talk about other people's business; Someone else's life, Modo participates.
Put your mind on yourselfInstead of caring for others, it is better to accumulate blessings for yourself, so that you can really manage your own life.
Lu Xun once said:
Often as soon as a person complains, things quickly move in the direction he complains. ”
Complaining is the most useless thing, which not only reduces people's ambition, but also consumes people's precious energy, and then makes people's lives fall into an unwarranted predicament.
Life won't be easy, but it's also not muddy. ”
Complaining does not solve the problem, but rather allows you to fall into negative emotions and affect your own destiny.
Destiny is in our own hands", we cannot change our birth, but we can change our destiny through our own efforts.
Things that don't go well are often a test in life, and only by experiencing setbacks can we grow better.
Learn to accept reality, change your mentality, and don't complain about others, so that you can achieve your life.
The tongue is the source of profit and harm, and the mouth is the door of blessing and misfortune. ”
Many suspicions arise because of quarrels; All misfortunes are related to words.
You must know that there is a cycle of blessings and misfortunes, and as a human being, you need to understand the principle of prudence in words and deeds.
Silence is golden", when you keep your wealth and prosper yourself.
May you stand between heaven and earth, be kind to yourself, and speak kindly to the world, don't say these three sentences for the rest of your life, the more smooth it is