Preface.
How much of your home is filled with things that don't sit back and don't use them often? Many people may have a lot of things in their minds now, and some items have even become "antiques" at the bottom of the box.
With the convenience of the Internet, many people have opened the online shopping mode, especially the promotion of the live broadcast room, which will empty the pockets of consumers in minutes, but can those things that are purchased online really be used?
Presumably, this answer must be no, because we have too many things that are ordered by the heat of the mind, whether it is food or daily necessities, only to find that we don't need it at all.
This kind of impulsive consumption, accounting for the majority of consumers, is also this phenomenon, in recent years, the word renunciation appeared in our lives, and slowly promoted.
In Hebei, there is such a girl, she explained to people what is the real renunciation, and at the same time received two different voices of praise and criticism from netizens, how did she give up? What does renunciation bring her?
Minimalism, comfortable living.
In a community in Shijiazhuang, Hebei Province, there is such a girl, in an 88-square-meter house, there is only a simple bed built with wooden boards, a wardrobe, a table and other 6 pieces of furniture.
Many people may think that this must be a temporary place for temporary residents, otherwise how could it be so simple, but in fact, it is not, the owner of this place has been living here for many years.
The owner of this house is a post-90s girl named Qiao Sang, who was a graduate of Peking University a few years ago and returned to Shijiazhuang in 2019 to buy the house.
Although she is young, she does not wear all kinds of beautiful clothes, high heels, and all kinds of makeup on her face every day like other girls.
From the first time you see Qiao San, it is not difficult to find that Qiao San is a capable girl who never puts a little rouge on her face, and her daily outfit is also a T-shirt, with sweatpants and a pair of sneakers.
And her wardrobe did not have layers of clothes like other girls, and even overflowed the wardrobe, and in Qiao San's wardrobe there were only a few simple clothes hanging neatly in it.
Some people may ask, whether it is living or daily necessities, are so simple, is it because her living conditions are not very good, and she does not have enough funds to buy things?
In fact, it is not, Qiao San's living conditions are not bad, and it can even be regarded as the upper middle and upper level, the reason why Qiao San's home is so simple in terms of layout and items is entirely because Qiao San is a minimalist.
Everyone is not unfamiliar with the word renunciation, and they can probably know the meaning of these words, and there were once people who agreed with the idea of renunciation very much, and longed for the life of renunciation.
But there are very few people who really put it into action, Qiao San is one of the few people, in Qiao San's eyes, everything is not too many but fine, for unnecessary things in life, she will never waste a single bit.
Therefore, when Qiao Sang bought and renovated the house, he only did simple painting of the walls and laying the floor, and when he bought furniture, he only bought the items that he had to use every day.
Although Qiao Sang's house looks empty, but after living here for a long time, you will find that the indifferent mood that slowly ignites in your heart, and it is this kind of life that makes Qiao San's every day very comfortable.
But you know what? Before Qiao San returned to Shijiazhuang, Qiao San was a completely different state of life.
Life changes, make changes.
Qiao Sang's parents have implemented the idea of raising children and rich daughters since they were young, and the living conditions are okay, so Qiao San never worried about the lack of money when he was a child, and basically Qiao San can meet whatever his parents want.
But this kind of life has not developed Qiao San's proud and arrogant character, her consumption outlook is very positive, because she knows that every penny her parents spend on her is also earned through hard work, so in order to repay her parents' dedication to her, she has secretly studied hard since she was a child.
Qiao San believes that good academic performance can not only make his parents happy, but also strive for a better life for his future, driven by this idea, Qiao San lived up to expectations and was admitted to Peking University and became a top student.
Qiao San, who first entered the university campus, in addition to her daily study and life, Qiao San found that she could make some money by reselling trinkets in her spare time, so she quickly started her own business, and slowly her trinket stall unexpectedly became popular.
At that time, with the continuous increase of Qiao Sang's income, money was a measure word for Qiao Sang, because Qiao Sang's daily consumption was completely self-sufficient, and he could buy whatever he liked, until he graduated from college, Qiao San was maintaining selling trinkets.
After graduating, Qiao San found a very good job, with a very high income, plus the income from selling jewelry every day, Qiao San didn't think about the problem of not enough money to spend, until she broke up with her boyfriend and changed her mind.
