My name is Lin Yu, I work as an editor at a publishing house, and I spend the rest of my life with my wife, Xu Tan. The two of us met in the spring, each other was full of joy, she was like a peach blossom in the spring, delicate, and I was like the bee around her, busy and happy.
Our beginnings were romantic, and our union was blissful. But as time passes, the trivialities of life begin to slowly wear away our feelings like sand. Lin Yu is a person who likes to manage money, he always makes a detailed plan for each month's salary, and every penny is carefully calculated. Xu Tan is a person who spends money like flowing water, she believes that life should live in the present, and money is something outside the body.
Our days were spent in such contradictions, Lin Yu accused Xu Tan of not being able to live, and Xu Tan laughed at Lin Yu for being too stingy. Our marriage is like a third-class couple, each counting his own money and not willing to compromise for the other.
Second-class couples save money together, but we can't even agree on how to spend it. Lin Yu hopes that we can be like those first-class couples, but Xu Tan thinks that we are not even second-class, we are just birds in the same tree, each flying in our own sky.
The conflict intensified that night, Lin Yu was furious that Xu Tan had bought an expensive gift for her friend without his consent. Xu Tan felt that Lin Yu was too stingy and was furious for a gift.
That night, we all said hurtful things to each other, Lin Yu said that Xu Tan was a dou who couldn't be helped, and Xu Tan said that Lin Yu was a robot without emotion. We are sad for each other, we are angry for each other. That night, for the first time, we didn't sleep in the same bed.
In the days that followed, we were like two strangers, cold and alienated from each other. I began to reflect on our marriage, and I began to think about why we were the way we were. I remember when we first got married, we were so sweet and so in love with each other.
I began to wonder if our marriage was like the bird in the tree, flying so high that we forgot each other's warmth. I began to wonder if our marriage was like the couple who counted the money, only seeing the money, but not each other's hearts.
I started trying to change, I started trying to communicate with Xu Tan. I told her that I wanted us to be like a first-class couple. I told her that I hoped we could save money together and share the joy of life together.
Xu Tan also began to reflect, and she began to try to change. She started learning how to manage money and started trying to understand my thoughts. Our marriage began to take a turn for the better, and our relationship began to ease.
I began to understand that marriage is like a bird in a tree, and only by relying on each other can we fly higher. I began to understand that marriage is like a husband and wife counting money, and only by understanding each other can they count more happily.
I also began to understand that marriage is like our life, and we can only go further if we learn to compromise. I also began to understand that marriage is like our life, and only by learning to understand can we live a happier life.
At the end of the story, I would like to say that marriage is like a bird in a tree, flying too high and easily forgetting each other's warmth. Marriage is like a couple who count money, counting too much, it is easy to forget each other's hearts.
I hope we can be like a first-class couple, with a heartfelt heart. I hope we can save money together and share the joy of life together. I hope we can be like the birds in the tree, flying higher, but not forgetting each other's warmth. I hope we can be like the couple who count the money, counting happily, but not losing each other's hearts.
Life is like a play, and husband and wife are like birds in the tree. Fly too high, and it's easy to forget each other's warmth. If you count too much, it's easy to forget each other's hearts. I hope we can be like a first-class couple, with a heartfelt heart. Save money together and share the joy of life together.