When we go to a family gathering, do we ever find that the younger generation is particularly cold about the interaction between relatives? They would rather bow their heads and play with their phones than communicate with their elders. This makes people wonder: why are young people now reluctant to go to their relatives? Is the reason behind this the change of the times or the indifference of young people?
First of all, we need to understand that young people's attitudes towards their relatives do not happen overnight. Behind this, there is actually a profound social background. With the development of the economy and the advancement of science and technology, people's life rhythm is getting faster and faster, and the connection between family members is gradually decreasing. Young people grow up in a very different environment than the older generation, and their perception of kinship will naturally be different.
Furthermore, modern young people are more focused on personal space and privacy. In their view, too much interference and inquiries between relatives is a burden. They are more inclined to keep their distance and enjoy their independent lives. This psychological change is also an important reason why young people are reluctant to go to their relatives.
In addition, the popularity of socialization has also changed the way young people socialize to a certain extent. They prefer to find a sense of belonging and identity in the virtual world rather than socializing with relatives in real life. This new way of socializing, while convenient and quick, also makes the relationship between young people and their relatives more distant.
However, we cannot simply attribute this phenomenon to the apathy of young people. In fact, they are also trying to find a balance with their relatives. On special occasions, such as weddings or funerals, young people still choose to spend these important moments with their relatives. This shows that they are not completely rejecting kinship, but are more inclined to keep a certain distance in their daily lives.
In summary, the reluctance of young people to go to relatives is not due to a single reason. It encompasses both the influence of social context and the importance that young people place on personal space and privacy. We should respect the choices of young people, but also think about how to strengthen the connection and communication with relatives while maintaining personal space. After all, kinship is an integral part of our lives, carrying family memories and emotional bonds. It is only through understanding and inclusion that we can create a more harmonious society together.