Qiao San talked about a boyfriend during college, and she thought that this boy would be the one who would accompany him for the rest of his life, but the accident still happened, and not long after graduation, her boyfriend actually proposed to break up.
And the reason for the breakup is even more absurd, her boyfriend thinks that Qiao San has been spending money lavishly, and Qiao San was even laughed at by her boyfriend for this reason, because Qiao San has earned every expense over the years.
But a breakup is a breakup, Qiao San had to face this fact, this life change, made Qiao San fall into self-doubt for a while, she began to reflect, is she really like what her boyfriend said? Coupled with the pressure of work, Qiao San is out of breath every day.
Qiao Sang's parents were distressed when they saw Qiao San so tired every day, so they proposed to let Qiao San return to his hometown in Shijiazhuang, and finally Qiao San agreed, and made another decision, that is, to buy a house in Shijiazhuang and live independently, but after having this idea, Qiao San found that although he had earned a lot over the years, he didn't even have enough down payment on the house.
At this time, Qiao San realized that her boyfriend's words were not unreasonable, but fortunately, in the end, Qiao San successfully lived in her own small home with the help of her family, but the next moving life completely changed Qiao Sang's living state.
Because Qiao San found that there were a lot of bits and pieces in the process of moving, but there were few things that were really used, looking at the things that were bought for nothing, Qiao San was distressed, and at this time Qiao San thought of a word that was to give up, and she decided to try it.
Get out of the world and reinvent yourself.
Qiao San's action is very strong, she quickly sorted out those unwanted items, and through the second-hand platform**, after cleaning up these things, her little home was tidy a lot, and after sorting out everything, Qiao San began to officially start a minimalist life.
Qiao San will exchange things that are not commonly used in daily life with her neighbors, whether it is food or use, these can be exchanged items, which makes Qiao San no longer have to worry about extra things, and it also makes her life a lot more comfortable.
Although Qiao Sang's approach made the neighbors quite uncomfortable at first, after a long time, the neighbors gradually liked this way of exchanging items, and even some neighbors would take the initiative to exchange items with Qiao Sang.
After stabilizing in Shijiazhuang, Qiao San found a relatively good job, and her means of transportation every day was the bus, but the distance from home to the stop sign was two kilometers, and many people might find an auxiliary means of transportation, but Qiao San relied entirely on her feet.
The 4 kilometers commute every day is a must-have trip for her, not only that, in order to be thrifty and not wasteful, and a healthy life, Qiao San began to break away from the army of ordering takeout, and made three meals a day by herself, and in order to buy cheap dishes, she will also take the initiative to find a stall to buy those dishes that are crowded.
Qiao San's minimalism is getting better Qiao San has calculated that her current monthly expenses are only about 300 yuan, and this lifestyle not only makes her feel restrained, but some problems that she couldn't figure out before have been solved.
In addition, Qiao San also put an end to some unnecessary social life, more time is to do yoga at home, start live broadcasts, or use reading books to pass the time, life is full and indifferent, Qiao San with his minimalist life, soon gained a lot of fans in the live broadcast account.
There are also many fans who have started a minimalist life like Qiao Sang, Qiao San was also invited by CCTV to participate in the subtraction program recording of life, Qiao San has also changed from a lifestyle that is not understood by others, and has slowly become understood and even worshiped by more people, because Qiao Sang's changes in life, not everyone has the courage.
Now Qiao San will also take his sister to travel to various places to increase his horizons, this way of life that is out of reality has allowed Qiao San to find a different self, and it is also through the minimalist life of breaking away from Qiao San that he has reshaped the now free, confident, and meaningless Qiao Sang.
Epilogue. Qiao San, who found her true self in the renunciation, has no material constraints, so that everything she does is in accordance with her inner choice, chic and free.
When the real renunciation is done, Josan learns to love herself in a better way, while also avoiding many unnecessary extra expenses and improving her quality of life.
Now Qiao San, although she is in her 30s, she does not show the edges and corners of life at all, but shows a deeper love for life and indifference to life.
On the road of renunciation, Qiao San will continue to walk, and at the same time, Qiao San is also taking more people to understand the renunciation and help those who are also confused to find their way again.
Links to previous issues.
The last "nest picker" in Yalongjiang: a catty costs 26,000, and his son would rather work than **.
Not surprisingly, after the New Year, there are 4 things to be greatly reduced, and it is recommended that you do not rush to buy them first.