The existence of a lover is like a beautiful landscape, which can seduce a man's eyeballs, retain a man's heart, and easily get a man's favor.
But the existence of a wife, in addition to taking care of the family and taking care of the children, cannot provide a man with freshness.
Living under the same roof with his wife, facing the pressure and responsibilities of life every day, and running in for a long time, the man's patience is worn out little by little.
But lovers, just like confidants, have no pressure to get along with each other at all, they can talk and laugh, and they can also share the same bed, which can provide emotional value, and they can also be greedy for freshness and can't extricate themselves.
Therefore, it is indeed true that men do not love their wives, but they love their 'lovers'.
01: Although a man doesn't love his wife, he will care about her very much
True love and marriage are two different things after all.
Most men may not love their wives for a long time and are tired of life, but they still care about their wives and their families.
This is because men have an innate sense of responsibility and responsibility. Although he doesn't love anymore, his conscience and morality don't allow him to do anything out of the ordinary.
A man will give back to his wife for all her efforts, will take care of the whole family, and will give his wife in return, but only he doesn't love anymore and can't provide affection and romance.
On the contrary, men will love their lovers more, and will take their lovers to the movies, travel, and various consumption.
But it's just the excitement and excitement of a boring life, regaining the beauty of being in love, that's all. As long as a man is willing to go home, he still cares about his wife, and he will not divorce his wife for the sake of his lover.
Therefore, a man has long been not in love with his wife, but in responsibility and responsibility, because love will disappear, and married life is boring or boring, just like a shackle.
But the only thing that remains unchanged is that men will be grateful to their wives and take care of their families, but they can no longer express any feelings.
02: Although a man loves someone, he will not marry her
Eighty percent of men basically fall in love with their lovers, but it's just a momentary novelty and excitement, that's all.
When he has had enough, the man will return home and continue to live with his wife and children.
It's like a journey, I've seen the mountains, rivers, lakes and seas, I've seen all kinds of customs, I've seen all the drunken fans, I've seen the freshness of the picture for a while, and I've enjoyed the fun for a while, then this trip should be over, continue to go back to the past, and live a down-to-earth life.
The same is true for the existence of lovers, men often like lovers, but they will not enter into marriage with lovers, because once they enter into marriage, then they are no longer romantic and eager.
But I have to admit that compared with his wife, a man is indeed more in love, he is intoxicated, haunted by his dreams, and he is greedy for the youth and charm of his lover, which happens to be something that his wife can't give.
After all, what man can refuse a young and beautiful little woman?
can accompany men to release physical and mental pressure, can please men, can satisfy all men, and does not need restraint and pressure at all, she is simply a woman that men dream of.
But the wife, except for a lot of chicken feathers and a mouth full of complaints, can't provide emotions for men, can't soothe men's tired body and mind, and can't please men.
So in the end, the lover is the yearning in a man's tired life.
Summary;
In the end, a man is still more in love, because a lover is suitable for falling in love and being a confidante, but a wife is only suitable for living, that's all.
If the wife is a glass of boiled water in ordinary life, then the lover is the rock sugar gourd in the alley, which tastes sweet and sweet.
Therefore, when a man treats his wife, it is more about responsibility and responsibility, and it is the duty of a husband rather than love.